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The Way Home: Scenes from a Season, Lessons from a Lifetime [Hardcover]

Henry Dunow (Author)
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May 15, 2001
When Henry Dunow signs up to coach his son Max's Little League team on Manhattan's Upper West Side, he finds himself thinking of his own childhood and about his father, Moishe, and what had been missing from their relationship. Moishe, a Yiddish writer who had recently fled Hitler's Europe, was not a typical postwar dad. Though a tender and loving father, he considered recreation like playing catch with his son narishkeit, "foolishness." Such rites of an all-American boyhood as Little League and the world of sports were utterly foreign in Henry’s cloistered family.

Determined to be a different kind of parent to his first grader, Dunow bumbles through a self-test of fatherhood on the scruffy fields of New York's Riverside Park, playing coach, cheerleader, father, and friend to a ragtag bunch of seven-year-olds, many of whom are discovering baseball for the first time. His Galaxies are a varied lot-from one dreamy little boy who never stops talking to himself in the outfield, and another who has recently suffered a tragic loss and is angry at the world, to one who needs to be pointed in the direction of first base every time he's lucky enough to hit the ball.

The Way Home is the affecting and ironic story of Dunow's journey of discovery as he watches his relationship with Max evolve over the course of a Little League season. With the warmth and humor of a natural storyteller, Dunow recounts the antics of the Galaxies and shares keen observations about parenthood, Jewishness, urban life, and the culture of competition among men and boys. Along the way, he explores the difficult separation from his father and the choices he made in life that Moishe did not understand. He finds that what most renews the feeling of connection with his father-even long after he is gone-is the experience of becoming a father himself.

The Way Home is a touching story of a man trying to understand what it means to be a father even as he is still coming to terms with what it meant to be a son. It will speak to anyone striving to savor what is most precious and fleeting in family life.


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From Publishers Weekly

A few years ago, Dunow, a New York literary agent, noticed that he wasn't connecting as he hoped with his son, Max, then five. Was Dunow repeating the pattern of alienation that marred his relationship with his own adored father? To grow closer to Max, the author decided to coach his son's Little League team. This affecting memoir, Dunow's first book, interweaves an account of a year spent coaching with memories of Dunow's growing up in a family headed by a Polish Jewish immigrant father, a Yiddish writer who was left cold by both sports and those who played it. The Little League passages, detailing Dunow's struggles to cohere his generally untalented team, as well as to cope with another coach with a more aggressive approach, veer between the amusing and the sentimental while expressing convincingly Dunow's love of baseball and his regard for the boys in his charge. More memorable than Dunow's bonding with his son is his reaching out to a troubled boy whose father has died recently. It's as if the extremity of the boy's plight draws out the writing talent in Dunow a phenomenon repeated in the more successful portion of the book, dealing with Dunow's father. Moishe Dluznowsky comes across as a larger-than-life character cantankerous, stubborn, immensely proud and Dunow's prose takes on an intensity and passion when describing him that's occasionally lacking elsewhere. This involving, heartfelt book will appeal especially to fathers. (June)Forecast: An obvious bet for Father's Day sales, this title will be supported by national advertising, including a radio phoner campaign, and should do respectably.

Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information, Inc.

From Booklist

Dunow might wince at his book's being called adorable, but it is--one of those hybrid tales of his being son to his father and father to his son that can threaten to dissolve into bathos and regret. Not so here. He chronicles his year of coaching his seven-year-old son Max's Little League team on the Upper West Side of Manhattan and, at the same time, reminisces about his own father, the Yiddish writer Moishe Dluznowsky. Dunow is funny and tender and gentle even with himself, and he evokes the ratchety sweetness of little boys brilliantly, both his own Max and the little boy--yingeleh--that he was himself. And his evocation of the games of the "Yankee Kittens," invented by Max, where Bernie and Tino play ball with Tottoro in Max's imagination, well, it's utterly beguiling. Dunow deals with the questions raised by coaching: Do you teach baseball, or teamwork, or do you just try to have a good time? And bigger ones: What does it mean to be a man? Or a Dad? Honestly and warmly written. GraceAnne DeCandido
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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Broadway (May 15, 2001)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0767907337
  • ISBN-13: 978-0767907330
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6.2 x 1.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 3.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (9 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #4,293,629 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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25 of 26 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars doesn't quite work for me, February 6, 2008
This review is from: The Way Home: Scenes from a Season, Lessons from a Lifetime (Hardcover)
Like Dunow I decided to coach Little League to relate better to one of my son's and to make sure he got a fair shake at developing as a baseball player. Unlike Dunow I didn't get the job the first time I applied.

I found the Little League situations fascinating and related to the various players coaches, their attitudes and the situations. But it surprised me that Dunow's team improved so much without special coaching or instilling much competitiveness. I would be kind to the kids and almost never yell at them unless they weren't paying attention to the game while they were in the field. Dunow took a very gentle, kind and noncompetitive approach which worked surprisingly well. Even the problem kid Dylan came around in the end.

I was very interested in the Little League story and the fact that his son Max was a baseball trivia nut, knowing everything about the Yankees and his idol Derek Jeter. I was a lot that way as a child too. But Dunow alternates chapters, with one covering how he and his seven year old son progress during the Little League season followed by a chapter covering his own childhood and his relationship to his father.

I found the chapters about Little League more interesting. The switching back and forth breaks up the continuity and the two stories do not connect together very well. In the end he does do a good job of tieing his relationship with his son to his relationship to his father but the connection does not justify the style which I found disconcerting.

Both stories by themselves could make for interesting books but together it doesn't work. I found myself wanting to get through the chapters about his father to get back to the chapters about his son and the Little League. Hence I only gave it 3 stars.
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars The Way Home, June 29, 2001
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I couldn't put the book down and didn't want it to end. Henry has a very conversational writing style that grabs your heart and involves you emotionally in his wonderful memoir. I laughed and cried my way through every page. It was an incredible journey and one I plan to experience each Father's Day. Henry has a gift and I'm glad he chose to share it with us. Read this book. You will be moved.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Joy and Loss, June 1, 2001
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This review is from: The Way Home: Scenes from a Season, Lessons from a Lifetime (Hardcover)
Dunow is that rare author, unafraid to reveal that with the great joys of life (his son and the pursuit of Little Leaque) comes the haunting realization of great loss (his own father). This story is universal for all of us who are children or parents and the specific care that Dunow takes to sketch a portrait of each young ball player on the team that he coaches is just one example of the deep humanity of the story he chooses to give us. I found this book lovely and a true testament to what it is to be a father. I look forward to his next book perhaps about his daughter, Maddy!
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Little League, New York, Jim Hennessy, Kinder Ring, Coach Jim, Derek Jeter, Long Island, Moishe Dluznowsky, Babe Ruth, Grandpa Max, Mickey Mantle, West End Avenue, Central Park, Max Owen-Dunow, Riverside Park, Troy Aikman, Hank Dunow, Willy Loman, World Series, Yankee Kitten Ball, All-Star Baseball, Clete Boyer, Henry Dunow, Memorial Day, Riverside Drive
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