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When Kids Hurt: Help for Adults Navigating the Adolescent Maze [Paperback]

Chap Clark (Author), Steve Rabey (Author)
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May 1, 2009
To get below the surface of why teens are struggling, Chap Clark spent a year in a high school interviewing dozens of students about their families, social lives, loneliness and insecurities. Turns out adults have abandoned kids to navigate the increasingly long and arduous transition to adulthood on their own to devastating effect. Unable to cope, teenagers retreat to their own world of youth culture with which few adults care enough to engage.

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What's really going on in the hidden world of today's teenagers?

To get below the surface, Chap Clark spent a year in a high school and interviewed dozens of students about everything from their families and social lives to their loneliness and insecurity. An alarming picture emerged: adults have abandoned kids to navigate the ever-lengthening and ever more difficult transition to adulthood on their own, and the results are devastating. Unable to cope with the pressures of expectations and hurt of abandonment, teenagers retreat to their own world of youth culture to survive, and few adults care enough to engage them there.

Here Clark and Rabey sum up the provocative research, which was detailed in Clark's bestselling book Hurt, and lay out practical ways caring adults can have a profound impact on teens. This book is an essential guide for youth pastors and volunteer leaders, educators, counselors, parents, and all adults seeking to reach out to today's adolescents.

"When Hurt came out, it changed the landscape of youth ministry. In When Kids Hurt, Chap Clark and Steve Rabey have taken us on the next step of the journey--to helping us know how to respond to kids who have been neglected and, in Chap's words, 'systematically abandoned.'"--Doug Fields, pastor to the life development team, Saddleback Church

"Chap and Steve have done us all a huge favor--parents and practitioners alike--by taking us deeper into the reality of adolescent brokenness while providing us with practical suggestions on how to move toward a 'fix.'"--Walt Mueller, president, Center for Parent/Youth Understanding

"This book helps adults get inside the mind and life of adolescents like no other."--Jim Burns, president, HomeWord, author of The Purity Code

"Chap Clark and Steve Rabey have captured the pain of adolescents better than anyone I know. The first time I read this book, I couldn't put it down."--Kara Powell, executive director, Fuller Youth Institute

"This is must reading for parents and youth workers alike."--Wayne Rice, cofounder, Youth Specialties

Chap Clark is vice dean for the School of Theology and Regional Campuses Master's Programs and professor of youth, family, and culture at Fuller Theological Seminary. He is senior editor of YouthWorker Journal and the author of several books, including the award-winning Hurt, and Disconnected, a book for parents.

Steve Rabey is an award-winning writer and editor who has authored or collaborated on over twenty books. He is the editor of YouthWorker Journal.

About the Author

Chap Clark is vice dean for the School of Theology and Regional Campuses Master's Programs and professor of Youth, Family, and Culture at Fuller Seminary; senior editor of Youthworker Journal; and the author of several books on adolescence, parenting, and youth ministry.

Steve Rabey is an award-winning writer and editor who has authored or collaborated on over twenty books. He is currently the managing editor of Youthworker Journal.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 208 pages
  • Publisher: Baker Books; Reprinted edition (May 1, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0801071836
  • ISBN-13: 978-0801071836
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.4 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #122,953 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Chap Clark (PhD, University of Denver) is the Vice Provost and professor of Youth, Family, and Culture at Fuller Theological Seminary, the senior editor of YouthWorker Journal, a Sojourner contributing writer and "Red Letter Communicator," and president of ParenTeen™ and HURT Seminars. He is a speaker, trainer, consultant, as well as the author of 18 books, including When Kids Hurt: Helping adults navigate the adolescent maze (Baker, 2009), Hurt: Inside the World of Today's Teenagers (Baker Academic, 2004, CBA Silver Medalist for Book of the Year), Disconnected: Parenting Teens in a MySpace World, Deep Ministry in a Shallow World and the recent Deep Justice in a Broken World. Chap has served in many diverse settings over his career, in the church, parachurch, and industry. He was on the Young Life staff for 15 years as an Area and Regional Director, and for the past 18 while a seminary professor, Chap has served as an executive pastor, a senior pastor, and a consulting producer for a New Line television reality show. He is a highly acclaimed resource for community, adult, youth, and family conferences, as well as media, board, corporate and educational consulting and training.

Dee and Chap have been married for over twenty-nine years, and have partnered together in ministry, as well as speaking and writing throughout their married life. They have three grown children: Chap, Jr. (28), Rob (25) and Katie (22). They make their home in Burbank, CA.

 

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5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read for All Parents, February 6, 2010
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This book is a must-read for all parent's of teens and pre-teens. Dr. Clark's research and insight break important new ground. What he finds does raise concern, but with insight comes the opportunity to avoid a lot of avoidable pain and heartache for both teens and their families. Don't miss this one.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Must Read, November 15, 2010
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This book is a must read for every parent, teacher, youth pastor, and young person. The research is solid and the conclusions are helpful!
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2.0 out of 5 stars Great Content, but Kindle version Missing Many Letters and Words, October 27, 2010
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Chap Clark and company have written a good companion to his earlier work "Hurt", however the Kindle edition has so many missing letters, words, etc. that some of the time I could hardly decipher what was being said! This is my first problem like this with my Kindle and I hope it's the last... or I"ll be afraid to buy any more e-editions! Kudos to Clark for doing a good job with an important topic, but rotten tomatoes for those responsible for transforming it into an e-book. In conclusion, unless you hear that this problem has been resolved, buy this book, but not the Kindle version!
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overstressed adolescents, fractured family values, systemic abandonment, helping our kids
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