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Product Details

  • Paperback: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Seal Press (April 26, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1580053416
  • ISBN-13: 978-1580053419
  • Product Dimensions: 0.9 x 5.8 x 8.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (22 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #570,726 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Thoroughly dissects an idea: unlimited opportunity means unlimited choices [and] burdens the chooser with responsibility, leav[ing] many women frozen or frantically job, city, and relationship-hopping in search of perfection --Jenna Goudreau, Forbes

A helpful new book... exhaustively researched. Undecided is not an academic career counselor's guidebook with testing or educational advice, but a compendium of on-the-ground stories of actual career choices. --Joyce Lain Kennedy, Chicago Tribune

... looks at the choices today's women have thanks to the success of the Women's Movement--and the unintended consequences... contextualizing it with stories of hundreds of women who call themselves undecided. --Santa Barbara Independent

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"Undecided sheds light on the complexity of options for women today and the burden our culture places on women who 'settle'. If ever there was a call to arms for women's choice and a road map to better understand ourselves, it can be found in this impressive guidebook."
--Susan Shapiro Barash, author of You're Grounded Forever

"Job or career? Biker or banker? Paper, plastic, or recycled, reusable tote? Sane, sensible and funny, Undecided uncovers the many ways having too many choices can mess with a gal's head--with insightful tips for not only getting where you want to go but actually enjoying the ride."  --Jenna McCarthy, author of The Parent Trip and the forthcoming If It Was Easy, They'd Call the Whole Damn Thing A Honeymoon

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Undecided is one of those books that every woman needs to read.
Laurie Gormican
Undecided provides insight, encouragement, and entertainment and it is worth a read.
Alison P. Buchanan
I'm 33 years old, and this book spoke directly to my demographic.
D Halasz

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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful By D Halasz on June 3, 2011
Format: Paperback
It was refreshing to find a "stuck in the rut; what do I do with my life" book that didn't come with a pat answer. There were no personality or job skills assessments. Instead the Kelleys shared stories from both professional and non professional women, married and single, happy and unhappy. They did not present any one secret for success, but I believe their goal was summed up in the first discussion question at the end of the book - which woman's life resonated with you the most and why?
I'm 33 years old, and this book spoke directly to my demographic.
I highly recommend this book to any woman who would rather fail by doing something than live with regret for doing nothing.
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21 of 25 people found the following review helpful By Heather on November 26, 2011
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The first two chapters were very good at defining the problem I have (and why I bought this book): Why do I feel like a failure even with success? Why am I so petrified at this stage of my late-thirties trying to choose a new direction.

After that, I was suddenly reading a chatty feminist manifesto (and I'm a feminist) constantly informing me that I was about to be REALLY pissed off by an astounding array of facts -- but hey, we'll get to that later. Seriously. They used some variation of that phrase every five pages: Here's a topic. But we're going to talk about that later.

Hi, already informed about pay inequities and the inability to have it all. Got to page 170 and STILL didn't find out "How to ditch the endless quest for perfect and find the career -- and life -- that's right for [me]." It does not pay off the subtitle. Or maybe it will in a follow-up book. I don't know... I stopped reading.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful By linda j Hunter on October 12, 2011
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A wonderful, insightful book that really helped me, as a 64 year old women, to understand the angst of my 40 year old daughter in her endless search for the perfect job, the perfect man and the perfect life. Having grown up in the generation where women's choices seemed so much more limited (I became a teacher), I have had a hard time understanding the inability to find satisfaction with all the endless choices women today. This book gave me a much better understanding of the "grass is always greener syndrome" faced with today's women. I loved all the stories from the different generations and look forward to spending time with my daughter discussing the book. A must read!
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful By Alison P. Buchanan on April 27, 2011
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Undecided is a well-researched combination of fascinating case studies, academic research, history, and humor. What could have been a dry recitation is, instead, interesting, funny, throught-provoking and a true page-turner. This book is pertinent to all women struggling to identify what they want in life and/or wondering whether the fact that they don't know the answer to that question means there is something wrong with them. Even if you don't struggle with this issue, you likely have a daughter, sister, friend, co-worker, or direct report who does. Undecided provides insight, encouragement, and entertainment and it is worth a read.
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8 of 10 people found the following review helpful By A. Mann on May 10, 2011
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Bravo! Excellent book! Despite feeling a little left out as a man, I thoroughly enjoyed the read. The interspersed interviews along with the citations to various studies provided credibility as well as a nice feeling of up-to-the-minute reality.

I found the conclusion to be very powerful. Of course, everyone reads through his or her own lenses, and here's what my tainted lenses focused on: The frustrations and fears discussed, though not entirely unique to women, are clearly most prevalent among young, educated women. However, I have experienced and witnessed much of the same analysis paralysis, grass is greener syndrome, etc., among men. Whether in men or women, I have often found that these factors as well as approval-seeking (or bigshot-itis) are common precursors to the fall into addiction. I have heard these complaints innumerable times in various 12-Step meetings.

I have to say that the idea of finding your true or inner-self is what many people consider to be their spiritual journey. Meditation and prayer are essentially what the authors describe as quiet time. Whether we believe in some new-agey way that we are Gods, or we recognize that the reason we can't have it all is that we are not God, this inner voice holds the key to happiness, or at least contentment and serenity. Many of the thousands of people who have actually worked the 12-Steps have come to experience that insight. I had a gambling-addiction therapist who claimed that he would have sent every one of his patients (one-at-a-time) to an isolated cabin in the Olympic Mountains for two weeks to get away from all the noise and to learn to listen to that inner voice. Of course, we could never find an insurance plan that would cover such treatment.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By modmomca on July 15, 2011
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This book is so much more than a guide for those undecided on their careers. This book is about the quandary of the modern woman...how do we have it all and why does the 'all' prove to be so elusive. The writing is excellent, as is the research on everything from the science of choice to the current research on work/life fit.
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7 of 9 people found the following review helpful By Kaneisha on May 18, 2011
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UNDECIDED by mother-daughter duo Barbara Kelley and Shannon Kelley is an excellent book for women in college, graduate school, and professionals who are freaking out about what to do next, worrying that if they choose the "wrong" path, they will miss out on being amazing and "having it all." It helped me put my career decisions and angst into perspective and move forward with my life with a sense of peace and clarity while also being excited.
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