Suzanne C. Kita is a writer, editor, teacher, and education consultant. She has taught both in public and private schools and in community colleges. She lives in the Rocky Mountains near Bailey, Colorado, where she facilitates workshops for writers of all ages and writes on environmental issues for children and adults.
Harriet Kinghorn was honored as "Teacher of the Year" in East Grand Forks, Minnesota, and received the Doane College Alumni Educator of the Year award. She has authored and coauthored more than thirty educational books. In 1995, her Every Child a Storyteller: A Handbook of Ideas, written with Mary Helen Pelton, won the Storytelling World Award.
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§ Have you ever wished you knew more about your parents or grandparents lives or even the lives of close friends? Have you wished that they had recorded and passed on to you the stories of their lives?
§ Have you ever taken time to think about your own experiences, those that made you who you are?
§ When was the last time you vowed to write your own memories, yet put aside the immediate urge, unsure of how to begin?
If these questions make you feel the need to take action, then this book is for you. In Videotaping Your Memoirs, we will
examine the motives many adults have for sharing their stories; explore the intrinsic values of reviewing your lifes journey; encourage you to identify and retrieve the significant, colorful, and entertaining memories of your own life; recommend videotaping as an easy, innovative method of transcribing these stories; explain how you can capture, preserve, and share a lasting legacy with those you love.
Why do we feel compelled to pass on the stories of our lives? Its human nature to want to form a meaningful link between ourselves, those who have gone before us, and those who will follow us. Long before the use of written language, humans kept life histories and traditions alive through story telling. A few generations ago, families lived close together and often spent entire lifetimes in the same community. It was easier for people to know each others histories then and to keep memories alive. Now our society has become more mobile. Family members often no longer live in the same communities. Our lives have become busier, with many more demands on our attention. This means there are fewer opportunities and less time for sharing reminiscences.
§ Have you ever wished you knew more about your parents or grandparents lives, or the lives of your close friends?
Significantly, having little information available about our ancestors lives creates a void in our own histories. Often all that remains of those who preceded us are tattered photos and entries in the family Bible. Many times we think about these ancestors and ask ourselves: What would it have been like to live in Grandmas time? Or, what was Aunt Johnnie like? How many times have we wished we could remember Granddads story about how he and Grandma met? How often have we wished we could fully appreciate the influence great-aunts and uncles have had on our lives? If you had your fathers or mothers autobiography, wouldnt you consider it to be among your most prized possessions? While you may no longer be able to fill this particular void, you can ensure that your heirs will not suffer the same sort of loss. By creating your memoirs, you are giving your loved ones the chance to see you as a real person during the various stages of your lifeand as you are nowand to learn about the significant events and changes of your life. Leaving your memoirs is a gift that only you can give, one that those close to you will treasure. Otherwise, much will be lost forever. Of course, you need to believe that your lifes journey has been unique, interesting, and important. Unfortunately, many of us hedge on this. "Oh, my life has been ordinary," we say. "Theres nothing special about it." On the contrary, each persons life is too valuable to go unrecorded or to be forgotten. Your experiences are your own greatest treasure. No matter who we are or what sort of life weve lived, we all have intriguing stories to tell. What kinds of stories might you share? First, youll want to describe the factsand, just as important, your feelings about the turning points of your life, the peaks and valleys. In fact, you may wish:
to create a personal history set in the scope of larger circumstances and events, placing yourself in relationship to the bigger picture of the history of your family, your local community, and your world; to explain your actions and beliefs, the why behind what has happened in your life (maybe just to set the record straight); to focus on what the past means to you now, the ways in which it has affected you, and what lessons you have learned; to share the wisdom you have gained along the way, or the truth as you see it now; to entertain others with some of your favorite anecdotes and jokes, so that they will be acquainted with your sense of humor and perspective; to share the tragedies you have lived through and moved beyond.
A memoir is exactly what you want it to be. The only requirement is that it describes and defines you and your experiences.
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