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The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians: Tips and Techniques from Conception Through Birth: How to Stay Sane and Take Care of Yourself

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We purchased this book because we had so many different questions and concerns and this book definately had the answers to all of our questions. We have had this book for a few months and we open it almost everyday. It walks you through the moment you decide to be parents to the moment you deliver. It's a great book, Ms. Pepper has combined knowledge and support into an excellent book. It's a must have for lesbian moms to be, as well as single moms to be. We love the book and we've recommend it to all of our friends.

I found this book to be especially helpful during the trying-to-conceive and early pregnancy phases. Once my pregnancy was well underway, I relied more heavily upon other resources for more complete pregnancy info. Nevertheless, this book was absolutely indispensable to me during the emotionally challenging process of selecting a donor, using intrauterine insemination, managing medical issues (infertility, health insurance, etc.), and coping with early setbacks. The numerous quotes from others who have "been there" helped to normalize my feelings and experiences, while the author's matter of fact tone demystified the process and helped me know what to expect next. The tips for staying sane while trying were all relevant and useful. I read this book over and over for comfort when my partner and I felt like the only ones who'd ever felt what we were feeling, and for information about choices others have made under similar circumstances. A truly useful, comforting, practical and essential book for any lesbians trying to conceive. Highly recommended!

This is a well-written, comprehensive account of what you can expect at every step. Rachel is open, honest, and non-judgemental, and really helps us understand what we're getting into--both as parents and as lesbians. This book made me think and made me laugh. I first got it through the library, but decided I had to have it for my own collection. I highly recommend it!

This book is great!!!! It is a sad world we live in when authors believe that only lesbians are having donor insemination. I bought this book becuase I was desparate for information and the one book I found for straight women gave me no information. This title kept popping up, so I bought it. I am currently on chapter 4 and cannot believe how much information I have already learned. I look forward to reading each page. Rachel Pepper writes with a positive tone, uplifting and funny, while being informative. I have a notebook filled with questions and plans. This is the only prepregnancy book you will need.

This is a treasure - it's hits all the important issues, sharing tips from someone who's been there, with respect that you'll figure out how to get there too. Surviving the Rollercoaster is perfect for anyone getting started with fertility treatment - what I call the Trying Times in Helping the Stork. Rachel's insights will add some humor and lots of support, from planning to parenthood.

Excellent book. Very useful information on every page. Other books on the same topic do not get down to the "nitty-gritty" as this book does. The author shares invaluable personal information. It's like having a friend offer advice and support. Very helpful resource list in the back. Also has a good index. Perfect for lesbians trying to become pregnant, but not knowing where or how to begin.

We purchased this book in the beginning of our journey to become a lesbian family. It was great. We have learned sooo much about all of the stages of this wonderful adventure. A must have for all lesbians, or anyone considering DI. Good Luck!

I enjoyed this book throughly. It was the last "pre-parenting" book I read before trying alternative insemination. I wish it had been the first. It has lots of information and is not too preachy. I just wish it were longer!

For my partner and I who are still in the thinking and planning stages of family making, this book was really helpful and gave insight to some of the things we can expect! I would highly recommend it to anyone even THINKING about starting a family.

This is a wonderful book that gives you all the confidence you need to begin to create a family. Helpfull advice is mixed with resource contacts and 'what to expect when you are expecting' pointers. The author writes from experiance and personal trial and error and does a super job of covering all the bases from legal issues to home births!