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What Are You Going to Do With Your Life?: Unpublished Writings and Diaries [Paperback]

Edwin H. Friedman (Author)
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April 8, 2009
Whether he is interviewing God ( I must be the first since Moses to be allowed into your presence ), preaching on marriage as music, or reflecting on a visit to his parents grave, Friedman always has the power to surprise us and invite us to change. This new collection of Edwin Friedman s writings, most of them unpublished, reveal a different side of this rabbi, teacher, and leadership coach who caused a revolution in viewing human relationships with Generation to Generation. Organized into life stages, specifically the journey from young adulthood to maturity and death, What Are You Going to Do with Your Life? captures Friedman s signature wit and playfulness as he cuts straight to the heart of human growth and relationships. Throughout his life, Friedman eloquently applied the insights of family therapy to churches and synagogues, organizations and businesses and, of course, to families themselves. He energized and delighted a wide public in his lifetime and continues to engage us with What Are You Going to Do with Your Life?, an essential reader for those seeking lifechanging insights.

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About the Author

The late Edwin Friedman was an ordained rabbi and practicing family therapist. His ground-breaking work, Generation to Generation, exposed the emotional connections between home and work in religious, educational, therapeutic, and business systems, and has become a modern classic. A Failure of Nerve: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix, is an acclaimed work on leadership. Friedman died in 1996.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Seabury Books (April 8, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1596271140
  • ISBN-13: 978-1596271142
  • Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 6 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #414,836 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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The late Edwin Friedman was an ordained rabbi and practicing family therapist. His ground-breaking work, Generation to Generation, exposed the emotional connections between home and work in religious, educational, therapeutic, and business systems, and has become a modern classic. A Failure of Nerve: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix, is an acclaimed work on leadership. Friedman died in 1996.

 

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5.0 out of 5 stars A Good Life, March 30, 2010
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After Ed Friedman died his son, Ari, and daughter Shira kept looking at the eight foot file cabinet filled with diaries, sermons, and (mostly) unpublished manuscripts at the family home in Bethesda. Ari said, "Why don't we publish them?"

Two other people who have beeb instrumental in the posthumous publication of writings of Friedman spent several days going through drawers, boxes, and files. The result is "What Are You Going To Do With Your Life?"

This book is by far more biographical and personal than anything else published under the Rabbi's name. And generally more accessible. Thinking about family process can be a bit like the rabbinical wisdom that God is not accessible by a direct approach but rather by metaphors. Likewise, understanding and managing triangles and the transmission of anxiety (or calmness) throughout a family system (including larger systems) can be daunting. Friedman is a master of doing this and explaining what he is doing. In these articles he traces his own encounters with the systems to which he is connected through his illnesses and the crises faced by others which required his own self-management.

In the final article he visits two cemeteries where family are buried and shares his reflections on the experience. For the purposes of better understanding family process a chronology would have been helpful. As it is, I was able to piece together the main events which are noted in the text.

For anyone undecided about purchase of the book the Amazon tool call "Look Inside" is a very useful way of sampling a book. And don't miss `Surprise Me!' which gives access to dozens of other pages. A terrific convenience.

An added bonus to the entire experience of working with this book is the cover - an expanse of beach on an overcast day with a man leaping exuberantly into the air in the middle of it.
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5.0 out of 5 stars These are previously unpublished writings, now available thirteen years after his death, August 8, 2009
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The ramblings of a rabbi can bring much light into one's life. "What Are You Going to Do With Your Life? Unpublished Writings and Diaries" is a collection of writings from acclaimed writer, rabbi, and therapist, Edwin Friedman. These are previously unpublished writings, now available thirteen years after his death, and their insights will make readers of any faith ponder at length. "What Are You Going to Do With Your Life?" is of interest to any seeking contemplation.
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4.0 out of 5 stars what are you doing with the rest of your life., December 24, 2009
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I enjoyed studying with Dr. Friedman four years, and now can read some of the newly published talk by a master teacher. Thank you for putting this together. Art Hadley
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