We Weep for Ourselves and Our Children: A Christian Guide for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse [Paperback]

Joanne Ross Feldmeth (Author), Midge Finley (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: November 1990

The first book for Christians which helps adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse grieve the loss of childhood innocence, cope with the unique spiritual issue of trust, and rebuild their lives through self-esteem. Chapters introduce one of the individuals in a small support group of women who have gathered to grieve their childhood losses while supporting each other toward emotional and spiritual recovery. Beginning with the premise that sexual abuse destroys the safety and trust needed for successful adult relationships, the group provides a confidential place for delving into painful memories, splitting off from one's true identity and how to embrace one's spiritual longings. The book comes out of VISTA (Victims of Incest Support Through Awareness) programme, initiated by Midge Finley at the Evangelical Free Church in Fullerton, California.

Product Details

• Paperback: 176 pages
• Publisher: Harpercollins (November 1990)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0060623489
• ISBN-13: 978-0060623487
• Product Dimensions: 7.9 x 5.3 x 0.5 inches
• Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,014,212 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Covers abuse healing from a Christian perspective, February 15, 2006

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Jayelithe "Jaye" (CA USA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: We Weep for Ourselves and Our Children: A Christian Guide for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse (Paperback)

This book is unsurpassed at covering the problems facing a survivor of childhood sexual abuse from a Christian perspective, especially from the standpoint of what such a survivor is likely to face when she announces to a Christian family that she has been abused.

Foremost in the mix is the pressure from well-meaning Christian friends and family members to "forgive" the abuser and "move forward" before she moves through the healing that must come before "forgiveness" -- the feelings of betrayal, confusion, pain, fear, and yes -- anger. The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation is also explained, and the importance of the choice the survivor must make whether to reconcile with the abuser(s).

This book is excellent reading for both the survivor and the people who care about her.

3 of 4 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Outstanding insight and compassionate eye-openning, August 11, 1999

By A Customer

This review is from: We Weep for Ourselves and Our Children: A Christian Guide for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse (Paperback)

After reading this book I was able to begin a healing process I had never thought possible. I have recommended it to many women undergoing a need for healing, and am saddened that it is out of print. This book changed me and helped me to get my life back.