A Christian counselor brings valuable insight to the emotional and spiritual struggles of abuse victims. Drawing upon her knowledge of Scripture and psychology, Linda Newton points the way out of the wilderness of self-destruction and despair.
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In this sensitive account, we are given an insider's view of pastoral counseling by following one woman's journey to healing. In the process, the counselor opens a window into some of her own struggles on the path to victory. Each chapter begins with Donetta sharing her life of physical and emotional abuse. Pastor and counselor Newton then segues into her view of the situation and describes steps to be taken. A "Truster Reconstructor" homework assignment reinforces the session's insights and helps to bring a new way of thinking into the healing process. --Church Libraries Magazine, Fall 2008
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Linda Newton is associate pastor at Sierra Pines Church of God in Oakhurst, California. She has an active ministry as a counselor, conference speaker, and retreat leader.
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Riviting Story and Helpful Information,
By Paula loves books "PFMinistries" (California) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Twelve Ways to Turn Your Pain Into Praise: Biblical Steps to Wholeness in Christ (Paperback)
"Twelve Ways to Turn Your Pain Into Praise" begins with the author's riveting story of her abusive childhood. She recounts her younger years with heartbreaking authenticity, and I found myself engrossed in her story. Newton's honesty and transparency are refreshing, and the way she weaves her story of joyful healing throughout each chapter is deeply inspiring.
I appreciate the fact that "Twelve Ways to Turn Your Pain Into Praise" doesn't serve up "easy answers" and Christian platitudes to abuse survivors. Instead, Newton offers specific solutions, Biblical insight, compassion, and practical steps to experience lasting freedom and healing. Each chapter ends with a constructive exercise for the reader. For example, at the end of chapter 10 the reader is told to, List your top three priorities in your journal. Invest in each one every day. To keep yourself accountable, keep a record of what you do. I liked the fact that after receiving instruction in each chapter, the reader is then given something to do to solidify the new lesson learned. The chapters flow easily, and the content remains interesting and relevant until the last page. Newton relies heavily upon other women's stories (as well as her own) and she extensively expounds on Scripture--especially in chapter 3. Although the author is a gifted Bible teacher and professional counselor--you'll feel more like you're being instructed by a trusted friend and mentor. "Twelve Ways to Turn Your Pain Into Praise" is insightful, interesting, and even charming. Abuse survivors will find it a reliable roadmap to freedom.
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Wonderful Book!!,
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This review is from: Twelve Ways to Turn Your Pain Into Praise: Biblical Steps to Wholeness in Christ (Paperback)
I decided to read Linda's book twice because I didn't want to forget any of it, I cried more the second time. Her book has helped me to try and forgive not only my ex husband but myself. I knew when I met my ex the Lord was telling me not to marry him but I insisted because I felt I had waited long enough. After all I was twenty four years old!
I had won 3rd place in a beauty contest in Fresno and was on my way to LA to compete for Miss California, my to be husband made me chose between marring him or competing, I chose marriage. The one thing that I loved in her book was Romans 8:15-16 I don't need anyone's approval or admiration. I play to an audience of one Jesus. I have been singing the song "Jesus Loves Me This I Know" a lot these days thanks to Linda's book and my mom for teaching it to me in Sunday school. Another thing in Linda's book that helped me was if you find yourself detestable then do the three C's (1) Let confidence empower you (2) Don't let comparison infect you. (3)Don't get constricted by needy people.(my ex was so needy and very abusive) I spent six years killing myself trying to earn my husbands approval, I probably would still be trying to except his abuse turned towards our children. I left my husband for the third time when he backhanded our third child Tony when he was only two years old for no reason at all. He hit him so hard that he flew backwards and hit the hardwood floor several feet away. I climbed over our dinner table that was full of dishes trying to get to my son, he was lying on the floor silent, my husband got to him first and began running down the hall with him and I was following trying to pull Tony out of his arms. Ron locked himself up in the bathroom with Tony, I tried to kick the door in. I couldn't call for help because my husband had broke the phone in a rage of anger earlier. We went threw so many phones in our marriage!! I finally heard Tony cry and knew he was at least breathing needless to say that was the last straw for me. You can do what you want to me but leave the kids out of it. I screamed "You just signed your divorce and I mean it this time" After everything calmed down and my ex passed out drunk I packed up my three children at 3am in the morning and drove away for good. Linda's book has helped me to try and forgive myself. Oh so many things to forgive myself for!! The guilt of watching my three children grow up without a father. Going to college trying to earn a degree so I could make enough money so my kids wouldn't have to do without. I realize now I have been trying to earn the approval of my kids and society. I love Linda's book because it starts off with making a blessed list which was very good for me because when you have a lot of guilt you become negative. All through the book there is hope being poured out with scriptures like Joel 2:25 God will restore what the locust hath eaten. Psalm 108:6 God sets the lonely in families. But the most freeing scripture for me was 1 Samuel 24:22 Set boundries. My biggest guilt was feeling like I was supposed to forgive my husband and return like nothing ever happened, you know forgive and forget. I wanted to be a good christian wife. Jesus knows the heart and we can only judge the heart by peoples actions. Actions speak louder then words. I love Chapter eleven God loves you warts and all. Don't should have on yourself and don't should have on anyone else, be a human being instead of a human doing. Thank you so much Linda!!! God Bless You. Sincerely Lorraine
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A Great Resource,
By CT (Fresno, CA USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Twelve Ways to Turn Your Pain Into Praise: Biblical Steps to Wholeness in Christ (Paperback)
"Turning Your Pain Into Praise" allows you to "self counsel" rather than just consider theories and ideas that may be applicable to your life. The book is an easy read, but the assignments offer a variety self analyzation challenges. These real techniques enable you to internalize the lesson and often lead to new realizations about yourself and your pain.
While grounded in Biblical precepts and solid psychology, this book never feels like a text book or conceptual theory. Newton's message is clear and straightforward, using real life examples and well tried techniques. If you've found yourself struggling to trust in God's goodwill towards you, Newton invites you to change your paradigm. If you're tired of circling the drain and want concrete techniques to heal, this book is a must.
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