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Understanding Guys: A Guide for Teenage Girls (Plugged In) [Paperback]

Michael Gurian (Author)
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Plugged In February 15, 1999
Michael Gurian is the authority on what makes boys the way they are—so teenage girls will definitely want the only young adult book on the market that answers the age-old question: Why do boys act like they do? It's all here—scientific, social, and psychological explanations for why boys never talk about their feelings, why they can be aggressive, and why they think so much about sex. There's also sound and practical advice to help teen girls and guys better relate—plus engaging real-life anecdotes from girls about how to cope with and enjoy the wonderful, frustrating, bewildering differences between the sexes.

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Grade 8-10-Using an engaging and frequently humorous tone, Gurian offers straightforward explanations of what boys experience during puberty and how these changes affect them emotionally and psychologically. Of course, in any work of this kind, there is always the danger of generalization. At times the author's reliance on anecdotal examples leads to overgeneralization, if not stereotyping. Another significant problem is that statistics are sometimes given without citing a source as when Gurian notes, "In over ninety percent of cases of teen pregnancy, the mother is abandoned by the boyfriend." Occasional black-and-white cartoon drawings appear throughout the text, adding a sense of levity to the discussion without trivializing it. There is no index. Despite its flaws, this book is likely to spark great interest and answer some questions.
Edward Sullivan, New York Public Library
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Reading level: Ages 13 and up
  • Paperback: 87 pages
  • Publisher: Price Stern Sloan (February 15, 1999)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0843174757
  • ISBN-13: 978-0843174755
  • Product Dimensions: 7.4 x 5 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 2.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 3.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,780,386 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Michael Gurian is a social philosopher, family therapist, corporate consultant, and the New York Times bestselling author of twenty books published in fifteen languages. The Gurian Institute, which he co-founded, conducts research internationally, launches pilot programs and trains professionals. Michael has been called "the people's philosopher" for his ability to bring together people's ordinary lives and scientific ideas.
As a social philosopher, he has pioneered efforts to bring neuro-biology and brain research into homes, workplaces, schools and public policy. A number of his ground-breaking books in child development, including THE WONDER OF BOYS, BOYS AND GIRLS LEARN DIFFERENTLY! THE WONDER OF GIRLS and WHAT COULD HE BE THINKING? have sparked national debate. His newest work, THE MINDS OF BOYS (September 2005) provides a revolutionary new framework, based in neuro-biology, by which to understand and care for the educational needs of our sons.
Michael has served as a consultant to families, corporations, therapists, physicians, school districts, community agencies, churches, criminal justice personnel and other professionals, traveling to approximately 20 cities a year to keynote at conferences. His training videos (also available as DVDs) for parents and volunteers are used by Big Brother and Big Sister agencies in the U.S. and Canada.
As an educator, Michael previously taught at Gonzaga University, Eastern Washington University, and Ankara University. His speaking engagements include Harvard University, Johns Hopkins University, Stanford University, Macalester College, University of Colorado, University of Missouri-Kansas City, and UCLA. His philosophy reflects the diverse cultures (European, Asian, Middle Eastern and American) in which he has lived, worked and studied.
Michael's work has been featured in various media, including the New York Times, the Washington Post, USA Today, Newsweek, Time, People, Reader's Digest, the Wall Street Journal, Parenting, Good Housekeeping, Redbook, and on the Today Show, Good Morning America, CNN, PBS and National Public Radio.
Michael can be reached on the worldwide web at
www.michaelgurian.com


 

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12 of 13 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars This book is not just for kids..., April 10, 2000
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This review is from: Understanding Guys: A Guide for Teenage Girls (Plugged In) (Paperback)
As an adult woman, married for 16 years, I found that this book explained 98% of the arguments I have had with my husband. The author has excellent insights about the differences between males and females--such as those caused by hormones and brain structure. (He is careful to say that not all males or females align to the characteristics he describes.) The author travels into territory that will be controversial, but I think he is right on. For example, while he makes it clear that no one should ever be violent, he is one of the few authors to talk about the role females play in date and domestic violence--even if they don't hit. (And he notes that females often do slap their partners). Three quarters of the way through the book I was ready to hand it out on street corners, because if read and understood it could help to prevent so much of the pain and violence couples experience. However, at the end of the book, he suggests sexual practices for those protecting their virginity. While I absolutely concur with the author that we need to "get real" about how kids will act on their sexuality, I expect this will keep me from using the book in the schools (unless those pages are removed). I do intend to have all my friends with girls or husbands read this book.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A lot of truth in what he says, November 28, 2011
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I am surprised some of the other reviewers did not like this book. As a father of two teen daughters, I think it is a helpful perspective. OK, the cave man analogy goes a bit far, but hormones do influence our thoughts and behavior and teen males are driven (somewhat crazy) with massive doses of testosterone. I clearly remember my obsessions with aggression and sex when I was a teen. The author has plenty of experience with teens of both sexes, and his opinions should be considered by teen girls of the present era. They should be encouraged to consider multiple perspectives, IMHO.
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9 of 22 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars Very harmful book, November 17, 1999
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This review is from: Understanding Guys: A Guide for Teenage Girls (Plugged In) (Paperback)
This book in no way will help a teenage girl,it will only cause her to feel more different and polarized from males and become more ashamed of any sexual needs she may have,because the book tends to carp on only the male having monster hormones and thinking about sex.What happens to the girl who has just as strong needs,she is not helped,she is thought of as a freak by society. Women rarely get the help they need in the area of temptation that men do.Women are told they will want romance and love,but they never hear what they need to hear about sex drive and how it affects the indiviual.All this book will do is cause more misunderstandings and relationship problems,because the female being a sexual being as well is overlooked.
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