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Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse Paperback – May 11, 2004
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“We finally have a book which can offer men support on their journey towards recovery and healing.” (Dan Sexton, Survivors of Child Abuse Program of Childhelp USA)
“Male victims carry a particular burden of shame. Victims No Longer helps to lift the burden.” (Judith Herman, M.D., author of Father-Daughter Incest)
“The most important resource for men healing from past sexual abuse. Comprehensive, compassionate and clear, it offers hope.... (Wendy Maltz, author of The Sexual Healing Journey)
“Passionate and compassionate , both speaking out on behalf of male victims and illuminating a number of pathways toward healing.” (David Fineklhor, Director, Crimes Against Children Research Center, University of New Hampshire)
“Accessible, moving, and validating... a beacon of hope for sexually abused men and their loved ones..” (Richard Gartner, Ph.D., author of Betrayed as Boys)
“As an Episcopal priest...I depend upon Mike Lew’s insights in my daily work.” (The Reverend Anne C. Fowler, Rector, St. John's Episcopal Church, MA)
“A touchstone of gtuidance, hope and understanding that helps therapists, survivors and their loved ones.” (-Ernesto Mujica, Ph.D.)
“Victims No Longer sits on my desk as a reference guide for both myself and my clients.” (Vicki Polin, M.A., ATR, LCPC, Director and Founder, The Awareness Center)
“The first book I recommend to new clients.” (Howard Fradkin, Ph.D., Male Survivor Retreat Chairperson)
“The definitive book on men who were abused. I refer other professionals to the book and make it required reading.” (Joe Amico, M.Div., CAS, CSAC, President, National Association for Lesbian and Gay Addiction Professionals)
“Victims No Longer breaks the isolation, shame and sense of uniquness that most male survivors struggle with. (Ken Singer, LCSW, Executive Director, NJ Association for the Treatment of Sexual Abusers)
About the Author
Mike Lew, M.Ed., a psychotherapist and group therapy leader, is co-director of The Next Step Counseling and Training Center in Newton Centre, MA. He provides public lectures, professional trainings, and workshops for survivors nationwide, and he has appeared on "The Oprah Winfrey Show," "Sally Jessy Raphael," and many other television and radio programs.
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Top Customer Reviews
A lot of pages are stained with coffee, red wine and tears.
It's a book I still read a lot, five years after I first got it.
I am a Survivor of sexual abuse, and have recovered my life through therapy, and some hard personal work. But the personal work was so much easier with this remarkable book.
Mike Lew's understanding of 'our' problems is second to none and he expresses himself very clearly throughout the book. Don't think that this is just a book for professionals, it isn't. This is a book for everyone concerned with men who have been sexually abused.
I now work with other Survivors, and I always recommend this book to them, which is why I'm here at Amazon again; buying yet another copy so someone else can benefit.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
This book talks all about recovering from abuse. It just doesn't explain HOW. I pretty much know everything that is wrong with me already, I don't need a book to tell me that. Read morePublished 10 days ago by Delta99
As a counselor, who works primarily with survivors of sexual trauma, this book works great. I have recommended it to a few male clients and they are able to recognize more about... Read morePublished 2 months ago by Portia
Just finished up this amazing resource, thank you Mike Lew!
This is a not a book that you read straight through in 1 sitting or even over a short period of time. Read more
Great book with so many in depth analysis about the reality of the the victims
Language is very encouraging and compassionate
Its a must read!
A friend needed help so I bought this book to see what and/or what not to do to help. It was a great help and I learned a lot from it. Read morePublished 12 months ago by Donald K Barner