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Wake Up or Break Up: 8 Crucial Steps to Strengthening Your Relationship Hardcover – Bargain Price, April 14, 2005

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"Leonard Felder understands what couples are facing in their everyday lives. . . . I highly recommend this book and its eight steps."--Michael Gurian, What Could He Be Thinking?

"Felder helps us see how to have that cherished dream of family togetherness and our personal boundaries, too."

About the Author

LEONARD FELDER, PH.D., is a licensed psychologist and recognized authority on how to improve difficult family situations. His eight books, which include Making Peace with Your Parents, Making Peace with Yourself, A Fresh Start, and When Difficult Relatives Happen to Good People, have sold more than a million copies and have been translated into 14 languages. He lives in Los Angeles, California.

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  • Hardcover: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Rodale Books (May 6, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1594860726
  • ASIN: B001G7REV4
  • Product Dimensions: 6.3 x 1.1 x 9.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #6,510,120 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Wake Up or Break Up- 8 Crucial Steps to Strengthening Your Relationship is so positive and so direct that you feel quite comfortable reading Dr. Felder's advice. You find yourself saying, "Oh my goodness, that's what I do." You never feel defensive or attacked, and neither will your partner. It is safe to pass this book on for reading and sharing.

Felder reminds us that there are warning signs when a relationship is in trouble and that it is up to individuals and their partners to recognize and acknowledge the signs. The next step is to start repairing the damage before the relationship is beyond repair. This is where Dr. Felder shines, he give real case scenarios with everyday problems. He discusses others who come with your partner as part of your union--friends, family, an ex-spouse.

This book is divided by steps instead of chapters. Step One starts with what Dr. Felder calls The Four Imbalancers: The Unintentional Bulldozer, The Martyr, The Unilateral Decision-Maker and The Nice Person Who Reaches The Breaking Point. These titles need no explanation--you may already see yourself. Step Eight offers advice on how to keep your repaired relationship strong.

Wake Up or Break Up- 8 Crucial Steps to Strengthening Your Relationship is more than a quick-fix guide for couples, it is a guide to understanding yourself and your mate.

Highly recommended.


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Really practical and insightful ways to help couples! You can can skip around the chapters and find what relates to you and your partner and use it!
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