I won't waste space here describing the book, as others here have already given great reviews with all the details of the background and characters. I will say that I picked up this book in a large bookstore, intrigued by the title, the Lebanese flag on the jacket, and the hope that it would be a story of the inevitable clash of culture in the Arab-American family. As the American half of an Lebanese-American family, I initially wanted to love it. I admit I quite often found it as hard to put down as it was hard to keep reading. I literally threw it across the room at one point, as I began to hate how this young girl's life was evolving. I was also once a thirteen year-old girl, and I agree with the other reviewers that Jasira's narrative makes her seem much younger than that. However, her sad existence up to that point (the product of the world's most selfish parents) almost make it understandable. She is so starved for atttention, that I knew immediately as I read, what would happen to her. I also realized that this was so much less a novel about her culture (or, rather, the culture of her father), and more a novel about her sexual awakening, and her search for love and attention. Therefore, the title really seems out of place. Her ethnicity is really not a part of the book, and as her features or appearance is never really described, it makes one wonder why others would taunt her with such a name. I, like many other reviewers here, was also amazed that the glaring error of claiming Lebanon as a North African country passed by the editors, and not once, but several times! The writer should know, as well, that most Lebanese Christians do not even identify themselves with Arab culture at all. Naming a child after Yasir Arafat simply would not happen in a Christian Lebanese family.
I would recommend this book only to those who are not bothered by graphic sexual descriptions, and to those who are not (like I was) looking for a book about Arab-Americans and their experiences. As a coming-of-age story, it is touching, and it does stay with you long after you finish.