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23 of 24 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Fishhook in the guts,
By Aquautumn (New England, USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Touched (Paperback)
This book hit me like the legendary "ton of bricks". I'm an adult male who had an experience similar to Robbie's, at a similar age. I don't know how this author managed to capture the experience, but reading the book (I've gone through it twice so far) was, for me at least, a frightening and yet healing journey back in time.I emphatically disagree with the May 14, 2001 reviewer who stated: "I was more than a little disgusted by his seemingly fond memories of his molestation and how he mentioned it as an 'affair' he had when he was young..." Read Robbie's section again. What makes you think he has fond memories of the episode? Here's a young man who cannot emotionally connect to anyone around him - parents, coworkers, (ex)girlfriend. He's drifting through life, wanting to touch and be touched, but he can't. Robbie's wounds are subtle but finally devastating. He's still living in that bus station; he can't find the door out. Like Robbie, as a college-age adult I told a couple of my girlfriends about the experience; like him, I told it as a "wow, strange but cool, huh?" story. I now know that's just another way of disconnecting, pretending it didn't matter. Campbell got it just right. Absolutely authentic. Absolutely tragic. Reading Jerry's (the "boylover") point of view was especially profound as well. I understand better how perpetrators feel and think. He clearly couldn't help being attracted to young boys, but Campbell shows just as clearly that he consciously chose to act on that attraction. I felt sorry for Jerry, but ultimately, his fate was the direct result of his own deliberate choices. Young boys (yes, even before puberty) are curious about sex, just like fish are curious about the fishhook. Only adults can guard them against a lifetime of feeling that barb in their guts. The word "Touched" is used by the author to convey multiple meanings. Add another facet: This book touched me profoundly, in multiple ways. I recommend "Touched" to all who wish to understand, and particularly to survivors of "boylove" experiences.
11 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
A surprisingly good read,
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This review is from: Touched (Hardcover)
I bought this book more than a year ago and I finally got around to reading it. I found it to be thoroughly satisfying, unsettling, and very precise in its characterizations. Unlike other reviewers, I found the section told from Robbie's perspective (the boy that was molested) to be very plausible. Certainly, there are those who have been sexually abused and would consider Robbie's reaction to be anomalous, even "fiction." But we are all individuals and we all experience things differently.I'm a journalist that covers the courts, and I've witnessed many intergenerational criminal sex cases. I even roomed with a man who told me about when he was molested at age 12 by an older man, how at the time he was a willing participant. And I've witnessed cases that leave me with no doubt about the predatory visciousness of the perpetrator or the shameful harm inflicted on the child. This book is merely a snapshot of a very complex phenomenon, albeit a very good snapshot. Love it, hate it, think it puerile or simplistic, whatever your reaction may be to this book, it is exceptional in its ability to provoke thought.
13 of 15 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Emotional and Powerful,
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This review is from: Touched (Paperback)
'Touched' is as well written as it can be. It is told from four distinct points of view, all of which bring us closer to what really happened between a grown man and a young boy. The most touching, yet disturbing, of the views comes from the molester himself. Unable to help himself, he finds he has somehow fallen completely in love with a neighborhood child. How this came to be, and all that lies before and after, soon becomes painfully clear. This is not an easy read. At times you find yourself flinching from the honesty and pain the characters reveal in their lives. Yet it should be read, if only for the way the author is able to convey a shocking, disturbing crime in realistic and non-judgemental terms. The title 'Touched' seems at first exactly like it sounds. As you read, you find that word showing up again and again in many different ways. It is up to you to interpret the meaning. Is it literal, being touched physically? Is it the way we can all touch each others lives emotionally? Is it about being a touch off in the mind? This novel finds many ways to get under your skin. The ending is the only downside in an otherwise tremendous work. As we see Robbie as an adult, he seems less vulnerable and harder in a way. His anger is understandable, but it is offset from the tone of the rest of the story. As it stands, though, this is a powerful work that demands to be read.
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