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Time Off for Good Behavior: How Hardworking Women Can Take a Break and Change Their Lives [Hardcover]

Mary Lou Quinlan (Author)
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January 11, 2005
Have you ever fantasized about taking time away from your overworked life? Nights uninterrupted by email? Days to pursue set-aside dreams? Do you promise yourself that “someday” you will get a break?

Mary Lou Quinlan had those “someday” thoughts. But her hard-earned job as CEO of a New York advertising agency claimed most of her waking hours. Exhausted and losing motivation, she was so desperate she perversely imagined breaking her leg to get some time alone. Then, she declared a brief timeout. During her time off, she slept late, took walks, danced the salsa, kept a journal and ultimately, uncovered the roots of a new business. In the process, she rediscovered herself.

Time Off for Good Behavior is the result of listening to women like her, who realized enough was enough. Quinlan tells the stories of dozens of women who sacrificed their health, relationships, their good humor and a good night’s sleep until they found the courage to ask themselves if they were happy with the life they were living and made the decisions to take a life-saving break.

Mary Lou Quinlan explores the factors that compel you to work so hard and examines how to take back control of your life. She explores our unwillingness to give ourselves permission to rest so that we can re-imagine our futures. And she shows the powerful, self-fulfilling changes that can occur when we do decide to take that rest.

Whether you contemplate leaving a career that took years to build or just need a long vacation to assess what you want next, you’ll find practical tools and bolstering advice throughout. Each chapter ends with provocative questions to help you plan your good behavior reprieve. Specific exercises on financial planning, advice for negotiating time off, and tools to uncover your passions make this a must-read for women who are ready for “someday.”

Time off for Good Behavior ultimately shows that stepping away from everything—even for a short while—often means ending up with so much more.


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From Publishers Weekly

"Type A good girls" are the intended audience for this energetic but disjointed rumination on the transformative power of time off. Once a CEO of an advertising agency, Quinlan took a life-changing five-week break and then promptly started her own consulting company. Encouraging women not to bury personal happiness under career success, she offers anecdotes from 37 women who had similar time-off epiphanies, worksheets designed to spur readers to action (e.g., "Working Too Hard? Feeling the Burn?") and her own bubbly advice. For readers unable to quit or take long breaks, she suggests angling for flexible hours at work. She also recommends that her readers "develop a financial plan with an advisor and update it every year." Quinlan's cheerleading tone would work brilliantly in an auditorium, and the examples she draws from her own life are enlightening. But a cutesy tone (the term "good girl" appears on nearly every page) and a tendency to gloss over the nitty-gritty of life changes (just how did Isa quit her job to found her own fire dancing studio?) makes this more an inspirational text than a guide.
Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.

From Booklist

Quinlan (Just Ask a Woman, 2003) is all about work burnout among women, yet statistic after statistic (for instance, in 2003, employers recorded $21 billion in unused vacation days) moves her thesis to higher levels. She sticks to her guns, though, by profiling 37 women who have quit, taken a sabbatical, or transitioned into new jobs and new lives, plus she generously hands readers the tools (e.g., end-of-chapter questionnaires) to do the same. Much of her book is psycho-prescriptive, targeting the so-called type A "good girls" who take care of others but not themselves. Profiling complete, she adds diagnosis and remedies with specific steps to be taken with employees and selves. But will anyone truly listen? Barbara Jacobs
Copyright © American Library Association. All rights reserved

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Crown Archetype; 1 edition (January 11, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0767918312
  • ISBN-13: 978-0767918312
  • Product Dimensions: 9.3 x 6.3 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (16 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,261,874 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

CEO Mary Lou Quinlan is an internationally recognized marketing strategist with 30 years experience advising blue chip clients. She's the author of two rule-changing books "Just Ask a Woman" and "Time Off for Good Behavior" and has written for national women's magazines, been a correspondent for CBS News and a primetime ABC-TV personality.

 

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Sometimes we need know it's o.k. to cry "uncle.", February 17, 2005
This review is from: Time Off for Good Behavior: How Hardworking Women Can Take a Break and Change Their Lives (Hardcover)
As I was reading this book, I felt like I had met my soul mate. I, too, am a Type-A "good girl." ("You need this report by Friday, would Thursday be better?") Fortunately for me, I was forced into a sabbatical before I really knew that I needed one (and then, of course, spent the next two years struggling with the fact that I had my entire identity wrapped up in my job/career, that only now am I beginning to enjoy life). I was floored when Mary Lou wrote about being so tired that incurring enough injuries to require a stay in the hospital (without being life-threatening) seemed an attractive way to take a break from the craziness. That thought had crossed my mind more times than I would like to admit. If you're thinking about taking time off, or are so tired that you can't even think, then you might want to pick this book up. Even if you can't financially swing a sabbatical, it's helpful to understand that you are not alone in feeling overwhelmed with your life.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent advice - for both men and woman, January 11, 2005
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I have reviewed books for a major business magazine for over a year now, and I think this is one of the best I have seen. I worry, however, that the package makes this appear to be only for women. I think a lot of stressed-out men (particularly attorney friends of mine) will find some real inspiration and an action plan for taking control of what little life they have.

Some may think this is all pie-in-the-sky stuff, but it's achievable with a little pragmatism. Read it and see if you don't agree.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A Potentially Life Changing Book, February 27, 2005
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If you are a hard-charging, hard-working professional woman who takes her laptop to the beach, you will recognize yourself in Time Off for Good Behavior. I could identify with many of the Type A "good girl" women Quinlan describes. She's right on target. She makes you think about your daily life in a whole new way. And, afterall, this is first step in making a change.
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