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David Nyberg (Author)
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0226610527 978-0226610528 January 1, 1995 First
Everyone says that lying is wrong. But when we say that lying is bad and hurtful and that we would never intentionally tell a lie, are we really deceiving anyone? In this wise and insightful book, David Nyberg exposes the tacit truth underneath our collective pretense and reveals that an occasional lie can be helpful, healthy, creative, and, in some situations, even downright moral.

The Varnished Truth takes us beyond philosophical speculation and clinical analysis to give us a sense of what it really means to tell the truth. As Nyberg lays out the complexities involved in leading a morally decent life, he compels us to see the spectrum of alternatives to telling the truth and telling a clear-cut lie.

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Challenging deeply ingrained habits of thinking, Nyberg (philosophy of education, SUNY-Buffalo) proposes that deception is "an essential component of our ability to organize and shape the world." He draws examples from everyday situations and literature to support his thesis that total honesty--telling the complete truth to everyone on every occasion--can damage interpersonal relationships. "Edited truth" is frequently necessary to preserve propriety and good will in both work-related and personal situations, he argues; children must be taught that unbridled truthfulness can be as harmful as blatant lying, and a degree of self-deception may even be vital to good mental health. Nyberg acknowledges, however, the ever-present danger of crossing the fine line separating imprecise truth from harmful deceit. Well written, entertaining, and provocative, this book is highly recommended for general collections.
- Carol R. Glatt, VA Medical Ctr. Lib., Philadelphia
Copyright 1993 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

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Is truth-telling morally overrated? Is deception a ``normal...attribute of practical intelligence?'' In this provocative, original work, Nyberg (Philosophy of Education/SUNY at Buffalo) looks at the moral and logical complexity of deception. Contending that deception and self-deception are necessary to social stability and individual mental health, Nyberg suggests that intentional deceit--white lies, selective omissions, even conscious silences--can be creative and compassionate alternatives to stark truth-telling. Unlike Sissela Bok's Lying (1978), which he finds limited by its abstract theoretical approach, Nyberg's study concentrates on deception in context--between friends, while raising children, in court cases--and emphasizes the importance of coherent interpretation of ultimate outcome over adherence to a single principle. Should you tell a dying novelist that his latest work is not up to snuff, or an especially jealous wife the details of affairs carried on before the marriage? For the most part, Nyberg uses everyday behavior or literary example to highlight the issues as, in sharp, deft sentences, he cuts to the heart of the matter: ``To live decently with one another, we do not need moral purity, we need discretion''; ``What does a child need before sleep, reality or comfort?''; ``Sometimes the truth does not set you free; it destroys the sense of freedom that hope provides.'' Moving from legal ethics to receptive aphasics responding to a Reagan speech, from The Hedgehog and the Fox to Honest Andrew, this isn't philosophy-made-simple but a spirited, accessible challenge to basic assumptions about what constitutes moral conduct. -- Copyright ©1993, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 244 pages
  • Publisher: University Of Chicago Press; First edition (January 1, 1995)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0226610527
  • ISBN-13: 978-0226610528
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.5 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.5 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,551,592 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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1.0 out of 5 stars At least he's consistent, July 16, 2003
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Maybe a case could be made for Nyberg's thesis, but ths book doesn't make it. This is just a bad book.

Nyberg believes that lying and deceit are often morally right, and by all appearances he begins indulging himself in this principle from the first page of the introduction.

On that first page, he says that the "standard view of moral philosophy" is that lying is categorically wrong. That is simply ridiculous. That was the "standard view" for only a brief time, in a small space-namely, among Catholic philosophers in medieval times. It was not the "standard view" in antiquity, nor has it been the "standard" view for the last several hundred years, nor has it ever been the standard view in Judaism.

Then, also on page one, he claims that the standard view of behavioral scientists is that normal thinking consists of direct contact with reality, free of distortion, and claims that any deception is thought to be born of anxiety and symptomatic of pathology. Again, that is simply untrue.

By the time Nyberg wrote this book, that 1950s-style view had been roundly proven wrong by well-known research that most everyone in the field considers sound. By the time Nyberg wrote, the ubiquity of self-deception was commonplace knowledge, as was the fact that those least skilled in self-deception are chronic depressives. Furthermore, the views of Martin Seligman and Lewis Beck, among others, had long-since become orthodox--and they certainly make no claim resembling the one Nyberg foists onto "behavioral science." Research into "optimism" had become the trendy topic among researchers on mental health and mental attitudes. And among psychoanalytically-oriented philosophers, "narrative therapy" had supplanted older ideas, and narrative therapy has never claimed that narratives have to be "true" in the sense Nyberg claims. So, too, the idea of "the patient's reality" had generally replaced old-fashioned truth as the epistemological standard of psychodynamic care.

Continuing on to page two of the introduction, we find Nyberg misleading the reader by claiming that since deceit has an evolutionary function, calling it immoral or unhealthy is "disingenuous if not desperate."

Not *one single* evolutionary biologist or psychologist would *ever* argue that an evolutionary function serves as any kind of moral justification. Indeed, the predominant view is that morality serves to check many genetically-programmed activities. (See, for instance, Richard Dawkins' best-selling book "The Selfish Gene.") The only argument among competent professionals is whether our moral capacity to proscribe wrong actions, whether of genetic or other provenance, is itself genetic or is a matter of culture.

Worse for Nyberg, evolutionary psychologists do not argue that what is naturally selected is needful for health. Exactly the contrary. A foundational principle of evolutionary psychology is that many of our pathologies result from the "adaptive lag" between the conditions in which our genotypes developed and the conditions under which we live. Within evolutionary psychology, we assume that the legacy of natural selection is likely to be highly problematic.

Since Nyberg uses "adaptivity" as a recurring theme is his argument, his (at best) failure to know anything about adaptation undermines his argument.

The rest of the book is about as sound as the first two pages. For instance, Nyberg's portrayal of Sissela Bok's classic work is just weird. Just one of many possible examples: Nyberg claims that Bok is a "top down theorist," whereas he "is interested in particular cases." Now, Bok's method is precisely to proceed according to cases; and she condemns those who ignore cases, saying that to ignore either cases or general principles is to become shallow or rigid. Indeed, most of her book is about cases!

Then, in asking why truth matters, Nyberg completely ignores the well-known reasons: that we cannot make reliable plans or sound choices if we cannot count on info we've been given, and that only the truth allows an individual to make his own choices rather than falling prey to manipulation by others (liars) who rob him of his right to self-determination by giving false info. Instead, Nyberg concocts some fuzzy New Agey nonsense about truth making us feel good in an uncertain universe-a concern not common among advocates of truth telling.

Oh-he also portrays advocates of truth telling as perfectionists who long for certainty, which is at best a straw man. Longing for certainty and valuing truth-telling are by no means the same thing, and the two do not march lockstep through the history of ethics. And very few critics of lying are absolutists, much less perfectionists, at all. He generally portrays his opponents as holding the quirky 1960s "Let it all hang out-say everything in your mind all the time" notion of truth, which bears no relation to what most opponents of deceit have ever said.

And dear me-the things he adduces as considerations in favor of deceit! The valid ones are not news, and his new ones are mostly bizarre. He acts as if he were saying something new, and does not bother to point out, or explain, the twenty-five hundred year history of such considerations. Few moral precepts can lay claim to universality, but the imperative to honesty, with the corollary prohibition of deceit, is one. As a result, the quandaries posed by apparently-needful deceit have been explored for millennia. You would never know it from reading Nyberg.

As for ridiculous claims-well, here's an example: he presents arrogance as a form of truth, and presenting one's self as an equal to those whom one knows to be less intelligent as deception! Please! Arrogance is a matter of holding people in contempt, which has nothing to do with whether one knows one's self to be smarter than they. Accepting people as equals simply means recognizing that human dignity does not correlate with IQ.

This book is at best just a clever presentation of a contrarian position, which differs from well-known positions within the standard argumentarium (at best) in emphasis, claimed self-importance, and confusion. Indeed, it is so rife with ignorance and misstatements, it may well be proff positive that failure to require truthfulness above all corrupts the character. How else explain an author who so obviously doesn't bother to know whereof he speaks, or to speak accurately about what (presumably) he knows?

In short, pretentious, untrustworthy, even silly.

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6 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Good Look at a Touchy Issue, February 14, 2001
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Nyberg addresses the fact that many know but few are willing to admit...that is...as a society and as individuals we all lie. We not only lie, but we condone lying and we often require it from ourselves and from others. Nyberg does a very good job of looking at the concept of lying, and looking at it's beneficial aspects as well as it's harmful ones. Nyberg never slips over the edge into "preachiness" nor does he go too far into radical territory (in either direction). NOTE: The book is written in a relatively easy to undersatnd style, but it is not written at an 8th grade reading level.

If you want a good book that sheds light on the issue of lies and how we all function using them and hearing them...this is the book for you.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Smart, funny and persuasive., March 31, 2008
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This book challenges current conceptions of truth telling and deceiving by exploring their logical and moral complexities, and by providing wry and often funny examples of ways in which deception of certain kinds might actually work to improve the moral character of our relations with others. This is the way good philosophy for non-philosophers ought to be; accessible, witty, humane, unpretentious and free of jargon.
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