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Debbie Gisonni (Author)
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October 3, 2000
At age 23 Debbie Gisonni had everything. She was on her way to becoming one of the youngest top paid executives in Silicon Valley; had found true love; and could make a mean cannoli!Then in 1984 Vita, her mother, got a brain tumor and became permanently disabled. A few years later, her younger sister killed herself suddenly. Three months after that, her father was diagnosed with bone cancer. And then her favorite aunt got breast cancer.Vitas Will chronicles Debbies riveting experiences. One day she was riding an adrenaline rush on the fast track, and the next she left it all behind to stop and smell the red sauce.Tuesdays With Morrie meets Chicken Soup for the Soul as Debbie brings humor and sorrow into the horrors of hospitals, the lost dreams of her parents, and the shock of her sisters suicide.Through these four deaths, Debbie learns to squeeze the sweetest wine from a bunch of sour grapes without wallowing in self pity. Her advice works for any traumatic situation. Youll be moved to tears and laughter by her 44 inspirational real life lessons and her nightly chats with God. I give it four hankies and a biscotti!

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High tech exec finds humility, humor, and heart when four family members die in four years.

About the Author

Debbie Gisonni is Founder and President of Real Life Lessons, a company dedicated to serving women in business, people who have lost a loved one, or those who have experienced a major change in their lives. For fifteen years one of the top executives in the high-tech magazine publishing industry in Silicon Valley, she left a lucrative career (stock options and all) to write Vitas Will: Real Life Lessons About Life, Death s National Book Association. She also volunteers for organizations that teach teenage girls business and life skills. As an experienced speaker, she has addressed executives, marketing, sales, and advertising managers in corporate America and she is available to speak to womens groups, business organizations and, cancer or suicide or health care support groups. A speech entitled Real Life Lessons You Cant Live Without has become her signature. Originally, from New York, Gisonni currently lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her husband and their Siberian Huskies.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 196 pages
  • Publisher: iUniverse (October 3, 2000)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0595142044
  • ISBN-13: 978-0595142040
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,304,869 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Debbie Gisonni, aka The Goddess of Happiness', is a best selling author, speaker, happiness expert and columnist for iVillage.com.

Debbie knows first-hand how to find true happiness, especially during life's darkest moments. At the height of her executive career, her personal life was derailed by the unexpected loss of four family members in four years. Debbie drew upon her inner strength to embrace her ordeal and, in the process, realized she wasn't the Queen Bee she once thought, in control of every aspect of her life, but rather an ordinary Goddess with the power to be happy no matter what path life took her on. She later boldly left her 15-year career and started her own company (Real Life Lessons') and the goddessofhappiness.com web site to help other women connect their inner power with the real life issues they face every day, from the trivial to the tragic, with the underlying belief that every woman is a goddess.

Debbie is the author of the national best seller, The Goddess of Happiness: A Down-to-Earth Guide for Heavenly Balance and Bliss and Vita's Will: Real Life Lessons about Life Death & Moving On. She is a contributing author to If Women Ruled the World, How to Create the World We Want to Live In, and her articles have appeared in publications such as The San Francisco Chronicle, Simplycity, Living in Balance, and Nonprofit World.

Debbie has been a guest on numerous radio and TV shows across the country, and has been featured in books and periodicals such as Sell Yourself Without Selling Your Soul, The San Jose Mercury News, The Dallas Morning News and Better Homes & Gardens. She is an experienced speaker who has addressed audiences of all kinds from corporate to women's groups to teen girls.

 

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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars You Really Will Laugh AND Cry, December 7, 2000
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Michael Azzara (Wantagh, New York USA) - See all my reviews
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Debbie Gisonni has written a scarily honest book about the emotional struggles she suffered in losing four close family members in four short years. But ultimately, her heart-wrenching story has a triumphant spirit. She takes us inside her mind and her heart with a raw honesty rarely, if ever, seen. Like everyone else, you'll likely recognize your own guilty thoughts, "inappropriate" jokes or laughs, things you've done or said that you hate yourself for. Thus, she holds a mirror up to our humanity in all its pain, humor and wonder. Oh yeah, and glory.

And even though it's a first book, she does all this with a simple, powerful writing style that drives you through the book. And she throws in an uncannily accurate description of the culture inside a New York City Italian-American family (that is NOT mob-connected). Trust me; been there, done that. She nails it.

If you've ever struggled with emoitonal loss, or just felt overwhelmed by circumstances beyond your control, this is an important book for you. Internalizing its "Real Life Lessons" will help put you back on track.

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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars When life serves you lemons...., February 10, 2001
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make lemonade. An old saying but one that surely fits this book and this authors amazing spirit. Debbie Gisonni doesn't just scratch the surface of emotions as she encounters some heartbreaking setbacks. You don't read about the characters, you meet them. You can smell Vitas cooking, sense her fear, and become strengthened by her courage and Debbie's determination. I found myself in shock, as I read about Debbie's sister. I thought about how I would feel if this happened to one of my sisters. I understood Debbie's frustration with her fathers acceptance of his disease. I recalled some wonderful memories of my own favorite aunt as Debbie brought her to life on the pages.

Since I lost my mother and father by the time I was 30, I was able to relate to so much in this book. The experiences may have been different but the emotions are similar and the lessons you learn mark every fiber of your being. At the end of each chapter Debbie included her real life lesson. Some simple, others more complex. They are daily reminders of what really matter. I was relieved as I read about Debbie finding it near impossible to stay somber at her mothers service and the overwhelming need to start laughing. Thank goodness that has happened to someone else! This is where Debbie achieves her greatest accomplishment in writing this book - making the reader a part of the story. There were many days I was going about my life and I would think of Vita or Martha. I literally craved some of Vita's cooking. This book stayed with me long past the time I put it down.

I purchased additional books and gave them to friends as gifts. Everyone who read her story shared with me their insights. But what I found most interesting, was how many of my friends went one step further and shared how this story reminded them of someone in their life. That is when a book is more than pages and words. It touches the spirit.

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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Vita's Will, March 21, 2001
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You'll laugh, you'll cry but most of all you will be touched by this honest, insightful look at family and coping with loss.
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