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Until It Hurts: America's Obsession with Youth Sports and How It Harms Our Kids
 
 
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Until It Hurts: America's Obsession with Youth Sports and How It Harms Our Kids [Hardcover]

Mark Hyman (Author)
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Near the end of a long season, fourteen-year-old baseball pitcher Ben Hyman approached his father with disappointing, if not surprising, news: his pitching shoulder was tired. With each throw to home plate, he felt a twinge in his still maturing arm. Any doctor would have advised the young boy to take off the rest of the season. Author Mark Hyman sent his son out to pitch the next game. After all, it was play-off time.

Stories like these are not uncommon. Over the last seventy-five years, adults have staged a hostile takeover of kids' sports. In 2003 alone, more than 3.5 million children under age fifteen required medical treatment for sports injuries, nearly half of which were the result of simple overuse. The quest to turn children into tomorrow's superstar athletes has often led adults to push them beyond physical and emotional limits.

In Until It Hurts, journalist, coach, and sports dad Mark Hyman explores how youth sports reached this problematic state. His investigation takes him from the Little League World Series in Pennsylvania to a prestigious Chicago soccer club, from adolescent golf and tennis superstars in Atlanta to California volleyball players. He interviews dozens of children, parents, coaches, psychologists, surgeons, sports medicine specialists, and former professional athletes. He speaks at length with Whitney Phelps, Michael's older sister; retraces the story of A Very Young Gymnast, and its subject, Torrance York; and tells the saga of the Castle High School girls' basketball team of Evansville, Indiana, which in 2005 lost three-fifths of its lineup to ACL injuries. Along the way, Hyman hears numerous stories: about a mother who left her fifteen-year-old daughter at an interstate exit after a heated exchange over her performance during a soccer game, about a coach who ordered preteens to swim laps in three-hour shifts for twenty-four hours.

Hyman's exploration leads him to examine the history of youth sports in our country and how it's evolved, particularly with the increasing involvement of girls and much more proactive participation of parents. With its unique multiple perspective-of history, of reporting, and of personal experience-this book delves deep into the complicated issue of sports for children, and opens up a much-needed discussion about the perils of youth sports culture today. Hyman focuses not only on the unfortunate cases of overzealous parents and overly ambitious kids, but also on how positive change can be made, and concludes by shining a spotlight on some inspirational parents and model sports programs, giving hope that the current destructive cycle can be broken.

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Mark Hyman illustrates-through personal anecdotes and meticulous reporting-the transformative power of sports in the lives of young people. More important, he shows how adults are ruining the experience by turning youth sports into a high-pressure, big-money enterprise. When did kids' sports become more work than play? Until It Hurts provides the answer-and offers the solutions we've been looking for.—Joan Ryan, author of Little Girls in Pretty Boxes

"A hair-raising look at everything that is wrong with youth sports today. Every parent and every coach who has ever been involved in youth sports and cares about kids has an obligation to read it."—Buzz Bissinger, author of Friday Night Lights

"It took a son's sore arm for Mark Hyman to recognize a hard truth: We're destroying youth sports, and maybe not even producing better athletes in the process. Until It Hurts is a sobering manifesto that should be required reading for every parent, coach, administrator, and referee. Though my daughter's U-7 soccer team doesn't know it, I've already implemented its smart, sensible, and long-overdue advice."—Stefan Fatsis, National Public Radio sports commentator and author of A Few Seconds of Panic and Word Freak

"As his teenaged son undergoes major surgery so he can pitch again, a sports dad examines the physical and emotional minefield of youth sports and comes up with ideas to make it family-friendlier. If you've got a young jock in the house, this book is more important than a private coach."—Robert Lipsyte, author of Raiders Night

"In this passionate and eye-opening book, Mark Hyman shows how helicopter parents, professionalized sports programs, and technological changes have produced a perfect storm-with our children's physical and mental well-being at the vortex."—Michael Kimmel, author of Manhood in America

"Hyman has authored a richly detailed, eye-opening look at an America hell-bent on turning our children into 'winners'-no matter the physical or emotional cost. Important, compelling, and painfully honest, Until It Hurts looks in all the right directions, including the mirror." —Armen Keteyian, Chief Investigative Correspondent, CBS News

About the Author

Mark Hyman is a journalist, frequently contributing to publications, such as The New York Times and Sports Illustrated, and he was a former writer for BusinessWeek and Sports Business Journal. In 1998, he assisted Baseball Hall of Fame broadcaster Jon Miller in the writing of his memoir, Confessions of a Baseball Purist. He has appeared on panels and led workshops for the Sports Lawyers Association, the American Press Institute and the Associated Press Sports Editors. In 2010 he was honored as one of 18 Sports Ethics Fellows by the Institute for International Sport at the University of Rhode Island and the Positive Coaching Alliance at Stanford University. He currently teaches in the sports management program at George Washington University.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 160 pages
  • Publisher: Beacon Press (April 1, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0807021180
  • ISBN-13: 978-0807021187
  • Product Dimensions: 5.7 x 0.6 x 8.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #267,530 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

I am a sports journalist who writes frequently about the business of sports, sports and law, and about the role of adults in youth sports.

My writing projects, though varied, usually are rooted in some aspect of the sports world. In 1998, I wrote with ESPN baseball broadcaster Jon Miller, "Confessions of a Baseball Purist," Jon's anecdotal and analytical take on the National Pastime.

My second book, "Until It Hurts," covers a subject that interests me greatly - the impact of parents, coaches and other adults on youth sports.

My third book, "The Most Expensive Game in Town," deals with the business of youth sports and will be published in March.

I'm also working with Dr. Robert Cantu, Co-Director of Boston University's Center for the Study of Traumatic Encephalopathy and Chief of Neurosurgery at Emerson Hospital, on "Concussions and Our Kids: America's Leading Expert on Young Athletes and How to Keep Sports Safe." Publication date is September, 2012.

In March 2010, I was honored as a Sports Ethics Fellow by the Institute for International Sport at the University of Rhode Island and the Positive Coaching Alliance at Stanford University.

I enjoy teaching. This academic year, I'll be teaching Sports Law and Sports Management at the George Washington University.

My current sports passion is running - I've completed marathons in 18 states with a goal to run a marathon in all 50 states.

My greatest pleasure is spending time with my wife, Peggy, and hanging out with our children (my toughest editors) Eli and Ben.

 

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12 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Important book for all who care about youth sports, June 3, 2009
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This review is from: Until It Hurts: America's Obsession with Youth Sports and How It Harms Our Kids (Hardcover)
Having no children of my own, I recently attended a friend's child's Little League game, and was taken aback at the intensity and unhappiness of the whole experience: Coaches yelling at players constantly, parents yelling and agonizing about their kids, kids outright bawling following a strikeout. Wow. I thought sports was supposed to be fun.

My experiences with youth sports were largely similar. I can say that pickup games, backyard basketball, endless wiffleball games with other kids on my street, these are the best sports memories from my youth. Not organized games with annoying coaches and cloying parents.

This is an outstanding book that all parents, umpires, and coaches of young kids need to read and think about. Sports are supposed to be fun. Ask yourself this question: does my son or daughter actually enjoy and look forward to playing basketball, baseball, soccer, etc? If not, maybe they, and you, should look to put their energies in another direction.

Highly recommended.
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10 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Should be required reading for parents of athletes and coaches, June 4, 2009
This review is from: Until It Hurts: America's Obsession with Youth Sports and How It Harms Our Kids (Hardcover)
Hyman pulls no punches, using himself and his son as an example of the way a parent's good intentions and a child's desire to play can go horribly wrong. Every parent who thinks their child is the next Michael Jordan, Mia Hamm, Tim Teebow, or A-Rod should be required to read this book before their child gets back on the field or court. Hyman convincingly lays out the case that youth sports have gone professional and frequently have more to do with the adults footing the bills than the children playing them. Touching on irresponsible coaches and parents, over-acheiving kids, doctors whose voices are ingnored by parents who "shop for a doc" until they get the answer they want, and blowing apart the myth that your child is going to get an athletic shcolarship or that having one actually pays for college, Hyman argues that we're out of control and then gives examples of youth sports the way they should be played...for FUN and character. The lowering of age in surgery statistics and the number of life-affecting overuse injuries will frighten you, the parents and coaches will make you ill. If you see yourself in these pages, it's not too late to change things. Highly recommended.
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5.0 out of 5 stars a must read for parents of kids that play sports, November 29, 2011
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This book was suggested to me and a room full of board members of AYSO by our former Regional Commissioner. I ordered it the next day
was awakened to the myth that has been propagated by parents across America about why and how kids should participate in team sports.
My older son is a 14 year old athlete that has participated in variety of sports and has been yelled at by coaches and parents since he was
7 years old. I am not a sideline parent that coaches my kid, but have volunteered for many years in the programs. I asked him if he wanted
to keep playing and he said no. I told him he didn't have to any more and he looked more relieved than I have ever seen him. He ran a triathlon
at 13, played club soccer at 14 and has been on a competitive swim team and played football, basketball and soccer for his school.
This book reveals the underlying pressure that kids feel and what kids sports have become. I am so grateful I read it and so is my son.
Not sure what we're going to do on weekends any more, but it won't be at the expense of our son!!
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