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You Want Me to do What? An Illustrated Book on the Joys of Fellatio: Explicit Techniques

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I had already reviewed a few books on fellatio - but the cute title of this text really caught my eye. "You Want Me To Do What?" It's not how I feel. But in these "I'll-do-you-if-you-do-me" times, the idea of giving oral sex might seem to be a little one-sided. However, when one really gets deeper into it (or takes it a little deeper), one soon discovers that there are a lot of other satisfactions to be had from performing this most loving of acts, (mainly emotional).

The book follows a very logical progression, starting off first with mental preparation ("Why do this?"), some definitions (like the "gag reflex"), and a recap of male anatomy (the most useful landmark being what the author calls the "Taylor Spot," after herself, which is the area on the underside of his organ, just below the head, which is where a man is most sensitive).

[...] On that score, the large page size and simple layout does give it some resemblance to a bound college thesis. This just means, unfortunately, that the text is too large to carry around in your purse - in case you forget what you're supposed to do. But there's another reason you might not want to read this book out in public - and that's because of the pictures.

Compared to the other works I've read, the most refreshing - and titillating -- aspect of this book is the fact that it is replete with PHOTOS! The images are strictly black & white and almost clinical in their matter-of-fact presentation. But they are certainly much more effective in communicating exactly what it is one is supposed to do. There's an erect phallus in about 90% of the photos (or a dildo that looks just like one) that is either being licked, kissed, and sucked, and then massaged by hands and between breasts! There's never more than at most an inch of penetration, so the photos are just a tease. But for those of you more apprehensive, seeing another woman's lips lovingly caressing and encircling the tip of a man's tool can certainly be very reassuring.

The author spends a fair amount of time sharing some external techniques, which she likes to give cute names. "Grooving," "The No Handed Catch," "Teasing the Taylor Spot," "Peek-a-Boo," and "Rippling," to name just the biggies.

As a hint for greater penetration, the author suggests letting him slide along the roof of your mouth as he goes deeper which will help to avoid the gag reflex. For fun, there's a humorous photo where the head - and the tongue beneath it - are both completely covered with Pop Rocks (carbonated candy) which is the author's favorite treat. There's even an illustrated section on how to use your mouth - to fit him with a condom (which is probably a good skill to know if I should ever decide to become a prostitute!).

In most of the photos, the woman's face is either upright (taking it from the front), or horizontal (coming down at it from above). The most daring view comes towards the book's end - when her face is leaning back - and her subject is approaching from above and behind her. This posture positions her mouth and throat more in a line, and the technique she's demonstrating, of course - is deep throating!

There are other postures in which to do this, but this is the only one featured in this book. Even so, I think many women might still find this dramatization to be very helpful. What's important here to understand is that the mouth and throat are normally at right angles to each other. In this position, the appendage can't go any further than the back of the mouth. Ladies, if you don't lay your head back - trying to take him any deeper will only make you choke! Trust me!

The section on swallowing is woefully brief. Taylor basically leaves it up to each woman to decide for herself what to do! As an alternative, she suggests having him finish across your face (which is shown in an accompanying photo). I personally found the thought of this to be hugely degrading. It's also missing out on a great emotional opportunity. Ask any man and he'll tell you that nothing says "I love you" more than swallowing - while not doing so, unfortunately, probably says just the opposite!

One of the biggest advantages of oral sex, which the author just touches upon, is its convenience. When women always insist upon having an orgasm every time he does (as female equality has told us we should), then sex, unfortunately, can sometimes loose its spontaneity. For me, a better type of equality for women (than tit-for-tat orgasms) would be to allow ourselves to be a little bisexual instead! Speaking from experience, nothing is more emotionally and physically enthralling - than to spend some time with another woman! It is, of course - why men love us so much!

To conclude, if you're looking for a light-hearted and informative guide to performing oral sex on your man, Taylor's "You Want Me To Do What?" might really hit the spot - without getting you all choked up! I highly recommend it!

I got this book to surprise my boyfriend, and boy was he ever surprised. This book gives a lot of detailed explainations that make it very easy to duplicate the technique described in the book. My boyfriend is a very quiet individual, but he started shaking, grabbing for the pillow and cursing(in a good way). I have shared the book a with a 2 of my female friends and a week later one of their boyfriends sent me flowers and a thank you card while the other one bought my gas for a week( in L.A. gas is 2.35 per gallon, and I have an SUV)

TRUST ME I will be puchasing all the books by this author.

I found this read to be somewhat informative prose wise, entertaining & very informative visually. Ms Taylor does a great job of relaxing the reader, let's face it, many women find giving oral sex repulsive. I know because I do sexual counseling. Having said that, I found a lot of her info a tad boring or repetitive, probably because I have read "Blowing Him Away", "Going Down","The Ultimate Guide To Fellatio" etc. etc.
The fun title definitely caught my eye, & if you are a novice, married 20 years or just plain curious, this is a MUST read! Every woman having sex with a man should know this info & be comfortable performing fellatio, which can be VERY sexually exciting for women!
Yes ladies, you can get extremely aroused with the right mindset & knowledge. This is where I think Ms. Taylor's book has the most importance.She delves into:
1)mental preparation
2)making it fun ie; poprocks
3)giving some tasteful (no pun intended) photos on how to achieve it all, mentally & physically.
Women are, for the most part, taught, "only bad girls do that" or they hear how awful it is from their peers or sisters. We are given thousands of subliminal messages that sex is
a) dirty, especially penises (how many penises do you see in R rated movies?)
b) messy,
c) inconvenient, but most of all....
d) a natural thing. Therefore we don't feel it necessary to read a book on sex, I mean, It's "natural" right? GO READ THIS BOOK & learn about good sex. Let me end by adding, one of the later photos shows the woman lying down, head back & the penis entering from above (deep throating). This excellent technique originated from Linda Lovelace & no,not all women who go down, deep throat, you do what is comfortable but don't limit yourself either. Regarding swallowing...99% of the time he won't even know whether you did or didn't, he is too absorbed into the wonderful orgasm you have given him (keep a towel handy). MY fun tip of the day, (I can't recall if this was in the book) get a hot cup of tea or coffee, swish it in your mouth a few seconds & drive him crazy, several times. Have fun ladies, I mean that....& you will after reading this book.

I was one who was very scarred to do this kind of thing in life until I read the book "You Want Me To Do What" By Taylor. I have to say I feel so great about doing this now, I have learned so much and feel very good about myself in doing this to my man. The different techniques in which I have learned and come to enjoy doing to my man have brought us closer together and not have I only satisfied him, but also myself. Thank you so much for this WONDERFUL book! I recommed it to anyone who is new to this or has experence in this, one can always learn something new. Thank you again, It's GREAT!!!!!

I received this book at my bridal shower and it was a hit with all us girls. My new husband was extremely surprised when on our wedding night I performed some of these techniques on him. I have always loved to do this but I found new variations of sucking in this book. I also learned a few new facts about men that I didn't know before. This book explained alot of things and the pictures helped to show what to do.

I have most of these books on oral sex and find this book the best. The rest give nonsence ways to perform an act that does not take tongue exercises, etc. but should be performed as this book suggests. My wife agrees that this great act is explained and illustrated completely with more understanding in You Want Me to do What? than these other silly versions out there. We are hoping book two will come out soon. This book has some great ideas on how to please us men. It also taught my wife some important facts that she was shy to ask me. The illustrations are just what we need to see and fun. I certainly will recommend this book above the rest to everyone. Finally a book was written on this subject that we understand and have a great time with!

I didn't like doing this, but my boyfriend has always begged for it. He got this book for me and I read it and it took some of my fear away. I didn't realize how much I enjoy doing this. We try out the techniques and now have our favorites. I still am shy but glad I finally started doing this. Thank you. It's pretty good in fact. And my boyfriend is in heaven.

Well, no matter what others who don't understand this subject seem to say.......my wife and I appreciate this book...it was well written and easy to understand. We love the fun techniques and have tried out many of them. We would recommend it to anyone who wants to please and be pleased. Great book!

This book is incredible. Men, buy this book and give it to your wife/girlfriend/whatever. This is one purchase that truly pays for itself. This book was obviously written by a woman who knows what she is talking about. Very easy to read and fun. I recommend this book wholeheartedly.

i was at a bar/resturant the other night hanging out with my boyfriend and some of our friends and the table next to us was carrying on a very interesting conversation, about blowjobs and the guys were listening to it a little more then us and some how we ended up at the table next to us....they had just bought this book called "You Want Me To Do What" from this lady over in the corner. So we looked at their copy and before we knew it we were all over in the corner asking to buy this great book and we even got it signed which was really great. The book was in full use that night and did we have a Blast !! Thank you. I learned so much that night, It's A Must !!