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When Forgiveness Doesn't Make Sense

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My office is just a stone's throw from Columbine High, where my daughter will be a cheerleader next year. We've had a lot of pain in our community. I've read lots of books and we've had lots of advice on how to forgive. This book provides solid answers to the questions that we've all been asking. It really stands out from the pack. It's not full of psychological pap. (We've had our fill of that, quite frankly). Jeffress' has an uncanny ability to apply the Bible's ancient wisdom to modern realities. Even before Columbine, like most of us, I had felt the pain of betrayal--and struggled with how to get over it. This book showed me how to rise above it. I recommend it as very accessible, knowing counsel for those struggling with hurt of any kind. It is a balanced, realistic look at what the Bible teaches on the most relevant subject imaginable. The chapter on "Forgiving God" is worth the price of the book all by itself. That's a concept I have found no where else. Get this book for someone you love who is hurting (maybe you!). You'll be glad you did. I checked Jeffress' other books, too, and he seems to have a real gift for motivating his readers on the path of successful living that pleases God.

I found this book to be incredibly helpful in addressing the forgiveness issue. As a professional counselor, I believe that forgiveness is the central issue for healing and productive living. Jeffress addresses forgiveness in a biblical and straightforward manner.This book is unique in that Jeffress raises the question that all honest strugglers face, "Where is God and does He care?" Jeffress also reveals his pastors heart by providing real life illustrations in a clear, easy to read manner. This book will challenge your presuppositions about forgiveness and strenghthen your faith in God. This is a must read for everyone, especially pastors, counselors, and people-helpers.

Robert Jeffress does an excellent job in presenting a concise and understandable approach to exploring the dilemma people face with the act of forgiveness. The book is well-written, organized and divided into segments that deal with problems, solutions and resolutions. He provides interesting anecdotes that clearly explain his points. The books provides a study guide that assists in using the information for Bible study, sermon notes and general review of the topic. Jeffress's writing style creates interest and information for the reader and provides much needed insight into the topic.

A friend gave me this book 4 weeks after I had found out my husband was having an affair, but wanted to stay with the family. Through what I learned from this book I learned how to forgive without becoming bitter and to reconsile. My family is still whole and our marriage is better than it ever has been!

This book was recommended to me by my Pastor in Virginia, even though I moved back to the DelMarVa Peninsula the year before.

I loaned my paperback copy to a fellow Christian that was having personal problems. I never got the book back and told my friend to keep it. I ordered a used copy on Amazon.com and got the hardback version at a great price. If you have problems in your life, this book is a good read. It may not solve what is ailing you, but it will give you a new perspective to look at your situation.

Excellent source material. Good to use for counsel and teaching and general personal knowledge. Excellent for someone who is struggling with a forgiveness issue.