TOO NICE FOR YOUR OWN GOOD:
How to Stop Making 9 Self-Sabotaging Mistakes
"I hope many people will read this book and benefit from its honesty, eloquence and wisdom."
Rabbi Harold S. Kushner, author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People and How Good do We Have to Be?"
"Highly readable, insightful, and compassionate...Duke Robinson extracts powerful, eminently practical lessons for everyday living from sound psychological principles."
Martin V. Covington, professor of psychology. University of California at Berkeley
"His eloquent message is addressed to all who are striving to live good lives...an upbeat and honest message."
The Library Journal
"Profound, provocative, and practical...A thoughtful and deeply felt gift to all of us who get caught between the goodness of our hearts and our own naivete."
Shirley Nice, The Corporate Coach
"Do-gooders: Here's why you burn out...In this book, Robinson shows how too much of a good thing can lead to emotional and physical exhaustion."
New Orleans Times-Picayune
"The wit and wisdom of Duke Robinson is about to become national knowledge. And he does more than simply analyze the mistakes we all make as nice persons. Attention to this very readable and practical book can make a good difference in the way we live."
Paul H. Gertmenian, CEO, Henry Gertmenian Co.
"The mistakes described in this book are like the common cold...Duke Robinson has done a masteful job defeating these emotional viruses...Reading this book and taking it seriously could save hundreds of hours in therapy, and it's a lot more fun."
Dr. Robert R. Ball, executive director, the State of California's Self-Esteem Task Force, and author of Walking on Water
"A 'how-to' book that breaks new ground...and shares unexpected new approaches that can open doors to more creative living."
Robert McAfee Brown, author, professor emeritus, Pacific School of Religion, Berkeley, CA
"Robinson's nine chapters turn the qualities of niceness inside out: 'trying to be perfect,' 'taking on too much,' 'not saying what you want,' ' suppressing anger,' 'reasoning with irrationality,' 'telling little lies,' 'giving advice,' 'rescuing others,' and 'protecting those in grief. Sound familiar? He says he can help you get over it without becoming an ogre."
The Dallas Morning Newspapers
"I wish this book had come along earlier in my career...These practical steps toward authenticity help us put our lives in order and feel good about it."
Darrell Floyd, retired human resources manager, Nissan Motor Corporation, USA
"An unsentimental blueprint for complete living as well as a provocation to the highest humanity in all of us."
Leroy Aarons, founder and board member, National Gay and Lesbian Journalists Association and author of Prayers for Bobby
"A superb book...transforming...In clear and simple language, Dr. Robinson shows how being 'nice' often means living by a tyranny of expectations."
Stanley F. Hogle, former executive director, Interface-Samaritan Counseling Centers
"Duke Robinson's book on 'mistakes made by nice people' is a big hit. He shows so clearly how niceness keeps us from growing and dealing honestly with one another."
In November 2000, Time Warner published this paperback version of Duke Robinson's award-winning book, TOO NICE FOR YOUR OWN GOOD: How to Stop Making 9 Self-Sabotaging Mistakes. It has appeared in thirteen languages and as an early Kindle book. It continues to sell briskly just about everywhere.
His second non-fiction book, CREATE YOUR BEST LIFE: How to Live Fully Knowing One Day You Will Die, appeared in December 2011.
In September 2012, he published his first novel, SAVIOR: An Old Notion in a New Novel of Unthinkable Absurdity.
Robinson graduated in 1950 from suburban Philadelphia's Haverford High School. He holds a BA degree in philosophy (1954) from Wheaton College near Chicago, and a Masters of Divinity degree (1958), from Louisville Presbyterian Theological Seminary. He has lived since 1960, in the East Bay of Northern California.
For 28 years before retiring to writing, Robinson led Oakland's progressive Montclair Presbyterian Church. For several years during that ministry he also served part-time as an adjunct professor at San Francisco Theological Seminary, from which he holds an earned doctorate (1979). Prior to retiring in 1996, he was known widely as a speaker and appeared frequently on Northern California television.
Since 2000, he has lived in Rossmoor, an active adult community in Walnut Creek, CA, thirty miles east of San Francisco. Barbara, his beloved wife of 54 years died in 2008 (He writes of her dying, and of his almost dying in 2009, in this book, CREATE YOUR BEST LIFE). He has four mature children, nine wonderful grandchildren and two super-great, great-grandsons, one three and one newly born. Robinson hit 80 on January 27, 2013.
In April 2014, he published A MIDDLE WAY: The Secular/Spiritual Road to Wholeness.
"During 2015," he says about his fifth book, "I have been completing my memoir, STANDING ON MY HEAD WITH MY FLY OPEN (No, no, I wrote sitting at my PC, that's the name of the book). I'm aiming to publish it this fall."
The one thing that got me excited right off the bat was that this was a pastor, who after hearing from his parishioners, discovered a connection of being nice in the wrong... Read morePublished 21 days ago by Owl_Lady
Really loved this book, as it deal with core aspects of human psychology in an easy to understand manner. Read morePublished 1 month ago by Dark Star
This book was very dry, hard to read. There is nothing new or insightful in this book. I wish I could get my money back.Published 4 months ago by Ima Bookreader
This book is well written and really hit home for what exactly many of us go through and see the world through. Read morePublished 4 months ago by Riverrunner
Author explains why people grow to be too nice, but really doesn't seem to offer any solutions. Buy used.
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Boy, this book really hit the spot with me and with my potential areas of improvement. This book explores and identifies all the reasons some of us are "too nice for our own... Read morePublished 6 months ago by Arizonadesertgirl