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Treating Sexual Shame: A New Map for Overcoming Dysfunction, Abuse, and Addiction

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This is a useful book in the evolving dialogue that reflects the level of wisdom emerging in the field of sexuality recovery. Hastings addresses the overlapping fields of sex therapy, sex abuse recovery, and sex addiction recovery, noting how therapists in one field may have only passing knowledge of the others. Hastings continues her championing of liberation from shame as the key to growth in all of these related areas. As she succinctly writes, "shame needs to be elicited so that it can be discharged", and examples of this approach are abundant. She makes good sense in describing the unhealthy culture in which our repressions and addictions take root. "Healing sexuality is far more than healing sexual problems", and the author gives numerous examples of distorted thinking and goals in sexual expression. Helpful analysis of flirting and jealousy highlight the maturity of Hastings' approach. Sometimes this book seems directed for clients, other times for therapists. The specific chapters detailing clinical issues (countertransference, arousal in the therapeutic setting, limit setting, therapist self-exploration and healing, for example) make this a particularly useful book for all counselors. There are quite a few case vignettes and examples of therapist questions to use with clients. A solid and admirable work that will benefit many therapists and the clients they serve.

Well written and readable with good case vignettes and courageous use of the writer's autobiography. It is apparently directed at other therapists but offers some embarassingly (now why did I pick that word?)elementary information about such matters as anatomy, so that at times she seems to be addressing a general readership. She is uncritical about some of her sources eg "Acupuncture directly works on the energy channels" and disdains statistical evidence. There is an index and references but no attempt to completely review the literature and other viewpoints are dismissed without full evaluation. On the whole I would recommend it to anyone working in the field but would want a neophyte to read a few other rhings.

I was expecting a book that would be more detailed. I was hoping to find new information on a highly overlooked subject. Instead what I found was a book written for a certain audience. I could not help but feel that this audience, is the very same audience, that enjoys the agendas that are shoved down our throats by marketing departments and television program directors.

This is a topic (shame research) that is becoming important within the psychological community for good reason. Shame, we are discovering, is playing a much larger part in our lives than we had currently estimated.

I was hoping this text would have some examples of the latest findings within the field of shame research, but I was disappointed.

I do not consider this author an authority. I consider this author a writer of popular culture.... I found many of her comments to be shame-based. Particularly the comments that reflect current sexual counseling techniques, practiced by specialists, like our author.

I would also like to mention that this book contains little regarding treatment. I feel this is a good thing considering the lack of real knowledge on the subject written.

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