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5.0 out of 5 stars
It's About Time, September 24, 2003
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This review is from: What Are You Looking At? The First Fat Fiction Anthology (Paperback)
For anyone who loves fiction and has struggled with weight (or not) this is a wonderful, insightful book. The stories are funny, sad, and real. I'm so glad someone had the guts to put together this collection. The book makes you realize that it isn't fat that's obscene, it's America's gluttonous hyped obsession with perfection and "skin deep" body image. (My only complaint is that I wish the book had been fatter.)
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10 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Too many suffering characters, March 18, 2004
This review is from: What Are You Looking At? The First Fat Fiction Anthology (Paperback)
The blurb at the top of the jacket says, "Here is fat in all its glory and grandeur - a large-hearted celebration of the human spirit and each individual's unique value, regardless of size." But it isn't. I was hoping for some proud, in-your-face fat people who believed in themselves. But nearly all the fat characters in this story collection are miserable, and some are tragic. The only contented one is a cat. Some of the stories are marvelously written. Junot Diaz' "The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao" paints an amazingly colorful picture of the culture of young Dominicans in New Jersey. And Rhoda Stamell's "Love for a Fat Man," set in a public health clinic in poverty-stricken Detroit, is one of the few stories where people change in positive ways. But several others, including S.L. Wisenberg's "Big Ruthie Imagines Sex Without Pain," present people with too much self-hatred to identify with or enjoy. Perhaps I was looking for something that doesn't exist. I'm not heavy myself. I regard overweight as a health condition, not a character flaw. I have a chronic condition myself, multiple sclerosis. But unlike overweight people, I get sympathy for my problem, not blame. I interviewed several overweight people for my book, "The Art of Getting Well: Maximizing Health When You Have a Chronic Illness" (Hunter House 2002). Even though some of them are very fit aerobics instructors, most have a lot of self-doubt. I don't know if society put it there, or if there's something else about being heavy that hurts your self-esteem. Anyway, the protagonists in these stories are mostly damaged. It's worth reading, though. There are more poems than stories. I very much liked J.L. Haddaway's "When Fat Girls Dream." I think this book could start a lot of valuable discussion about weight and society's attitude towards it. David Spero RN, author of "The Art of Getting Well." Write "david at davidsperorn.com"
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7 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars
5 stars for the poetry, 2 for the stories, November 16, 2004
This review is from: What Are You Looking At? The First Fat Fiction Anthology (Paperback)
A guest review by Lara Frater
Heroines: varied
31 stories and poems that have something to do with being fat by such authors as Frederick Busch, Junot Diaz, Jill McCorkle, Katherine Riegel, Rebecca Curtis, Donna Jarrell, and Raymond Carter.
What worked for me:
This book is only worth it for the poetry. So check out "Full Figure" by Allison Joseph, "Nouveau Big" by Katherine Riegel, "For the Man who likes my Thighs" by Denise Duhamel, and "When Fat Girls Dream" by J. L. Haddaway. These poems show the suffering and joy of fat women. The only short story that was interesting and somewhat fat positive was "The Displaced
Overweight Homemaker's Guide to Finding a Mate", and that was saved only by its humor.
Size-wise only the poems seemed to praise plus-sized people.
What didn't work for me:
Where do I start? With the exceptions of the entries listed above, most of the stories portray fat women and men as lazy, obsessed, out of control eaters, neurotic, and they could only lose weight and be happy if they received counseling and really tried.
Overall:
I recommend borrowing the book and not buying it. (Or perhaps getting it used.) The poems are much more positive than the short stories, but there just aren't enough of them.
If you liked "What are You Looking at?" you might also enjoy the "Love at Large", "Living Large" or "At Long Last, Love!" anthologies.
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