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Transformative Love: A Healing Guide for Intimate Relationships

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Occasionally great things come to us in small packages. This book is a big gem in a small number of pages. Transformative Love answers the questions we all ask in loving one another. How do I find true love? What if my partner is not that into me? How do I stay intimate with my partner? What if I am not getting what I want? These and other key issues in love - are addressed in plain, clear language. There are simple and fun activities for partners to do together. Finally there are chapters dealing with loss of love and self-love, two parts of loving where most of us need support.
The simplicity of the teachings and practical advice in this little book make it easy for anyone to pick up and use.
A great guide for anyone wanting love, anyone in a relationship and anyone recovering from the loss of a relationship.

Transformative Love is one of the most helpful books on relationships I have ever read. It really spoke to me. It gives great advise on how to choose a partner, create intimacy, work through anger, and heal wounds between partners. A great part of the book is that it gives exercises that you can do with a partner to build trust and intimacy. To anyone who is looking to heal the separation they feel from a partner or who would like to become closer, I would highly recommend this book.

A quick read that flows like a good conversation. Mr. Elfinstone's unique insights revealed to me new possibilities of what a loving relationship could be. This book imparts his wisdom and applicable tools providing a clear path forward. His framework guided me through important reflection and critical conversations in my relationship that have allowed both me and my partner a higher understanding of ourselves, each other and how we interact together. It begins by helping us to understand what unmet needs we are looking to fulfill in our relationships. Identifying these patterns, allows us to truly free our hearts for true "transformative love."

Well-worth the short time investment! I found the best way to absorb the gift of this book was to read one short chapter at a time and allow a day or two to really think about and apply it's offering before moving on to the next. Enjoy!

"Transformative Love" is a fabulous book that has helped me immeasurablly in my relationship. It is written succintly with honesty and humor. Mr. Elfinstone's experience and wisdom are quite evident and easily imparted to the reader. I can't recommend this book strongly enough if you are working on a relationship now or hoping to create a solid one for the future. This book can truly "transform" your life.

Transformative Love is an easy read and well worth it. My concept of Love was challenged and broadened by reading this book. It has practical suggestions about choosing, being in, and building relationships. It also connects relationships with deeper threads of life and meaning-particularly about loving- that ground relationships in our broader lives and life journeys, rather than seeing them as isolated segments of our lives. If we really get what the author is writing about, we will not only have healthy relationships, but we'll love and value ourselves and our connection with a force of love much more powerful than can come from any one person.

Transformative Love is an unusually valuable book that everyone should have the chance to read. The author offers incredibly valuable practical tips that will resonate with everyone...we have all been in relationship with all sorts of people. Stated simply, clearly and powerfully are guiding principles that will honestly change your life and relationships for the better. Certainly it brought me a greater sense of well being and deeper self-appreciation aswell as appreciation for the relationships currently in my life, while allowing me to truly understand the value of all those in the past. I'm giving it to everyone I know for the holidays...you may want to too! Willa Dew