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Today's Swingers: The Complete Guide to Successful Swinging

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We have talked to many people, on the subject of swinging. Todate we have met dozens of "couples" with GREAT attitudes towards swinging (together) the couple in this book seem not to have put any time into their relationship at all. Swingers in general seem to have found their "soulmates". Swinging in this book was used to simply have sex with other people, not to have an experiance with their spouse. If we had not talked to other couples before reading this book, we would have been mislead and discouraged from entering into the lifestyle. Due to the shortage of good swinging books this couple was able to publish a book. I recommend you try going to "irc.dalnet.net" and joining "swingers" and ask your questions there.

We have been in the Swing Lifestyle now for more than seven years. The way Swing is described in this book is outrageous. We DON'T recommend it to anyone. Maybe in the 60's during the "wife swapping" days did these sexual only relationships occur. But in the 90's, Swing "The Lifestyle" is much more than dark room, no-name sex. We do vacations, kids ball games, birthday parties, pretty much everything most "Straight Couples" would do, but we also share our sexuality. This is not what Swing is all about. Swing in the 90's is having a relationship that is so strong and secure, you can explore sexuality outside the relationship without insecurity and jealousy. END

We have been in the lifestyle for 5 years. We have never been so insulted as we are by this book. Our expeirience has been a very positive one. We have formed very deep and caring relationships with our friends who share our lifestyle. We confide and trust in one another. I think the authors need to re-evaluate thier lives, because they have missed the boat on this one!