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Unfriend Yourself: Three Days to Detox, Discern, and Decide About Social Media [Kindle Edition]

Kyle Tennant
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Book Description

Three days. No Facebook. No Twitter. No social media. Just time
to detox, discern, and decide.

Take a three-day social media fast
with Unfriend Yourself and learn to examine your use of social media from
a Christian perspective. This book will guide you in evaluating your fast by asking
challenging questions such as:

What happens when I broadcast myself on
the Internet?Do I see a difference between my interactions on social media
and my interactions face-to-face?Do I rule my media, or do my media rule

While reading Unfriend Yourself, you will learn
to think critically, biblically, and practically about social media.
you choose to leave the social media scene, engage in it less, or engage in it more
after your social media fast, your perspective on social media will never be the

"Without throwing the baby out with the bathwater, Kyle challenges
the Christian to a God-honoring approach to social media involvement. Well researched
and thought through,
Unfriend Yourself avoids the emotional arguments and
instead presents a provocative 'must read' for any students, young adults, and generations
beyond who want to be responsible in approaching social media from a biblical worldview."

Dr. Bob MacRae, Professor of Youth Ministry at Moody Bible Institute

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About the Author

KYLE TENNANT is the Director of Student Ministries at the Village Church of Bartlett in Bartlett, IL. He is a graduate of the Moody Bible Institute and is currently pursuing an M.A. in Christian Formation and Ministry from Wheaton Graduate School. Kyle lives in Chicago's west suburbs, and enjoys reading, writing, preaching, eating, cooking, and good conversation.

Product Details

  • File Size: 365 KB
  • Print Length: 97 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 0802409539
  • Publisher: Moody Publishers; New Edition edition (December 20, 2011)
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B006FLROD4
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
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  • Lending: Enabled
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #274,397 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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71 of 88 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars I just disagree. January 18, 2012
By anbacon
Format:Kindle Edition|Verified Purchase
*** EDIT: Since I have started to receive more replies to my critical review of this book, I thought it was important to at least put myself in context. I am 30 and I am a Christian. What that means is that I believe that the Bible is true and that Jesus died for all mankind and that those that put their trust in that truth and Him are saved. I am a camp director at a Christian Camp called Pine Cove and have worked with College Students and High School students for over 10 years. It is a huge passion of mine to help young adults navigate life and follow Jesus. I have a wife and 2 kiddos. My review is extremely critical and I have left it unedited for you to read. I just thought you would like to have a bit more context of this reviewer. :) -anbacon

*** Original Review with no edits.

Overall, I disagree with this "mini-book". The author says that Facebook is the influence. It is not. The medium is NOT the influence. The people that use Facebook ARE the influence-you and me. The creators of Facebook are the influence. The marketers that use Facebook are the influence. It is people who are influencers, not mediums and not technology!

Throughout the ages, it is people that either use mediums for good or for evil. Examples include: TV. Radio. Internet. Cars. Written Letters. Facebook.

Take written letters for example. Just because humans have the ability to gossip or slander or hate or curse in a written letter doesn't make written letters evil. The heart behind the medium is the problem. I can see these same arguments used in this article for radio a long time ago, for TV's or for telephones, to name a few. Mediums (technological advances) are NOT made in the image of God. People are. And they are all fallen who struggle and need a Savior.
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20 of 23 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Social media doesn't necessarily fuel friendships January 12, 2012
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First, a disclaimer. I am acquainted with Kyle. He is the Youth Pastor at my church, we've been in a new membership class together and my boys think he's awesome. My boys are good judges of character. This book is concise, but well-researched citing Christian and communication sources both classics and more recent. Plus, he writes how he talks which is a bonus and rings authentic and conversational.

IMO, the most important point Kyle makes is that Facebook doesn't always facilitate friendships. In fact, too much time spent pursuing digital relationships may make us less relationship-focused in the real world. It's a poor substitute for the joy of the real thing. Having been a Facebook user for years, I agree with him.

Kyle doesn't advocate for deleting your account and becoming a Luddite. He simply advocates for more thoughtful and purposeful use. Facebook can serve an enhancement to strong offline relationships, but can't build them from scratch. Building true friendships that stand the test of time and circumstances is an investment and requires face-to-face interaction.

So proud of Kyle for the discipline of authoring and sharing a book. And really happy that my boys will have him as a role model.
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6 of 8 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Short and informational January 3, 2012
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Are you ready for a "Facebook Fast"? That's what this book calls you to do. Fast for three days over a weekend in order to evaluate your Facebook needs or lack thereof. What started as a college thesis in "How" to use social media for Jesus became - why do we use social media at all? Using socialogy and biblical text, the author does not condemn social media, but only calls for evaluation of its use.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars Unfriend Yourself May 27, 2013
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Book Title and Author
The book unfriend yourself: Three Days to Detox, Discern, and Decide About Social Media (And yes, those small caps are intentional.) was written by Kyle Tennant, who is the Pastor of Connections at First United Methodist Church in Warren, Ohio and a graduate of Moody Bible Institute and Wheaton College Graduate School.

Author's Main Purpose
The goal of the book is to challenge the idea that social media is a needed part of our lives. It is written in such a format to be read over a 3-day weekend. So each chapter ends with some study questions and "homework assignments" to be done by the reader. The goal would seem to be to get the reader to completely remove himself from using all forms of social media and challenge the widely accepted notion that tools such as Facebook or Twitter are necessary parts of their life.

The author makes this statement on pg. 13 - "What I have come to see is that one of the most dominant cultural metaphors of our time is not to be trusted, nor is it to be lauded. In fact, it may be our generation's greatest enemy. Okay, so maybe that's exaggerating - but the point is that social media may do far more damage to our relationships, and our understanding of them, then we may think. Though social media promises us relationships and community, they may in truth be promising us a lie."

Table of Contents
There are three chapters in the book - one for each day of a weekend. The first chapter is entitled "Detox." In this chapter, Tennant overviews the downside of social media. He uses a number of examples showing how social media has turned relationships inside out.
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3.0 out of 5 stars Christians Using Social Media
Title: Unfriend Yourself: Three Days to Detox, Discern, and Decide about Social Media
Author: Kyle Tennant
Publisher: Moody Publishers
ISBN: 978-0-8024-0953-9... Read more
Published 17 days ago by connywithay
5.0 out of 5 stars Quick read..enjoyable
Very quick and easy read. I agree with the author viewpoint in that sometimes we need to disconnect and reconnect with reality.
Published 2 months ago by mark getman
4.0 out of 5 stars I Enjoyed This Book.
I decided to read Unfriend Yourself, by Kyle Tennant on a whim. I saw it in a list that I could review and said, what the heck. Why not. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Ginger
4.0 out of 5 stars Seeking balance
In a world where one is confronted by social media at every turn and where Facebook is virtually part of one’s life it would seem that some of us are drowning in a whirl of social... Read more
Published 3 months ago by RCBR
5.0 out of 5 stars words of wisdom
This book was thought provoking! Full of words of wisdom. This book made take action. I thought it was very good.
Published 6 months ago by lauram k michel
5.0 out of 5 stars very thought provoking
Little to read, but much to thing about. Social media needs to learn its place in my life, and this is a wonderful exercise in accomplishing this task.
Published 6 months ago by Frank.Aragon
1.0 out of 5 stars Don't bother even if it's free
I was hoping that this book would provide me with enough information to break my FB addiction, but it didn't. Read more
Published 8 months ago by Amazon Customer
4.0 out of 5 stars Building stronger relationships, with and without social media
As a full-time Social Media Analyst, all of the concerns raised by Kyle Tennant in Unfriend Yourself resonated with me and fit into my experience with social media. Read more
Published 10 months ago by Michelle Green
5.0 out of 5 stars thought provoking
Very wise words coming from one so young. I agree with everything said in this book. I confess I have a serious fear of intimacy and like to be alone. Read more
Published 11 months ago by michelle anderson
4.0 out of 5 stars good idea to think about
Who is living my life? The fact that a screen and a keyboard is .....very disturbing. I deleted Facebook. For how long? I don't know
Published 11 months ago by cynthia
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