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When a Man Faces Grief / A Man You Know Is Grieving [Kindle Edition]

Thomas Golden , James E. Miller
4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (27 customer reviews)

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Book Description

Learn about the distinctive way grief is sometimes expressed and dealt with when a more "masculine" mode is employed (which may happen with either gender, by the way). "When a Man Faces Grief: 12 Practical Ideas to Help You Heal from Loss" is written in a concise format for the griever himself. "A Man You Know Is Grieving: 12 Ideas to Help Him Heal from loss" is written for those who wish to understand, validate, and support the more masculine mode of grief.

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About the Author

James E. Miller is a clergyman, grief counselor, writer, and photographer. He is the author of 17 books.

Thomas Golden is a practicing psychologist and writer, with one other book to his credit.

Product Details

  • File Size: 158 KB
  • Print Length: 64 pages
  • Publisher: Willowgreen Inc. (November 12, 2010)
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B004C43HWS
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
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  • Lending: Enabled
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #433,100 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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36 of 36 people found the following review helpful
This is one of the most concise and useful books on grief that I have ever read. Although the volume is small, it packs a powerful message of healing for those using a more masculine way of grieving (usually men but also some women) and for friends and loved ones of the bereaved.
The book is divided into two parts. The first half seeks to assist the bereaved themselves; the second half seeks to educate those who are around the bereaved person (usually a male) in order to assist him through the grief process. Thomas R. Golden is listed as first author of the first half of the book; James E. Miller is listed as first author of the second half.
"When a Man Faces Grief/ A Man You Know is Grieving" is unique in the way it is set up: The front cover shows a winter scene of snow-covered trees; the back cover shows the photographic negative of that same scene. The reader will also notice that the after finishing the first half of the book ("When a Man Faces Grief"), the second half is printed upside down. To read the second half ("A Man You Know is Grieving"), the reader closes the book and flips the entire volume over towards himself or herself to the cover with the photographic negative.
Each half consists of twelve, 2-page chapters, followed by a short summary list of ideas.
While reading this book, I was reminded of Alla Renee Bozarth's, "A Journey Through Grief." However, the Golden/Miller book concerns itself with the more masculine kind of grieving. And whereas Bozarth's book is geared almost exclusively for the bereaved, Golden and Miller's book is also for those who are around the bereaved person.
This book is very readable. It is similar to Thomas R.
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18 of 18 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Easy reading for men who are grieving April 7, 2001
As a man who has known grief, I can testify that this little book is a very useful tool for grieving men. It's size and writing style are right for someone in the throes of grief--simple and to the point. The two-sided format is an ingenious way to show that it addresses both men and those who know men who are grieving. I fully recommend this book as well as Tom Golden's other book on men and grieving, Swallowed by a Snake.
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15 of 15 people found the following review helpful
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I don't like to give 5 stars to books. It seems people either give 1 or 5, and their reviews lack depth. However, I will give this 5 stars because it worked for me, and it has helped other friends of mine who faced loss. For me, I gave up a great, prestigous job due to stress. I didn't know how to handle it, and the grief of loss was MUCH bigger than I ever thought it would be. My wife and women at our church would add comforting comments, but it simple wasn't enough. They did not know the depth of my grief and the personal damage to my self esteem. A parish nurse gave me this book, and it laid out every emotion and coping skill that I was fumbling with to manage the grief of my job loss. Men do grieve much differently than women because their roles and the way they process things is much different than women. This book focuses on those uniquenesses, and does it with brevety and precision. Since I had my loss and recovery, I have becom a hospice volunteer at a large local hospital. I work mainly with men, and this book is like an operator's manual for a man's dying process. If you know what a man feels and from where he draws his final pride in life, you can help him in that process. The other great thing about this book is that it does not bog you down with clinical analysis or university studies. It gives you the facts and you can review it speedily whenever you need it. Get this book. You will never be sorry.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars When a Man Faces Grief/A Man You Know is Grieving February 15, 2011
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This is an excellent resource for someone (particularly men) in grief.
It it brief,and to the point so therefore more likely to appeal to a man who isn't really into "self help tools". For someone wanting to support someone in grief but unsure how to go about it, if you turn the book over and begin friom the other side it is all there. So it is two books in one. I have used it and recommended it to many people.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Helpful But No Magic October 26, 2009
By Jack
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This book offers some practical things when dealing with grief from the loss of a love one. There is no magic bullet to eliminate the grief one feels when a close love one dies, but the things presented here should help with dealing with the grieving process.
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14 of 19 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Male grief in the Extreme September 13, 2001
I lost my parents (and job) in the last year. I cannot see
anyone "Loving" this book but it has been a great help to
me, understanding what and how I can deal with my grief.
Hell on earth as now arrived in the form of overtly
incomprehensable evil in NY/WTC.
If I had the money I would donate thousands of these to
the brave souls working in and around america's second
perl harbor.
God Bless.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars good guide January 28, 2013
By pete45
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handling the loss of my son was totally overwhelming.i thought the world turned upside down
uncomplicated, simple mindful, highly recommend
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars son- in -law just lost his father August 9, 2013
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It is not easy for most men to deal with their grief. They are expected to be very brave, very resilient and of course never ever shed a tear. There has to be an outlet for emotions that effect men so deeply and this book is undoubtedly helpful. I am sure it brought some comfort to my son in law just to know that I purchased this book for him . It sent the message to him that I understood and I cared. .
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars This is the best book I've seen for understanding the grief process in...
This is the best book I've seen for understanding the grief process in men. When I worked as a bereavement counselor I gave out dozens of copies.
Published 4 days ago by Amazon Customer
3.0 out of 5 stars It's okay, but nothing earth shattering
I bought this to read so I could possibly understand, a little more, a man I know who is grieving. It didn't really tell me anything new. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Shane P Jones
1.0 out of 5 stars Waste of money.
This book was a waste of my time and money. Everything in it I had already tried and dine with my grieving husband.
Published 4 months ago by Anita Graham
3.0 out of 5 stars tiny book had some good ideas in it
This tiny, tiny book had some good ideas in it. Actually, I'd call it a booklet because it only has 31 pages. And these 31 pages are repeated, upside down from the back. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Sinsin
5.0 out of 5 stars two sided book, great
This book is simply and sweet re grief and loss. Handy in that it helps the family who is with the man, as well as the man himself. Read more
Published 10 months ago by Alice L. Gerber
5.0 out of 5 stars When a Man Faces Grief
I purchased the book as a gift. The man who received the book reported that it was very helpful; he read it several times. I plan to purchase the book again, when needed.
Published 14 months ago by LGRamsey
4.0 out of 5 stars Men and Women should read this
Very helpful for both men and women to understand what is taking place and you and others are going through in their life during this period.
Published 14 months ago by Edward Van Kleek
5.0 out of 5 stars Great advice for men (or those who care about a man who is grieving)
When my husband was losing his father to terminal cancer I invested in this book. It is set up as two different books - one covers grief speaking directly to the person who is... Read more
Published 16 months ago by DJ Copeland
5.0 out of 5 stars A MUST READ!
This is a great easy and helpful read for all men AND women. Grief is hard work and takes a lot of energy. Read more
Published 16 months ago by mamie
5.0 out of 5 stars Simple and very helpful guide
Very helpful for both the man suffering a loss and the loved ones trying to help him. Made me better understand what is going on in his head.
Published 20 months ago by E. Lawlor
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More About the Author

Acclaimed writer and photographer James E. Miller created Willowgreen Inc. in 1986 to help people deal effectively with life's momentous transitions. He melds the written and spoken word with photography and music in ways that inform, encourage, and inspire the whole person. He has authored many books, eBooks, and audiobooks and crated a multitude of videos and electronic resources, as well as a line of note cards. His three blogs offer innovative messages related to inspiration, grief, and caregiving. Willowgreen's purpose has always remained the same: "To create resources for healing, for hope, for tending that which is sacred."

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