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Transition: The Story of How I Became a Man [Hardcover]

Chaz Bono
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Book Description

May 10, 2011
Chaz Bono's groundbreaking and candid account of a forty-year struggle to match his gender identity with his physical body and his transformation from female to male

At first, America knew the only child of Sonny and Cher as Chastity, the cherubic little girl who appeared on her parents' TV show. In later years, she became famous for coming out on a national stage, working with two major organizations toward LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) rights and publishing two books. And just within the past eighteen months, Chaz Bono has entered the public consciousness as the most high-profile transgender person ever.

All through the hoopla surrounding his change, Chaz has insisted on maintaining his privacy. Now, in Transition, Chaz finally tells his story. Part One traces his decision to transition, beginning in his childhood-when he played on the boys' teams and wore boys' clothing whenever possible-and going through his painful, but ultimately joyful, coming out in his twenties, up to 2008, when, after the death of his father, drug addiction, and five years of sobriety, Chaz was finally ready to begin the process of changing his gender. In Part Two, he offers an unprecedented record in words and photographs of the actual transition, a real-time diary as he navigates uncharted waters. These chapters capture the day-to-day momentum of his life as his body changes.

Throughout the book, Chaz touches on themes of identity, gender, and sexuality; parents and children; and how harboring secrets shatters the soul. It is an amazing contribution to our understanding of a much- misunderstood community.

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“A universal story, one to which all readers can relate: the individual’s search for self.”
(-New York Journal of Books)

Transition is not only about the journey from female to male; more importantly, it’s about the journey from fear to courage. Chaz Bono is my new hero.”
(- Jennifer Finney Boylan, author of She���s Not There) --This text refers to the Paperback edition.

About the Author

Chaz Bono lives with his partner in Los Angeles.
--This text refers to the Paperback edition.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Dutton Adult; First Edition edition (May 10, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0525952144
  • ISBN-13: 978-0525952145
  • Product Dimensions: 6.4 x 1.1 x 9.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (45 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #513,707 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Customer Reviews

Thanks for sharing your story Chaz. L. Young  |  9 reviewers made a similar statement
I read this book in just a few days, as I could not seem to put it down!!!!!! J. R. Evans  |  8 reviewers made a similar statement
All in all an enjoyable truly honest read. Linda  |  9 reviewers made a similar statement
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50 of 54 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A Brave Tale May 14, 2011
Format:Hardcover
For someone as high profile as Chaz to come out with such an honest book about his life is stunning. While other children of famous parents struggle with identity issues, he had the added burden of knowing he was born in the wrong body. I watched his struggles on "Celebrity Weight Loss" and also the documentary on OWN. I really wanted to read about this remarkable human being in his own words and I am so glad I did. Heartfelt and very readable, the book outlines struggles with identity and revelation. If ever anyone had a doubt about transgender being a "real" condition, this book should erase that. Terrific autobiography of a fascinating person. Kudos.
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44 of 51 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Lots of honesty spoken here! May 12, 2011
By Linda
Format:Hardcover
I thoroughly enjoyed this book. I decided to read it after I watched Becoming Chaz on OWN which I liked very much. I found it very sad that Chaz lived his life so afraid of what other people think and denying himself who he really was. It certainly must have been a very hard struggle. Having lots of therapy myself I know you can only push feelings down for so long. I myself am learning how to be my true self and not caring what other people think. Chaz seems like a really wonderful person. I love his facial expressions too!!! I do wish I had such an understanding mother as Cher. Times are very different now anything goes. All in all an enjoyable truly honest read. Recommended.
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19 of 21 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars The most courageous and inspiring story ever... May 19, 2011
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All memoirs should aspire to this. This is a story of someone who had the sense of self and fearlessness to fully realize that by hiding or sublimating any part of their true self would only bring sadness and an incomplete life. What is most remarkable (to me) is that Chaz not only was and is true to himself, but brings his struggle (and triumph!) out publicly so that the struggle of others will be lessened. Even if you do not have the same issues, I cannot imagine anyone who could not relate to the intense desire to completely be true to themselves and the inner turmoil that such a struggle can often cause. Chaz's victory is everyone's victory. Chaz is a hero.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Transistion: The Story of How I Became a Man June 22, 2011
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Thirty-five years ago, I had a girl friend who became a man. I did not have the benefit of hearing about the feelings and the process. Chas Bono writes an in depth account of both as well as details of his upbringing by famous parents Sonny and Cher. Male or female, Chas is just a very nice human being! I LOVED this audio book (read by Chas).
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Grew Up with Chastity - Grew mature with Chaz June 5, 2011
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Yes, I watched adorable Chastity on television and grew up in the sixties with Sonny and Cher. After reading his remarkable book I can only say Bravo to Chaz's incredible courage - courage to face unrelenting public curiosity and private turmoil.
One thing this book should teach all of us is how important it is to live one's life in a positive manner. Most of us will never go through the agony of coming out to our families as gay, lesbian or transgendered but we let others' opinions of us guide our behaviour in much smaller ways. The beauty of Chaz's book is that all of us should learn a lesson from it - be true to yourself and who you really are.
The book is well-written and never boring. Of course the one area I might disagree with Chaz a little is the fact that his "Democratic" Mother was really his birth Mother and his "Republican" family did not have to first mourn the loss of a daughter. It is always much easier to accept something if it does not involve your own children. Chaz does address this in his book but I must get political here - the Republican party and it's policies such as the Defense of Marriage Act are demeaning and dangerous to the gay and lesbian community. Where I live in Texas the wife of a firefighter was recently denied his death benefits because she was a male to female transgendered woman.
Thanks Chaz for reinforcing for all of us how Important it is to not let society tell us what we should be or do- I have never had to make any decisions nearly as life-changing as you did and I will always admire your intelligence and empathy for other people.
Lynn Meyer Brown
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars a courageous and inspiring story October 26, 2011
Format:Hardcover
As a kid I watched Chaz on Sonny and Cher's TV show. I envied her since I imagined she had a fantastic life with her awesome parents. After the show ended, I forgot about Chaz until I read his book. I have transgender friends, and I read this book hoping to better understand their perspective.

From his experiences growing up in the wrong body, his surviving childhood abuse, his coming out as a lesbian, his attempted music career, his recovery from an addiction to prescription painkillers, and his many girlfriends, Chaz has had a very full life. Add to this a sex change, and his resilience and perseverance are nothing short of remarkable. Chaz tells his story honestly and directly. Anyone can find much with which to empathize in his book.

However, this memoir has two major flaws. First, Chaz appears incredibly self-centered. Reading this book was suffocating at times. Chaz is not a narcissist --far from it. It seemed to me that Chaz tends to ignore or at least not acknowledge that the people in his life have feelings about his transition, and that they have a right to these feelings. Chaz underwent a major, major life change, and his relationships with loved ones naturally changed as well. He is not the same person physically or emotionally as he was prior to his transition, and the people close to him need to accommodate this. This doesn't mean that folks are not supportive; they just have to get used to it and learn new ways of relating to him. This is not necessarily a bad thing. Human relationships are dynamic not static, and we all have new ways of relating to each other as our circumstances change. Chaz does not seem to realize this. His partner Jenny seems like an extraordinary person, yet Chaz seems to take her for granted.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars wonderful
Very helpful. Informative. I like the fact that Chaz does not weigh heavily on the fact of who his mom is. It is about him and what he has gone through. Read more
Published 5 days ago by Heather Hampel
4.0 out of 5 stars He did it!
- Chaz Bono has garnered some attention as she has transition to a "he". She is most widely recognized as the child of Sony Bono and Cher. Read more
Published 20 days ago by Dr. Wilson Trivino
3.0 out of 5 stars Mommy Issues
The education around the complexities of growing up transgender was helpful and appreciated (I read the book because a close friend is going through the same thing). Read more
Published 2 months ago by Reba Donlin
5.0 out of 5 stars Book
Loved this book, I bought it for my Kindle and the price was a great price would highly recommend Amazon for anyone wanting to order a book for their Kindle.
Published 4 months ago by Grammy
5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastic book
Fantastic book by Chaz Bono, who has alot of courage, a real inspiration, a must read! Highly recommend this book!
Published 5 months ago by duskybird
4.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant read
Absolutely fascinating read! I have never understood transitioning that much but Chaz captured it well, I could really relate to the struggles he described as he feared family... Read more
Published 7 months ago by Leanne
2.0 out of 5 stars Wasn't What I Expected
Chaz talks more about his childhood and music career than his actual transition. It left alot of unanswred questions. Read more
Published 7 months ago by Seth
4.0 out of 5 stars Interesting, educational, well-written
Although parts of this were a bit unfocused and not relating to the overall story, I found this autobiography to be extremely interesting and educational. Read more
Published 8 months ago by Elizabeth M. Wade
3.0 out of 5 stars I applaud Chaz for surviving
Is this is a story of triumph? No. It's a story of survival. This is a great example of the power of the human mind. Chaz' story has been very thought provoking for me. Read more
Published 9 months ago by LoJo
5.0 out of 5 stars courageous
thank you so much for having the courage to tell your truth. I cannot imagine what it must of been like for you, however, I admire your courage!!
Published 11 months ago by tgirl21791
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