Total Flirt: Tips, Tricks, and Techniques Every Girl Needs to Get the Guy [Paperback]

Violet Blue (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: March 1, 2011

Ever wish you had a cheat sheet for flirting? Total Flirt is the hip girl's handbook to getting any guy you want. With the techniques in Total Flirt, no guy will ever be "out of your league." 

 

Know how some girls seem to have secret tricks to get guys? And guys use tricks like "The Game" to get girls? Well, here they are. This is Girl Game. 

 

Total Flirt is packed with tricks and tips for every situation you'll encounter when out on the prowl. Secrets of pick-up artists are explained and styled for the girl who wants more out of life. 

 

Spend 20 minutes with Total Flirt and learn: 

• Two distinctive ways to flirt, and why you need to know the difference. 
• Total Flirt relies on the science of kinesics, the study of body language and its hidden messages: learn how to communicate magnetism and seduce your target - or get rid of someone -  without words. 
• Take style quizzes to see what kind of flirt you are, and what kind you could be. 
• Master the art of "speed flirting" and how to tell if he's worth it. 
• Get oodles of conversation starters - and exit strategies when you need to hit the "eject" button.
• Find out how to tell if he's really into you (or just a friend), and how to eliminate the competition.  
• Learn how to walk like a siren, talk like a bombshell, and seduce like a vamp -- learn how to do it on Twitter, email, social networks and more. 
• How to get guys you think are "out of your league." 

This fun and breezy purse-sized "pocket wingmate" is perfect for girls who just wanna have fun, and those looking for "the one." The Total Flirt is from sexuality expert and bestselling author Violet Blue - formulated from years of research, studies, and infiltration of male and female pick-up artist societies. 

Editorial Reviews

Review

"The kissing bible!" — National Love and Relationships Examiner

"Flirting has always been an art, not an exact science. Total Flirt: Tips, Tricks, & Techniques Every Girl Needs to Get the Guy is a guide for women to take their hunt for a man into their own hands, on how to pick up on cues from their desire and how to drop some cues themselves. Stating that body language is a major part but actual language goes far on top of it, Total Flirt is a must for any woman who wants to take control of their hunt for love." - James A. Cox, Editor-in-Chief, Wisconsin Bookwatch

From the Author

Learn how to flirt. The Total Flirt is fun and funny and sweet, but it takes no prisoners -- unless it's the sexy one you're intereted in catching. It also teaches you how to get out of awkward flirting situations, exit lines and strategies, and how to know when they guy you're flirting with is a bad idea. 

 

Total Flirt is a guide we smart girls have been waiting for. Finally: A real flirting, pick-up arts, and hookup guide for girls who want to get what they want. Every woman: from the shy and nerdy to the brazen or even the girl who wants to know what to say to that hottie who makes her blood run hot. And keep the conversation going: At parties, in cafes, online, anywhere. It also teaches us how to turn the tables on guys trying to trick us with "mind control" techniques -- or even use their techniques to our advantage. I had a lot of fun telling you exactly how to use their "secrets" to get what you want. 

 

In the back of the book, I put instructions to get a free special bonus chapter by visiting thetotalflirt.com and entering a secret code (it's in the book!) to get your prize - more essential flirting info, advanced tips, and more. 

 

Look for the Total Flirt app for Apple and Android, a "pocket wingmate" that guides you like a best friend through in-person flirting situations. I've had a lot of fun writing, researching and dreaming up smooth ways to make flirting and picking up hotties easy and super-fun.  

 

Remember: it's always better to be flirty than forgotten.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 202 pages
• Publisher: Viva Editions (March 1, 2011)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1573446467
• ISBN-13: 978-1573446464
• Product Dimensions: 6.9 x 4.9 x 0.6 inches
• Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 2.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #849,061 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

The London Times named Blue "one of the 40 bloggers who really count"

"Violet Blue is omnipresent on the Web." -Forbes

"Violet Blue is the leading sex educator for the Internet generation." --Webnation

"America's leading (very) public intellectual sexologist, Violet Blue." --The Institute for Ethics and Emerging Technologies

Violet Blue (tinynibbles.com) is a top 25 Forbes "Web Celeb" and one of Wired's "Faces of Innovation." Blue is regarded as the foremost sexuality and technology futurist and sex-positive pundit in mainstream media (such as The Oprah Winfrey Show, CNN, Attack of The Show and The Tyra Banks Show). A published feature writer and columnist for CBSi/ZDNet, Violet also has many award-winning, best selling books. Her books are featured on Oprah's website.

She is regularly interviewed, quoted and featured prominently by major publications and media outlets including Wired (and Wired UK), Newsweek, MSNBC, The Wall Street Journal, NPR, Salon.com, BBC, CNN, The New York Times, The Los Angeles Times, Cinematical, PBS: Mediashift, CBS, The History Channel, Esquire, Jane, Maxim, Marie Claire and more. Violet is the author and editor of over thirty award-winning, best selling books and was the notorious sex columnist for the San Francisco Chronicle. She is a renowned blogger, high-profile tech personality, the first female podcaster, currently a reporter for long-running web TV show Geek Entertainment Television, and professional speaker, including two Google Tech Talks at Google, Inc.

Violet Blue's many books have won numerous awards and accolades and have been translated into seven languages. Blue connects with an audience of over 7 million a month with her podcast "Open Source Sex", named for the intersection of technology and sex, and the free-flowing information exchange of the open source software movement.

Forbes called her podcast "One of the Internet's most popular podcasts."

In addition to mainstream media features and guest blogging for sites such as Laughing Squid, Blue writes for media outlets such as Forbes, O: The Oprah Magazine, MacLife, and UN sponsored international health organization, RH Reality Check. She has contributed essays to eleven nonfiction books about sex and culture, and has been cited and quoted as a sex and future tech expert in print outlets ranging from Wired UK's "Experts Predict The Future" feature to David Levy's "Love + Sex With Robots."

Violet lectures about Internet sexuality to cyberlaw classes at UC Berkeley (Boalt; Samuelson Law Clinic), human sexuality programs at UCSF, volunteers as an advisor and instructor about sexual health and human sexuality to sex crisis counselors at community teaching institutions. She is considered an expert in the field of sex and technology, and has been invited to speak about the topic at conferences ranging from O'Reilly's ETech, Gnomedex, LeWeb and SXSW: Interactive and has given two Google Tech Talks at Google, Inc.

Oft-quoted and sourced, Violet has been a published writer in the field of sex and culture since 1999, was the first female podcaster and is a respected digital privacy advocate.