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What Every 21st Century Parent Needs to Know: Facing Today's Challenges With Wisdom and Heart [Hardcover]

Debra W. Haffner (Author)
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March 7, 2008

Stress. Self-esteem. Drinking. Achievement. Drugs. Internet safety. Cell phones. Depression. Bullying. Abstinence. Sex.

Parenting in the 21st century presents a new set of challenges that require new solutions.

Like their parents before them, today’s parents have to help their children navigate school, friends, crushes, extracurricular activities, and sexuality. But they also face a bewildering new world, driven by ever-evolving technology and media, that frequently thwarts their efforts to raise physically, emotionally, and sexually healthy children.

With understanding and clarity, parenting educator Debra Haffner (author of the award-winning From Diapers to Dating and Beyond the Big Talk) draws on extensive research to debunk the myths, validate the concerns, and address parents’ questions. She provides concrete examples, practical advice, and enlightening anecdotes, and explains what parents can do to get it right today.

“The good news is that even in the most challenging circumstances, good parenting seems to make a difference,” writes Haffner. “The choices we make can greatly increase our chances of raising a child who becomes a happy, productive adult.”


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Haffner (From Diapers to Dating), an ordained Unitarian minister, isn't afraid to tackle the big questions, including drinking, drugs and teen sex. But while Haffner tells it like it is, she also presents the research and statistics to prove that many of parents' worst fears are unfounded. Instead of a media-hyped view of the challenges parents face in the 21st century, Haffner concludes that most kids are on the right track; in fact, she claims that they are smart, committed, and engaged in their families and communities, and that they are making better choices about health and related issues than many of their parents did at the same age. The author stresses that parenting style can have a significant impact on whether kids go down undesirable roads. Utilizing what she calls the Affirming Parent style, she offers a number of viable solutions to common problems, ranging from Internet use to overscheduling. Haffner covers a great deal of ground in this compact book; readers will appreciate her just-the-facts-please approach as well as her tendency to interpret the stats from the bright side. (May)
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"Debra Haffner shows terrific sensitivity to the developmental needs of teens and the anxieties of parents with adolescents." —John Santelli, M.D., Chair, Dept. of Population and Family Health, Columbia University School of Public Health

"Haffner encourages modern parents…Reading this book made me feel better about the choices I've made as a mom." —Lisa Birnbach, radio show host, author of 1,003 Great Things About Kids and The Official Preppy Handbook

"Parents could not ask for a better guide…Will help families understand what works best to keep children safe and strong." —Nell Minow, "The Movie Mom," Beliefnet.com

"Smart, compassionate, practical…This essential guide pulls no punches about the difficulties and joys of parenting today." —Jane Fonda

"This book empowers parents [with] buckets of practical advice from child development research, public health, faith traditions, and sexuality education." —Karen Hein, M.D., Former President, William T. Grant Foundation

"Will appeal to all parents, whether conservative or liberal. No-nonsense advice will help parents give their values to their children." —Rev. Bob Edgar, President of Common Cause, Former General Secretary of the National Council of Churches

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 240 pages
  • Publisher: William Morrow (March 7, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1557047871
  • ISBN-13: 978-1557047878
  • Product Dimensions: 9.2 x 6.2 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 13.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #847,312 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars I am a therapist who works with parents., March 19, 2008
This review is from: What Every 21st Century Parent Needs to Know: Facing Today's Challenges With Wisdom and Heart (Hardcover)
I am a therapist who has worked with parents for more than 40 years, and I am delighted to add this to the excellent parenting books that I recommend to parents. Haffner shies away from none of the critical issues, yet her research and tone are both rational and reassuring. This is an excellent complement to her previous fine works (from Diapers to Dating, and Beyond the Big Talk.) I recommend it most highly.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Add this to your parenting library!, May 21, 2008
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Debra Haffner is as accessible in writing as she is in person. She takes a lot of the fear out of examining all the "buzz" stories we are bombarded with daily as parents. I found this book to be both practical and full of perspective, especially for parents of teenagers... however I would recommend it to parents of children of all ages as part of their parenting library.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Help for Parents, March 26, 2008
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This is an excellent, practical, reassuring book for parents. Being a parent today can cause a lot of anxiety, and parents understandably worry about doing the best thing for their children. Debra Haffner offers solid, practical advice. She doesn't catastrophize about the state of the world but helps parents understand the challenges their children face. She shows how parents can lovingly guide their children and help keep them safe. This is very solid advice, and I am recommending this book to all the parents I know.
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affirming parents, raising responsible children, permissive parents, authoritarian parents, unchaperoned parties
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Parent Needs, United States, Raising Sexually Healthy Children, Navigating the New Electronic World, Kaiser Family Foundation, Raising Physically Healthy Children, The Myth of the Overscheduled, Overstressed Generation, Raising Emotionally Healthy Children, New York Times, May God, Drug-Free America, Gilmore Girls, The Search Institute, Amber Alert
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