20 of 24 people found the following review helpful:
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Great BOOK and a Great INTERVIEW, October 23, 2003
This review is from: Warning: Psychiatry Can Be Hazardous to Your Mental Health (Hardcover)
There is growing scientific evidence that happiness is directly related to our being mentally fit. So is it true that mental illness is caused by unhappiness, rather than chemical imbalances in our brains?
Dr. William Glasser has devoted over 40 years of his professional life proving that so-called mental illnesses can be cured (or made healthy again) by having happy marital, family, teacher-student, and manager-worker relationships. He believes it's time to remove the plague of the old school of psychiatry, which actually causes a physical impairment of the brain (where there once was none) and then hinders a person's chance for true happiness and mental health.
If you, or someone you know, have symptoms such as depression, attention deficit, anger, hyperactivity, migraine headaches, anxiety or panic attacks, then I urge you to get this book and read it.
Dr. Glasser is an internationally recognized psychiatrist who is best known as the creator of Reality Therapy, a method of psychotherapy that is taught all over the world. His approach is considered non-traditional, because he does not believe in a person being labeled mentally ill unless something organically wrong with the brain.
The major purpose of this book is to teach the world "Choice Theory," which is aimed at proactively creating mental health through happy human relationships. In a nut shell, Choice Theory says people can only be responsible for their own choices, and by forcing our choices on other people we cause a break down in the relationship, which in turn makes us very unhappy. In our unhappy state, our perfectly healthy brain acts in such a way as to try to regain control over the other person by inflicting symptoms that are commonly attributed to mental disease on ourselves.
For instance, when someone is diagnosed with depression, they are choosing to depress (they are "depressing") so that they can gain the upperhand (its a form of getting bad attention). However, when choose to proactively control their own thoughts and actions in a mature way, thus gainning the respect and admiration of the people they love and care for, they will return to a very happy state and not need to use the external contol mechanism of "depressing." The same works for paining, panicing, angering, crazying, etc.
Dr. Glasser points out there are "7 Deadly Habits" that lead to totally ineffective people. We use them to try to gain control over others, wrongly thinking that they will make us happy. They are:
Critizing
Blaming
Complaining
Nagging
Threatening
Punishing (Abusing)
and Bribing
I interviewed Dr. Glasser on "The Inside Success Show" and he was inspiring! If I hadn't already believed in the power of great relationships to make people happy, I would after talking with him.
Here's some other things I learned from Dr. Glasser:
** How Dr. Glasser found out about the 'dark side' of Psychiatry
** Why common brain drugs like Prozac and Ritalin make you ill
** What 7 good habits help you to avoid anger, depression, and anxiety
** How to quickly turn around sour relationships using Choice Theory
** Why it is always better to get rid of false beliefs than punish others
** How to supercharge your mental health with a little known "phrase" that you can say to yourself
** And much, much more ...
If you want to rid yourself of "UNHAPPY-itis" and be completely mentally fit (it's like the difference between being out-of-shape and being fit enough to run a marathon), then I highly recommend reading this book.
Randy (Dr. Proactive) Gilbert, Host of The Inside Success Show (www.TheInsideSuccessShow.com) and best-selling author of "Success Bound"
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15 of 18 people found the following review helpful:
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A Real Prescription For Mental Health, August 1, 2003
This review is from: Warning: Psychiatry Can Be Hazardous to Your Mental Health (Hardcover)
Warning: Psychiatry Can Be Hazardous To Your Mental Health pulls back the sheeps clothing that currently cloaks the rabid pharmaceutical industry and the misdirected psychiatric profession. In place of these modern day snake charmers and their magical elixirs, Dr. Glasser offers a sound explanation for, and solution to, the epidemic of mental illness that we have allowed (our choice) to overrun us.
Readers will learn why drug companies and current "mental illness providers" don't really want us to become healthy - Big Bucks! Rarely spoken of "mind drug" side effects (physical and mental) will also be discussed in detail, explaining why people on the current course of treatments seldom get better. And thankfully, Glasser offers a low-cost, no risk replacement remedy to help the millions of people out there, who are very unhappy and simply "mentally out of shape."
People who do not want to take responsibility for their problems or who demand instant gratification (even when pain and suffering are the long term consequences) will not find this book helpful. Those of us who think in terms of "internal control" and realize that depression (we all feel its touch now and then) is really a valid sign and symptom that we are currently not meeting one of our "basic needs" or reaching our personal "wants", will be enlightened and filled with hope after reading Bill's recent work.
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9 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars
Helpful for the unhappy but well off., February 25, 2005
This review is from: Warning: Psychiatry Can Be Hazardous to Your Mental Health (Hardcover)
If you are basically doing ok, not just mentally, but also
financially, career-wise, and do not have disabilities that
limit your choices in life, that this book could help you.
If the causes of your mental health stressors are mostly
relationships with other people, then this book is very likely to
help you.
But, if the stressors in your life (the onces that are pushing
you toward depression or other mental health problems) are
caused by a limited financial resources, cognitive limitations,
impoverished social contacts, poor employment prospects, or a
host of other common problems, then this book is close to being
a complete waste of money.
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