“Gets to the heart of the matter…a fascinating and insightful read.”—Pepper Schwartz, PhD, author of Prime
“Offers some helpful—and sometimes surprising—advice.”--Time
“A wise and welcome addition to the self-help literature on infidelity.”—Janis Abrahms Spring, PhD, author of After the Affair
“When Good People Have Affairs helps unfaithful partners cut through their confusion and choose a course of action that serves their best interest. A wise and welcome addition to the self-help literature on infidelity.”—Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph.D., author of After the Affair
“If you've found yourself caught up in a love triangle, from any angle, Kirshenbaum provides an indispensable guide to what the person in two relationships is dealing with. If you are that person, this book will save you from a world of misery and help you do what's best for everyone. If you're the spouse or lover, this is a necessary guide to help you survive and thrive in the face of what you are really dealing with.”—Gay Hendricks, Ph.D., author of Five Wishes and co-author, with Kathlyn Hendricks, of Conscious Loving
"The first practical, non-judgmental solution to infidelity. Kirshenbaum’s ability to bring clarity out of a deeply confusing issue is amazing. This book is a must read for the 50% of Americans whose lives have been affected by infidelity. It could save many relationships."—Val Jones, Senior Medical Director of RevolutionHealth.com, and author of the blog “Dr. Val and the Voice of Reason”
I feel I am one of those good people who is having an affair.
All in all, an excellent book: Kirshenbaum has considerable experience as a therapist, she's a clear thinker, and an excellent writer.
She does review implications with children later, but that is not included in this structured four-dimensional review.
It helped me to make a firm decision about my future. I will like to try the recommendations with the one I chose for a healthy relationPublished 1 month ago by Vildan Manzo
This book was a real eye-opener for me. After completing this book in two days I knew what personal choices I needed to make in my relationship, Every chapter was intriguing and I... Read morePublished 1 month ago by Marquette Turner
Great set of tools to help you get clarity and focus back in your life. What's closet to your heart?Published 3 months ago by Rob
One of the most thorough, unbiased, and helpful books on relationships and affairs I have ever read. Read morePublished 3 months ago by J. M. Gambill
I would never use this for my clients or suggest that they buy it. In fact, I threw this away the moment I read that she advised the person having an affair not to tell their... Read morePublished 3 months ago by mefrank
While there are a number of good though processes introduced in the book, I think that the main premise of the book is wrong. Read morePublished 4 months ago by Amazon Customer
This booked help me very much with making my decision and to not hate myself for being involved with two people.Published 7 months ago by Alisha Saint Louis
Although the author focuses too much on long-term on-going affairs, the teachings apply to anyone even considering divorce, even a one night stand and the devastating effect on... Read morePublished 8 months ago by Michael G. Patterson
This book is complete trash. Anyone who falls for this garbage is nuts. The author is a quack! You are not a good person if you cheat on your spouse, especially carrying on a... Read morePublished 9 months ago by TM324