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We Weep for Ourselves and Our Children: A Christian Guide for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse

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This book is unsurpassed at covering the problems facing a survivor of childhood sexual abuse from a Christian perspective, especially from the standpoint of what such a survivor is likely to face when she announces to a Christian family that she has been abused.

Foremost in the mix is the pressure from well-meaning Christian friends and family members to "forgive" the abuser and "move forward" before she moves through the healing that must come before "forgiveness" -- the feelings of betrayal, confusion, pain, fear, and yes -- anger. The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation is also explained, and the importance of the choice the survivor must make whether to reconcile with the abuser(s).

This book is excellent reading for both the survivor and the people who care about her.

After reading this book I was able to begin a healing process I had never thought possible. I have recommended it to many women undergoing a need for healing, and am saddened that it is out of print. This book changed me and helped me to get my life back.