42 of 48 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Real life experience, January 10, 2004
By A Customer
This review is from: When Love Comes (DVD)
I loved the movie. Although the movie has its flaw(which movie doesn't) I really identified with the movie. You know there comes a time in a relationship where both partners have strong feelings for each other but at the same time both of them have a problem in communicating that message to one another as a result the relationship tends to sag. That's the message of movie-If you love someone tell them exactly how you feel that way you become closer to one another. I also like the fact that despite the fact that the older guy had two chances to sleep with the younger guy(who was totally hot), he did not because it will be a lie. Stephen wanted to sleep Mark if and only if Mark was ready,meant it and of course loved him. It think that it is maturity on Stephen's part. It also showed that he really loved Mark and wasn't just trying to have sex him. I think in this day and age where the male testerone is raging like ferocious wind this should a message to gay community-Follow your heart and not your genital!
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18 of 21 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Becoming Open To Love: Good Film Despite Rough Edges, August 7, 2006
This review is from: When Love Comes (DVD)
Garth Maxwell co-wrote and directed this 1998 New Zealand film and despite some rough edges in the production process and in areas of weak scripting and format, the message of repairing our individual perception problems in order to be open to acknowledge and embrace love when it comes along is a story worth telling. In the case of this film, it is three stories worth telling!
Mark (Dean O'Gorman) is a wannabe songwriter, poet, druggie, and hedonist who has problems with intimacy (we are unsure whether he is comfortable with his sexuality, whether he has been a hustler to support his nebulous lifestyle...). He is introduced to us by his 'pals' - two lesbian performers Fig (Nancy Brunning) and Sally (Sophia Hawthorne) - in a narrative way and who proceed to tell us Mark's history as it has developed in their eyes (this is a bit stagy and awkward, but it gets the story rolling). Mark is the heartthrob of Stephen (Simon Prast), an older, more mature man than Mark who tries to lead him into a productive life. Into town comes New Zealand's most popular singer Katie Keen (Rena Owen) who has come home from a long stay in Los Angeles where her career has been on the skids. She is no longer young, no longer has engagements, and is in need of her closest friend Stephen's consolation.
Katie must confront her age and her career state, Stephen must move on his deep feelings for Mark, Mark must get off the wild life and focus on what matters, and Fig and Sally need to get their amateur status boosted. The cycle of these needs is magnified when the five go to a beach house and Katie's 'boyfriend' Eddie (Simon Westaway) shows up with some surprise news that changes Katie's life, allows Stephen and Mark to confront their blocks, and provides an opportunity for Fig and Sally they least expected.
The cast is for the most part very strong. There are moments of rather bad music performance that could have been edited without diminishing the story, and there are some script techniques that get in the way. But by and large this is a feel good movie that deals with relationships of all types and offers light to people who think they are incapable of love. Maxwell is saying to be ready when love comes along! Grady Harp, August 06
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
EXCELLENT film! Could watch it over and over!!!, March 2, 2009
This review is from: When Love Comes (DVD)
I don't know what the reviewer "Gordon Larko" is smoking. For some reason, he feels compelled to leave the EXACT SAME horrible review and 1 STAR rating for all GAY-THEMED movies. Probably a "personal problem" of his. Hopefully this review will help correct this imbalance. I can't believe AMAZON is allowing this GAY BASHER to use their website as a venue to spread his hate.
By the way, This is an absolutely WONDERFUL movie!
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