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Untied: A Memoir of Family, Fame, and Floundering [Hardcover]

Meredith Baxter
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March 1, 2011
“I remember Sarah asking me, when I’d just begun therapy with her, what I looked for in a man.  After a few moments of silent, tense deliberation I had it.  ‘Hair,’ I blurted. ‘He has to have hair.’”
 
Meredith Baxter is a beloved and iconic television actress, most well-known for her enormously popular role as hippie mom, Elyse Keaton, on Family Ties. Her warmth, humor, and brilliant smile made her one of the most popular women on television, with millions of viewers following her on the small screen each week. Yet her success masked a tumultuous personal story and a harrowing private life. For the first time, Baxter is ready to share her incredible highs, (working with Robert Redford, Doris Day, Lana Turner, and the cast of Family Ties), and lows (a thorny relationship with her mother, a difficult marriage to David Birney, a bout with breast cancer), finally revealing the woman behind the image.

From her childhood in Hollywood, growing up the daughter of actress and co-creator of One Day at a Time Whitney Blake, Baxter became familiar with the ups and downs of show business from an early age. After wholeheartedly embracing the 60s counterculture lifestyle, she was forced to rely on her acting skills after her first divorce left her a 22-year-old single mother of two. Baxter began her professional career with supporting roles in the critically panned horror film Ben, and in the political thriller All the President's Men.

More lucrative work soon followed on the small screen. Baxter starred with actor David Birney as the title characters in controversial sitcom Bridget Loves Bernie. While the series only lasted a year, her high-profile romance with Birney lasted 15 volatile and unhappy years. Hiding the worst of her situation from even those closest to her, Baxter’s career flourished as her self-esteem and family crumbled. Her successful run as Nancy on Family was followed by her enormously popular role on Family Ties, and dozens of well-received television movies.

After a bitter divorce and custody battle with Birney, Baxter increasingly relied on alcohol as a refuge, and here speaks candidly of her decision to take her last drink in 1990.

And while another ruinous divorce to screenwriter Michael Blodgett taxed Baxter’s strength and confidence, she has emerged from her experiences with the renewed self-assurance, poise, and understanding that have enabled her to find a loving, respectful relationship with Nancy Locke, and to speak about it openly.

Told with insight, wit, and disarming frankness, Untied is the eye-opening and inspiring life of an actress, a woman, and a mother who has come into her own.

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A Letter from Author Meredith Baxter
For about fifty of my 63 years, (that’s 79.365079365079% of my life) I was miserable. I thought I’d been a victim for most of it and, consequently, was pretty sure I was not to blame. I could save the blame for all the others who had conspired (so it seemed) to keep me down. I was the saddest girl you’d ever met and probably would have lived out my days in that sadness had I not experienced the miracle of a change in my thinking.

I thought that was worth writing about--the lessons I’ve learned--because they’ve been so many and so profound. I had to learn that, although I was indeed the center of my own life, I wasn’t necessarily the center of the lives of others. Most of you know that within your first decade, but I just took my time.

My book is about the price I paid for being so self-centered, where it all took me and how I broke the cycle of thinking that was so disastrous for me. Of course, along the way, I talk about my family, my career, my marriages and children, Family Ties and many movies. I talk about infidelity, domestic abuse, divorce, devastation and drinking my way through a few movies.

Once I get sober, all sorts of fun things start to happen. I get some great movie roles. I get married yet again. I get breast cancer and another divorce. Then, I realize I like girls. Finally, all’s well in my world and because all of these changes are so surprising and happening so fast and I don’t want to forget any of them, I decide I better write it all down.

A Look Inside Untied

Meredith in Hollywood, 1956

Bridget Loves Bernie publicity shot

Family Ties publicity shot

The twins and Meredith reading on the beach

About the Author

Meredith Baxter has been an actor for 40 years and has five children.  She achieved early success in the comedy Bridget Loves Bernie; the acclaimed ABC drama Family and the popular NBC sitcom Family Ties. Baxter makes appearances speaking on breast cancer, domestic violence, alcoholism and general life experiences.  She lives in Santa Monica, California with her partner, Nancy Locke. 

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 304 pages
  • Publisher: Crown Archetype; Reprint edition (March 1, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0307719308
  • ISBN-13: 978-0307719300
  • Product Dimensions: 6.1 x 1.1 x 9.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (72 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #238,172 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Customer Reviews

I have very fond memories of Family Ties but it was nice to get to know Meredith in this book. Debbie Ahl  |  16 reviewers made a similar statement
So happy for you Meredith, thank you for sharing your life story with us. cathy brouillet  |  22 reviewers made a similar statement
Writing style engages the reader from the outset. TeNNiSMoMAZ  |  11 reviewers made a similar statement
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
47 of 50 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Meredith Baxter talks to many hidden women March 7, 2011
Format:Hardcover
In Untied Ms. Baxter reaches out to all the women who suffer silently in lives that they feel they are trapped in. She writes of hope and love. She readily admits to her mistakes and her short-comings. It is a wonderful read and I enjoyed it in hardback and bought the audio copy because I have always loved her voice. The people who don't like this book are just not clued into what life is like for a woman who is trapped by a marriage or a life that is suffocating them. It takes a great deal of confidence to leave the security of what you know for the uncertainty of what you don't know. When self-esteem is not denegrated and smashed under the weight of the words of someone who is supposed to love you, it is difficult to realize that you really are valid. Thank You for making many abused women feel validated.
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42 of 45 people found the following review helpful
Format:Hardcover
Most potential buyers of this book are likely to remember Meredith Baxter as the mother in Family Ties. But I also recall her from Family and Bridget Loves Birney (she married Birney). For awhile she seemed to be a staple for various tv movies. She did have some big screen appearances (including All the Presidents Men) but she is probably far better known as a television actress, particularly in roles centered around families.

In this memoir, Baxter opens up and reveals the person behind the persona. I'm drawn to memoirs and found this one totally engaging. It isn't a prettified or glossy overview but an open take on Baxter's childhood (rough), marriage (also rough) and her drinking problem (it took its toll).

When I watched her on television, I thought Baxter seemed to have a hard, no nonsense edge as well as a slight underlying vulnerability. She didn't come across as an ultra feminine sex symbol but definitely a reliable character actress, particularly in family dramas or comedies.

After reading Untied, I can't help wondering if her edginess was bolstered by her alcoholism. At one point she was drinking so often that she was sometimes bluntly told that she couldn't have wine on the set. She engaged in reckless behavior, although I'll leave it to readers to learn those details.

While Baxter could be rock solid in her acting career, her personal life was far more turbulent, starting from childhood. The bumpiest moments in her marriage to Birney included some revelations that I won't put in here or they would be major spoilers. She had a deep health scare at one point. She felt inferior to her college educated husband.

Beause Baxter seemed to be everywhere on television nearly every time I turned on the set -from talk shows to repeats of Family Ties to "movies of the week" -she seemed familiar, almost like a distant relative who visits once in awhile. Wow, was I ever wrong in my perceptions of her! Of course, that makes this book even more riveting.

You may already know the type of lifestyle Baxter is living now. If not, you're in for a surprise twist.

While there isn't a memoir (or not one that I could find) written by David Birney, my spouse did interview him at one point, after he had divorced Baxter. It would be fascinating to read a book written by Birney, if only to compare his viewpoint with his ex-wife. But even without Birney's take on his time shared with Meredith Baxter, this book is well worth reading, especially for anyone who has struggled with issues relating to marriage, divorce, drinking, and childhood issues.

It is a testimony to resilience and should inspire a fair number of readers to think about how to handle personal challenges on their own lives. This is not just another bland "celebrity bio" but one that should resonate with many, including wives and mothers, whether they face difficulties or not. And of course it is a must for Meredith Baxter fans!
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23 of 26 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Honest Portrayal of a Life March 7, 2011
Format:Kindle Edition|Amazon Verified Purchase
I thought the reviews of this book were unfair. I think it's hard to feel for Meredith for her choices, but easier when you understand she didn't know she had any. She wasn't raised to have them and so she married someone who gave her none. Whether or not you like her choices, you have to give her credit for being honest about the mistakes she's made.

The kind of abuse she alleges with David Birney is very hard to see from the outside. It's insidious and gets at the core of a woman's being, so the fact that she had five kids and became paralyzed by fear in the marriage makes sense to me. I watched a relative go through this same thing. The man always came out smelling like a rose while she looked crazy, but it's the snide little comments that wound a woman's soul.

She told this story for others who won't recognize their being abused and I commend her for it. I wasn't as interested in her career highlights or her conversion to a lesbian, but I found her childhood, marriage and battle with alcoholism (especially the fact that she didn't recognize it in herself) fascinating.

This book will help other women, and so even if you can't see her struggle and identify with it, I think it was good she wrote it for herself.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
4.0 out of 5 stars deeply honest
This was an engrossing book, deeply honest and searching. I appreciated Meredith Baxter sharing her pain and joy, and of course her coming out story.
Published 17 days ago by Carolyn
5.0 out of 5 stars UNTIED: A MEMOIR OF FAMILY, FAME, AND FLOUND...
MEREDITH BAXTER BECAME A REAL PERSON TO ME WHILE READING THIS WONDERFUL BOOK. IT WAS LIKE READING HER 4TH STEP, SO HONEST & VULNERABLE. LOVE TO YOU, MEREDITH.
Published 25 days ago by Cheryl Dremann
4.0 out of 5 stars Good book
This was a good book and little slow at times but a good read for someone who enjoys memoirs and true stories
Published 1 month ago by Michelle L. Munn
5.0 out of 5 stars GREAT BOOK
THE BOOK WAS GREAT AND RECEIVED ON TIME. I REALLY LIKED THE BOOK ALOT AND I WOULD RECOMMEND IT TO MY FRIENDS.
Published 1 month ago by TAMMY
1.0 out of 5 stars Emptiness
Those of you that say they have more respect for her now make me ponder. She did drugs when her son was a baby, she took him to the frozen north to live in a dirty basement until... Read more
Published 2 months ago by gabbygirl
5.0 out of 5 stars Untied: A Memoir of Family, Fame, and Floundering
Thanks for sending this box set of CDs so quickly. I have yet opened it and download it but I will do so this week. I look forward to hearing her stories of life.
Published 2 months ago by Peace
5.0 out of 5 stars Good "Behind The Scenes" Read
I was pretty floored to learn all this lady has endured. This book took a lot of courage to write. Her candor and insight into her very private life were well penned. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Laura Alexander
4.0 out of 5 stars Meredith Baxter
I liked this book. Meredith Baxter had some awful people in her life, but she tells her story with some humor. She was funnier than I'd expected. Read more
Published 6 months ago by samuel clemens
5.0 out of 5 stars FABULOUS MEMOIR
I thoroughly enjoyed reading Meredith's memoir and I had a hard time putting it down! It completely kept my attention. Read more
Published 7 months ago by Cocowood
5.0 out of 5 stars FABULOUS BOOK!
IF YOU HAVE EVER BEEN EMOTIONALLY ABUSED, SHE WORDS IT TO THE POINT AND SO ONE IS ABLE TO EMOTIONALLY "SEE" THEIR OWN FEELINGS. Read more
Published 10 months ago by Patricia R. Breault
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