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The Viagra Myth: The Surprising Impact On Love And Relationships [Paperback]

Abraham Morgentaler (Author)
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September 24, 2003
In The Viagra Myth Dr. Abraham Morgentaler (a practicing urologist on the faculty of Harvard Medical School) shows us that while Viagra has proved enormously helpful to many men, it has also uncovered previously ignored aspects of identity and authenticity in sexuality and relationships. Some men, for example, may fear telling their partner they are using Viagra, yet still struggle with the hope of being loved for their true self. Women who discover their partner has resorted to a secret sexual enhancer may complain, "I thought it was me who turned you on . . ." Viagra may improve a man's sexual abilities, but there may also be a profound cost involved.
If you or your partner is using or considering Viagra, or even if you are only wondered what it might be like to have a better sex life, this book is essential reading. It will provide insight and instruction about the reality of quick-fix solutions, sexuality, personal growth, and meaningful relationships.



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Morgentaler, a practicing urologist and a professor at Harvard Medical School who has done research on erectile dysfunction, wants to explode the "notion of Viagra as an automatic solution, as the quick fix to all sexual problems." He has no problems with the millions of prescriptions of Viagra that doctors have made since the drug was introduced in 1998. But he is effective at presenting facts that are not so well known, such as that the drug works in 80% of men with performance anxiety but only two-thirds of men with other types of erectile dysfunction. What he does best, however, is to demonstrate how "a firm erection cannot solve deeper problems." Each chapter describes a situation in which a patient who thought that Viagra was the answer to his problems finds that there are other explanations. In one, a man learns that his performance problems have to do with the lack of trust he and his partner share; in another, a man who thinks that Viagra will make his sexual performance last the right time learns that "studies have shown that humans average only a minute and a half for their sexual encounters." Short bullet-point summaries of important information at the end of each chapter and an excellent section on "Frequently Asked Questions About Viagra" help make this book an important resource for both physicians and patients who are contemplating prescribing or using the drug, but who may be doing so for all the wrong reasons.
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Morgentaler, a practicing urologist and a professor at Harvard Medical School who has done research on erectile dysfunction, wants to explode the "notion of Viagra as an automatic solution, as the quick fix to all sexual problems." He has no problems with the millions of prescriptions of Viagra that doctors have make since the drug was introduced in 1998. But he is effective at presenting facts that are not so well known, such as that the drug works in 80% of men with performance anxiety but only two-thirds of men with other types of erectile dysfunction. What he does best, however, is to demonstrate how "a firm erection cannot solve deeper problems." Each chapter describes a situation in which a patient who thought that Viagra was the answer to his problems finds that there are other explanations. In one, a man learns that his performance problems have to do with the lack of trust he and his partner share; in another, a man who thinks that Viagra will make his sexual performance last the right time learns that "studies have shown that humans average only a minute and a half for the sexual encounters." Short bullet-point summaries of important information at the end of each chapter and an excellent section of "Frequently Asked Questions About Viagra" help make this book an important resource for both physicians and patients who are contemplating prescribing or using the drug, but who may be doing so for all the wrong reasons. (Oct.) (Piblishers Weekly, August 18, 2003)

"...reveals for the first time the drug's popularity is waning as it leaves a trail of broken relationships and shattered expectations in its wake." (The Independent, 27 August 2003)

"...warns that the drug may be killing passion rather than igniting it." (The New Zealand Herald, 28 August 2003)

"...argues that the drug's side effects are not so much medical as emotional." (The Independent, 29 August 2003)

Viagra can help many men, asserts urologist Morgentaler (Harvard Medical Sch.; The Male Body). But its cure-all-penises reputation is only a myth. It is most effective for erectile dysfunction caused by performance anxiety, less so for premature ejaculation and for medically caused problems. Viagra cannot supply desire, guarantee partner satisfaction, or rescue a relationship aground on different issues. Moreover, secret use of the drug can raise issues of trust and honesty with a partner. Yet there are effective treatments for when Viagra fails-injections, implants, vacuum devices, and couple therapy. Morgentaler's needed corrective is readable and well organized, with case histories and summaries - plus a chapter on gay relationships. Unfortunately, it lacks a resource section, guidelines for finding a doctor/therapist, and illustrations. A good general work on sexual dysfunction is Lawrence Hakim's The Couple's Disease, and Robert Butler and Myrna Lewis's The New Love and Sex After 60 is also highly recommended. Morgentaler's books is a valuable if imperfect addition to collections where Viagra books circulate frequently. (Index not seen.) —Martha Cornog, Philadelphia (Library Journal, October 1, 2003)


Product Details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Jossey-Bass; 1 edition (September 24, 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0787968013
  • ISBN-13: 978-0787968014
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6.1 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.1 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #679,923 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"Abraham Morgentaler, M.D., is an Associate Clinical Professor of Urology at Harvard Medical School, and is the founder of Men's Health Boston, a center focusing on sexual and reproductive health for men. He is the author of a number of popular books including The Male Body and The Viagra Myth."

 

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5.0 out of 5 stars A valuable guide to understanding the male mind!, December 24, 2003
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" What an incredible book. A must read for any man or a woman interested in understanding and helping their partner achieve happiness through love and science. The Viagra Myth provides a new understanding of the complicated world of relationships. The insights about men and their fears were eye opening for me. With the creation of Viagra, most people thought that somehow there was now a miracle cure to solve relationships that were about to fail. However, through Dr Morgentaler's words, it is clear that as much as technology plays an important role in our lives, we can't forget the core rules of a successful relationship: clear and open communication about one's expectations, fears, wishes and dreams. Dr. Morgentaler's book shows chapter by chapter how the combination of all of these elements allows us to create a space where we feel comfortable with each other, hence making it possible for our sexual selves to be free and more enjoyable, which in turn builds the foundations for a stronger and successful relationship. Thank you, Dr. Morgentaler!"
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Viagra, the untold stories....., December 9, 2003
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This review is from: The Viagra Myth: The Surprising Impact On Love And Relationships (Paperback)
Dr. Morgentaler, a practicing Urologist and Professor at Harvard University, has written a great book about Viagra that demystifies this wonder drug and in plain English, underscores its value and its pitfalls. Each chapter is devoted to real clinical cases that demonstrate how love, aging, relationships and physical changes can make any man or woman seek the advise and solice of a physician or therapist. Dr. Morgentaler does not dispute the value of Viagra in the right circumstances. Rather, he points out that in many cases, men and women seek the drug but come to understand that, in fact, they need a greater appreciation of their partner, or an understanding of the normal sequelae of aging. Dr. Morgentaler also has chapters on the use of Viagra in Gay relationships and in cases of prostate cancer. A final chapter answers "frequently asked questions" in a most honest and understandable fashion. I recommend this book to any adult, male or female, who is curious about Viagra,and who has questions about sexual function and dysfunction. A terrific read!
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5.0 out of 5 stars The Viagra Myth, October 22, 2003
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Congratulations Dr. Morgentaler! We at last have a book that reaches past 'THE MYTH' into the true legend that lies within the miracle blue pill. The ultimate desire to embrace sexuality with sensuality, depth and meaning. The book reaches past the rigidity in thought, to arrive at a profound love every man and woman desires and can attain. This book is a must read if you want practical information, in everyday language, of what Viagra can and can't do, and gets to the core of what it is that truly brings a couple lasting meaningful great sex. Bravo!!
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