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Transforming Anger: The Heartmath Solution for Letting Go of Rage, Frustration, and Irritation

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I am so thankful that I found this book. I had fallen into a terrible pattern of screaming uncontrollably at my kids and then later having to apologize. My kids were afraid of me and how I would react. This book made sense to me from page one. Every page has been an "Ah-ha" moment of how I have conditioned my heart and mind to respond with anger. It has been so worth the money. I am now using the teachniques and ideas from the book to recondition my heart and mind to respond more calmly. My kids and husband have noticed a difference. And I definitely have. I feel so much better physically and mentally (less outburts mean less guilt and shame for how my anger was affecting my kids). I highly recommend this book for anyone who is looking for real and doable ways to reduce your anger. Good luck!

This book builds on the most recent research from the Institute of HeartMath about the connections between the heart, nervous system, and emotional processing. It promotes a type of biofeedback application called FreezeFrame which uses heart rhythm coherence monitoring with emotional skill-building techniques to help handle anger, anxiety, and other negative emotional reactions. By integrating the body (especially the heart and nervous system) with subconscious emotional processing and conscious awareness a holistic model of resolving emotional issues is outlined. This approach is quite valuable, and both experimental and clinical evidence are increasingly showing the superiority of mind-body approaches as compared to drugs and talk-oriented therapies. A new book by a University of Pittsburgh doctor called "Instinct To Heal" discusses this trend further. In fact, my own clinical observations lead me to conclude that medications tend to perpetuate psychological difficulties, as they merely repress natural symptoms produced by the mind-body feedback system and often trigger further impairment of internal balancing mechanisms. Just as people can feel "better" while they are taking alcohol and other recreational drugs [especially when they have ongoing access to drugs to avoid the withdrawal phase], people will often feel better under the influence of prescribed psychotropics, not realizing that they are just suppressing a natural feedback system and temporarily escaping from an opportunity for healing and integration. Once the drugs wear off you can have major problems in addition to any immediate adverse effects that may have been triggered by drug use. Fortunately, HeartMath techniques can be used with or without medications or any other types of therapies and interventions, and I suspect that they would be very useful in helping people wean themselves from drugs by helping restore the body's natural coherence and regulatory abilities. The HeartMath approach can provide lasting emotional healing and is supported by solid research, some of which has significant implications about the nature of consciousness and reality that challenge status quo beliefs in the healing arts and sciences. This book explains the HeartMath research and therapeutic approach clearly, and anyone seeking more information about the technology and software can visit the Institute's web site.

i gave this as a gift to my brother who gets angry easily, it brought tears to his eyes and he's much better now. we all have stress and anxiety and it's killing us slowly whether we know it or not. the heartmath approach to dealing with stress and anxiety is excellent. highly recommended for ALL! :)

Every person who is affected by stress needs to read this book. Simple tools that could literally save you from serious health problems. I have referred this book to many people and bought copies for family members. You CAN find time to read this book.

I have only recently received this book but from the beginning of it, I have learned tons. There are many things in this book that I had never heard before on how to manage anger. I have been practicing some of the lessons and have found that they work well, but it won't happen overnight. I know this will help me.

The authors explained the basic of anger and then went through a logical process of how to deal with anger. The process was realistic and manageable for a person. Each step of the process provided excellent examples and suggestions on how a person would track his/her behaviors. I intend to use the concepts presented. I would recommend this book everyone.

This is a book everyone on earth should read. It is short, with years and years of medical research of the way our bodies think. In order to change the world, you have to understand your world. A hint in the book is your heart thinks way more than your brain. There are way more nerve going from the heart to the brain than brain to the heart. Your whole body is a thinking. You have to know research and how your others parts think over your brain to change habits that can be changed in this book. Short and sweet.

As a family therapist I have found these techniques to be usable in session for clients. I use these techniques myself and have benefitted immensely. I have been able to help people change their hearts when nothing else was working by using this book. I also like EMDR and emotional freedom technique and use many of their techniques when talking isn't enough.

I am using the EmWave along with reading this book. It's been most helpful in reducing stress. The EmWave is a pocket size heart monitor that takes your pulse and equates it with how your heart reacts to positive and negative thinking. This book hits home as it uses real life thinking patterns that if continually used will eventually map a person's everyday thinking. So, if you're a negative thinker, your heart and mind eventually get mapped into thinking negatively. And who wants to be around negative people. This book helps a person "re-map" their heart and mind into a more positive attitude. With all the stress the news reports everyday, this book along with the EmWave will help to reduce the stress, be happy and of course, have better relationships.

Loved this book.
Great information to deal with anger issues.
Packaged great.
Arrived on time.
I got an A on my presentation.