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If You Want Closure in Your Relationship, Start with Your Legs: A Guide to Understanding Men [Paperback]

Big Boom (Author)
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Book Description

June 5, 2007

NATIONAL ESSENCE BESTSELLER

Want to find real, committed love? The bodyguard for women's hearts reveals the minds of men in this tough-love guide to relationships.

After decades of preying on women as a pimp and a hustler, Big Boom knows all the games men play. He's now given up his player card, exposing the motivations of men and providing women with down-to-earth advice on how to create a fulfilling, loving relationship.

From sex with the ex to first dates, from the first look to the morning after, Boom leaves nothing out. His straight-talking advice exposes women's weaknesses and is invaluable to any woman determined to avoid common mistakes that lead to heartbreak.

This unique guide will show women not only how to find true love with Mr. Right, but also how to avoid Mr. Never-Gonna-Happen, Mr. Infidelity, and a variety of other Mr. Wrongs.


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"Boom has made the biggest turnaround in a person's life that I've ever known. I couldn't be more proud of him and this book. If You Want Closure in Your Relationship, Start with Your Legs is absolutely the best advice on men and relationships that a woman can buy. Boom knows what he's talking about and he isn't afraid to tell the truth!" -- Steve Harvey, Steve Harvey Morning Show

About the Author

A celebrity bodyguard for the past fifteen years, Big Boom is happily married and lives in Plano, Texas. Visit Boom at his website: www.bigboombooks.com.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Touchstone (June 5, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1416546464
  • ISBN-13: 978-1416546467
  • Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 6.3 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 2.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (47 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #424,787 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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20 of 22 people found the following review helpful
Time and Money WASTED!!!! September 24, 2007
Format:Paperback
Like many others, I saw this book in the store and decided to see what a brotha had to say. I understand that Mr. Boom has turned his life around and wants to inform women about the pitfalls of relationships, but I thought that it was a little over the top. This book is just a national confession of all the tricks and the games that he has played with women. In certain areas of the book, it sounded like he was bragging. After the first few chapters, I thought it was a waste of time, but I continued to read to see if he really had something interesting to say. Unfortunately, that never happened. If you are looking for some good advice, start with ANOTHER BOOK! This is a waste of time and money!
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22 of 25 people found the following review helpful
A waste of time and money November 20, 2007
By Tricia
Format:Paperback
Big Boom's "If you want closure in your relationship, Start with your legs" was exactly what I expected, a pointless commentary about what women should do to get a man. I knew that this book would not have any substance after reading the first few pages. The book is too choppy, his points are over the place. He contradicts himself throughout the book and is virtually saying the same thing over and over again.

Just because you are a "reformed pimp" doesn't make you an expert on relationships. Big Boom is fooling himself and readers if he thinks that his book is the resource that a woman needs to find a meaningful relationship, as he has claimed that he has.
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25 of 30 people found the following review helpful
Keep your money honey October 12, 2006
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
Big Boom said everything he had to say in the title of the book. The rest of the book looks good on the outside, but is very empty on new revelation. Poor editing, repeating statements, rambling on from tangent to tangent. Take your $23.00 and carry a little old lady to Starbucks, and get the same information, plus, you will be doing a good deed.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
Worst relationship book ever
I am too done with Big Boom. He spends a great deal of the book apologizing for what he used to be. Then gives advice, followed by a "women are shady' example. Read more
Published 13 months ago by ThatLady
A WAKE-UP CALL
THIS WAS A GREAT BOOK AND TOLD THE TRUTH! AS WOMEN WE GET TOO CAUGHT UP IN WHAT A PERSON (MAN) TELL US. WE NEED TO GIVE THIS TYPE OF ENERGY TO OUR COMMON SENSE!
Published on March 3, 2010 by DIVA STARR
Well, It's just not my taste.
The sad part is that there so many people who need advice written in this style. He is very repetitive. The book very dumb-down for my style. Read more
Published on November 29, 2009 by OUTSPOKEN_DIVA
Don't read this trash
I do not recommend this book for two reasons: 1) Big Boom talked about himself too much; and 2) as another reviewer put it "Big Boom said everything he had to say in the title of... Read more
Published on July 5, 2009 by Short Young Thing
Good Advice
Found this to be a book that makes you think. Big Boom gives a man's perspective on relationship issues; vastly different from my own preconceived ideas.
Published on June 23, 2009 by T. L. Travis
Entertaining
This book was entertaining as well as informative although I don't agree with all of the authors' views. He was dead on regarding some issues.
Published on April 7, 2009 by S. Morrison
Straight..with no chaser!
When I first saw the title of this book,It immediately grabbed my attention and I knew I had to read it. Read more
Published on March 11, 2009 by Ms. Read
Awful Book - Harmful To Relationships
How this guy thinks he is magically any different from the "Mr. Wrongs" he talks about, I'll never know. Read more
Published on February 27, 2009 by .
Nothing new, sort of lame...
This book is at most, a reformed pimp's true thoughts. At first, the book seemed to be enlightening and a refreshment. Read more
Published on January 7, 2009 by Tracie Daniel
If You Want Closure in Your Relationship, Start With Your Legs
I just finished reading this book suggested to me by a man. I think that he feels that, this was his biggest mistake. I found it real easy to read and it keeps your attention. Read more
Published on January 2, 2009
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