22 of 22 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Beautiful Book -- although I have a slight issue with some wording, November 14, 2006
This review is from: When I Met You: A Story of Russian Adoption (Hardcover)
This really is a beautiful book - both in terms of text & pictures. The story is told from a mother to her daughter, so it is girl-specific -- but still, it's great to have a story specific to Russian adoption. The biggest part where the girlishness comes into play is when it refers to pink ballet slippers. But you could always just say "slippers" instead if you want the "You" to really be your own child & he is a boy. ;) The book begins...
"When I met you, you lived in Russia, a country far across the ocean.
Now, you live here, close to my heart.
When you met me, you lived with a gruppa of sixteen other children.
Now, you live in a house, with me and Daddy and Fizz the dog."
My only issue with the book comes at the end & this is just personal preference. The text reads:
"When you met me, your Russian mother had already said good-bye.
Now, I am your mother, and I will say hello to you every day of your life."
At least at this point (at my son's young age), I would prefer not to use the term "Russian mother" & to talk about her saying good-bye. (We just say her first name instead.) I bought the book anyway, deciding to come up with my own words for that page. The following page then says:
"You will always be Russia's child.
But now, you are also mine."
I am choosing to change this wording for our use too. I would rather that it said, "a child of Russia"... so that it sounds less posessive of him -- instead emphasizing that he does belong to us. This is all personal preference, of course. :)
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20 of 20 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Like "Crazy Cakes" for Russian kids, September 28, 2005
This review is from: When I Met You: A Story of Russian Adoption (Hardcover)
Before this book came out the book that best captured the emotions of adopting our daughter was "I Love You Like Crazy Cakes". It's a beautiful book, but it's about adopting a child from China - not from Russia. Finally, we have our own book about Russian adoption that sums up the love I feel for my daughter in language simple enough for her to understand.
The thing I like best about this book is it serves as a jumping-off point for discussions about my daughter's past as well as for Russian culture. Since my daughter is only two, we don't have to get too complicated when we talk about her start in the orphanage, but I anticipate when she gets older we can use the book to get as in-depth as she needs us to be.
This is a must-buy for every adoptive parent of a Russian child.
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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Beautiful, August 11, 2005
This review is from: When I Met You: A Story of Russian Adoption (Hardcover)
My children love the beautiful illustrations and the touching story. The story is a wonderful tool for talking about the topic of adoption on a level that is appropriate for young children. I would recommend this book for any family that has adopted or for families who have friends who have adopted.
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