When you see things like Columbine on the news, you wonder how parents could cope with something like that. How do they keep their families and themselves together? What would they want to say the parents of their child's killers? How do they deal with unceasing media attention?
Mauser provides a direct and honest account of how he found his way through it all. It's sad and heart-breaking, but it's also a book that describes healing, family bonds and--yes--it includes a bit of humor.
The subtitle outlines the topics of the book: "a father's journey through grief, controversy, activism, and healing."
Mauser explains his title "Walking in Daniel's Shoes." It turned out that he and his son wore the same shoe size, and he often wore Daniel's shoes when he worked for causes related to Columbine.
Mauser talks about the process of deciding to do 3 very brave things:
--He advocated for tougher gun laws, especially to close the gun show loophole, a loophole which allowed the Columbine killers to gather their arsenal. Wherever you stand on gun laws, you have to admire a grieving dad who stands up for what he believes in, even though it attracts all kinds of the painful attention. He engaged in e-mail conversations about the issues, even with the people who were really vicious.
--He, along with his wife, eventually met with the parents of the killers. He says he realized what a loss they had undergone as well, and when the time came to meet, they were all parents talking.
--He and his wife adopted a girl from China, just a couple of years after the shooting. They felt that they had time to give to nurturing another life.
This is a book that walks the reader through the dark valleys, but also describes finding a path to healing.