To get the free app, enter your email address or mobile phone number.
What Every Man Wishes His Father Had Told Him Paperback – February 1, 2012
|New from||Used from|
Top 20 lists in Books
View the top 20 best sellers of all time, the most reviewed books of all time and some of our editors' favorite picks. Learn more
Frequently Bought Together
Customers Who Bought This Item Also Bought
―Bob Lepine, Co-Host, FamilyLife Today
About the Author
More About the Author
Top Customer Reviews
This is confounded by the regrettable fact that many churches do not emphasize male leadership and the necessity of training men to be who they are supposed to be. If a new convert (and I was one) lands in a place like this he will spin his tires on the path of male leadership rather than advance.
As a pastor I have met quite a few of both of these types of guys. I rejoice when they come and express a desire to grow. I know it is going to involve some pastoral sweat but the upside is glorious.
In this type of ministry I have often lamented the lack of books that help guys to think and act like a biblical man. In their absence young guys like me roll up our sleeves and get to work, doubtlessly missing more than a few patches of unmowed grass.
This is why I am very excited about this new book: What Every Man Wishes His Father Had Told Him by Byron Yawn is pure gold. Yawn aims to fill that gap. He comes alongside the guy who is has not received the training, the instruction in "Being a Man 101."
The chapters are concise, fast-paced, and theologically rich. Byron teaches you Bible and theology as he teaches biblical masculinity. He is also a terrific writer with a particularly arresting southern style.Read more ›
It seems notable that I am writing this review on the occasion of my son's twelfth birthday. It is probable that he is already more than half way to striking out on his own, to marrying, to beginning a family. I've already used up half of my opportunities to teach him what a father ought to teach his son. This is the kind of thought that can very nearly move me to tears; rarely do I feel less up to the task and more dependent on grace than in fatherhood. In that regard this book was both a challenge and a comfort.
What Every Man Wishes His Father Had Told Him is a book of essays more than it is a book that flows easily and logically from the first chapter to the last; the topics are much like the lessons a father will teach his son in that they meander a little bit, wandering from being a son to being a father and a man and a husband. They extend from biblical manhood to sincerity to pornography to having "the talk" with your son, to integrity. Each one is punctuated by wisdom that is sometimes biblical and sometimes, well, just plain practical (At least to my recollection the Bible doesn't comment on why you don't want to cut into a steak to see if it's ready to eat). These are not lessons for me to teach my son; not first and foremost. These are first lessons I need to learn and apply to my own life.Read more ›
Listen: this book is great for fathers with sons but it is also great for sons of all ages. Whether you had/have a great dad or never met him this book is a must read.
He does away with the false ideal of manhood, that being a man is to be Gladiator, or for Byron, Jason Bourne. A true man dies to himself a learns to appreciate his wife and kids. A true man quits using excuses of his "daddy scars." A true man writes his funeral eulogy by his life.
Finally, someone who really gets it!
Path: Yawn walks through crucial applications of the Gospel in the life of a young man, and any man, who still has breath. To the steady stream of valuable Biblical advice, the author adds humor, stories, illustrations, and plenty of punches to the gut of "self worth." According to the table of contents, he addresses Fatherhood, Grace, Masculinity, Affection, Ambition, Sincerity, Accountability, Confidence, Marriage, Wives, Sin, Sex, Pornography, Eternity, Consistency, Thinking, Work, and Integrity. Those are the themes, but he addresses much more than that.
Sources: He is the biological son of a distant father, the adopted son of a godly man, and the spiritual son of a Heavenly Father. He also has sons of his own.
Agreement: I really enjoyed reading this book. His humor, insight, and bare knuckle punches were both interesting and convicting. His focus on the Gospel kept it from being a moralistic pat on the back or challenge of self will. He helped me to focus on Jesus Christ more in every area of my life.
Personal App: Am I finding my identity in Christ? Am I finding my strength in Christ? Am I finding my hope in Christ?
Favorite Quote: "To the adult son who looks back and regrets, there is hope. To the confused husband who looks down on his life with despair, there is a means to victory. To the father who looks ahead to the future of his own children, there is a way. In every case it is the Lord Jesus Christ." (Kindle Locations 146-148)
Most Recent Customer Reviews
“The archetype and epitome of everything a mature man should be is Jesus Christ … That’s precisely what Ephesians 4:13 says: The measure of ‘a mature man’ is ‘the stature which... Read morePublished 5 days ago by Eli Perez
I read this book recently and really wanted to like it, however I believe this book failed in many aspects. Read morePublished 24 days ago by BeakerBeaker
This is a great book written from the heart. The advice laid out in this book is spot on and I highly recommend it to all Christian men, especially those who didn't have the gift... Read morePublished 2 months ago by Scott A. Ball
I have read some of the book, and I'm impressed with its contents. I bought it for my husband to read, and although he's not done so yet, I feel like it is a marvelous book for... Read morePublished 4 months ago by Rebecca Adkins
Great book to see how men can overcome the difficulties of life. As any men's book should be not sugarcoated and straightforward.Published 4 months ago by MSAENZ
Fantastic book with a combination of biblical, gospel based principles and earthy wisdom.Published 6 months ago by Tim from Saugus, CA
please get this book and read it to your spouse or to your SONS so that they know what healthy fathering "should" look and sound like.!! Read morePublished 6 months ago by T. Viau
Do the fathers in your life a favor & give this book to them. Don't wait for a special occasion.Published 7 months ago by GramC