The Truth Will Set You Free: Overcoming Emotional Blindness and Finding Your True Adult Self [Paperback]

Alice Miller (Author), Andrew Jenkins (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: December 17, 2002

More than twenty years ago, a little-known Swiss psychoanalyst wrote a book that changed the way many people viewed themselves and their world. In simple but powerful prose, the deeply moving Drama of the Gifted Child showed how parents unconsciously form and deform the emotional lives of their children. Alice Miller's stories about the roots of suffering in childhood resonated with readers, and her book soon became a backlist best seller.In The Truth Will Set You Free Miller returns to the intensely personal tone and themes of her best-loved work. Only by embracing the truth of our past histories can any of us hope to be free of pain in the present, she argues. Miller uses vivid true stories to reveal the perils of early-childhood mistreatment and the dangers of mindless obedience to parental will. Drawing on the latest research on brain development, she shows how spanking and humiliation produce dangerous levels of denial, which leads in turn to emotional blindness and to mental barriers that cut off awareness and the ability to learn new ways of acting. If this cycle repeats itself, the grown child will perpetrate the same abuse on later generations--a message vitally important, especially given the increasing popularity of programs like Tough Love and of "child disciplinarians" like James Dobson. The Truth Will Set You Free will provoke and inform all readers who want to know Alice Miller's latest thinking on this important subject.

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About the Author

Alice Miller has achieved worldwide recognition for her work on the causes and effects of childhood traumas. Her books include The Drama of the Gifted Child, Banished Knowledge, Breaking Down the Wall of Silence, Thou Shalt Not Be Aware, and For Your Own Good. She lives in Switzerland.

Product Details

• Paperback: 224 pages
• Publisher: Basic Books (December 17, 2002)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0465045855
• ISBN-13: 978-0465045853
• Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.3 x 0.6 inches
• Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #58,869 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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77 of 79 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Great focus on underlying causes, but not as practical as I hoped., July 22, 2007

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It's me "logitechgirl" (LONG ISLAND CITY, NEW YORK USA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: The Truth Will Set You Free: Overcoming Emotional Blindness and Finding Your True Adult Self (Paperback)

Alice Miller goes into a facinating and undoubtably true acount on how we are often are own worst enemy. We often poison ourselves with comfortable lies that end up causing more damage than we realize both spiritually and physically.
The Truth will Set you Free, is a wonderful title for the books content. As someone who has been meditating almost daily for the past several years I have grown to develop an awareness of myself that I did not have in earlier years. So I put Alice Miller to the test. After a meditation session I stayed sitting and relaxed and began to think Aloud the following statements pausing for 3 minutes between each one. 1- He was the best father in the world and he loved me very much growing up. 2- My father never loved me and wouldn't have cared if I died. 3- Though he did care and provide, my father was a pathetic man who loved himself much more than he ever loved me. When I said the first two statements, I felt an inner tension in my gut and upper spine. When I claimed the last one the tension released completely. That's because the last statement was the true one, regardless of how hard it might be to admit. But such tension is subtle and not detectable by most people at first. Alice Miller states that we often take the lies told to us by society and family and embody them, but our bodies/subconscious CANNOT be lied to. And our bodies carry around the toxic lie until finally we find ourselves getting sick. Facing truth may hard for your mind to bear initially, but it's the only thing that alleviates pain in the soul and body in the long run. The only problem I have with this book it offers almost no practical guideline as to what someone can DO to get to the truth. It mentions therapy briefly. Meditation I know works too, but it took me a long time before I grew to an awareness of subtle little shifts in emotion and the body like what I experienced in the 'experiment.' The type of people who would buy this book most likely have already faced their emotional blindness on some level and are looking to learn ways to enhance that- and that practicality is what this book is missing. Still a fascinating and potentially enlightening read.

50 of 58 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent!, August 20, 2004

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A. Nichols (NZ) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: The Truth Will Set You Free: Overcoming Emotional Blindness and Finding Your True Adult Self (Paperback)

I cannot recommend this book highly enough. It covers what Miller calls "Poisonous Pedagogy" that stems from parents and religious teaching. If you truly want to free yourself from a toxic and traumatic past buy this book - your mind will undoubtedly be opened to the horrors of accepted childcare and religious teaching practices.

14 of 15 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A great book, a great author!, July 22, 2006

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Bryan J. Davis "& his loving wife..." (Central Coast, CA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: The Truth Will Set You Free: Overcoming Emotional Blindness and Finding Your True Adult Self (Paperback)

Alice Miller's books about the realities of childhood trauma, cruel parenting and how to overcome it are wonderful, brutally honest, and freeing. I recommend any book by Alice Miller.