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When I Met You: A Story of Russian Adoption [Hardcover]

Adrienne Ehlert Bashista (Author), Christine Sykes (Illustrator)
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1933084006 978-1933084008 May 1, 2005
Based on the author's family's experience, this book describes a child's life before and after she was adopted from Russia. From scenes in the orphanage to the childÂ’s Russian birthmother, this is one of the first childrenÂ’s picture books to chronicle the special background of children adopted from Russia. Delicate watercolor illustrations perfectly compliment this poetic and heartfelt text. When I Met You is a celebration of the joy that adopting a child brings to a family.

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[This] captures the lives of our children from Eastern Europe ... A wonderful picture book of their story. --John MacLean, author, The Russian Adoption Handbook

A child's life doesn't begin at adoption, and neither should his adoption story. This charming, delightful narrative of a Russian adoption contrasts a child's life before and after adoption in ways that are respectful and insightful, explanatory and celebratory. From the first page: When I first met you, you lived in Russia, a country far across the ocean. Now, you live here, close to my heart, to the last: You will always be Russia's child. But now, you are also mine, When I Met You carefully balances memories of Russia with new experiences in America, celebrating both. --Adoptive Families Magazine

An excellent introduction for a parent to share a more complete story of adoption at age-appropriate levels. --Adoption Today

From the Publisher

Parents and reviewers have said that this book gives a wonderful introduction for parents to share with their children information about their adoption. This book blends Russian vocabulary and scenes of orphanage life with family life after the adoption has taken place, setting the scene for more intimate discussions about "where I came from."

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 38 pages
  • Publisher: DRT Press (May 1, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1933084006
  • ISBN-13: 978-1933084008
  • Product Dimensions: 11 x 8.8 x 0.4 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (22 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #626,920 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Adrienne Ehlert Bashista is the co-editor of Easy to Love but Hard to Raise: Real Parents, Challenging Kids, True Stories, and is also the author of two picture books about Russian adoption: Mishka: An Adoption Tale, and When I Met You: A Story of Russian Adoption. She's had stories, essays, and articles published in a variety of journals, both print and on-line.
She currently writes for 3 blogs, 3 about parenting her 9-year-old son, who has a variety of neurological issues that make him 'easy to love but hard to raise,' and has a personal website as well: adriennebashista.net, which hopefully pulls it all together.
Her next title for kids, due out in August of 2012, is Haunted Kids of the Carolinas, a collection of spooky tales rooted in the historical, cultural, and freaky background of North and South Carolina. She wrote this book to be a tool for teacher and school librarians to bring fun and excitement into the curriculum, and she is excited to visit schools and libraries to make kids jump out of their seats!
Adrienne lives in central North Carolina with her husband, two sons, two dogs, 25 chickens, and too many honeybees to count.

 

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22 of 22 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Beautiful Book -- although I have a slight issue with some wording, November 14, 2006
This review is from: When I Met You: A Story of Russian Adoption (Hardcover)
This really is a beautiful book - both in terms of text & pictures. The story is told from a mother to her daughter, so it is girl-specific -- but still, it's great to have a story specific to Russian adoption. The biggest part where the girlishness comes into play is when it refers to pink ballet slippers. But you could always just say "slippers" instead if you want the "You" to really be your own child & he is a boy. ;) The book begins...

"When I met you, you lived in Russia, a country far across the ocean.
Now, you live here, close to my heart.

When you met me, you lived with a gruppa of sixteen other children.
Now, you live in a house, with me and Daddy and Fizz the dog."

My only issue with the book comes at the end & this is just personal preference. The text reads:

"When you met me, your Russian mother had already said good-bye.
Now, I am your mother, and I will say hello to you every day of your life."

At least at this point (at my son's young age), I would prefer not to use the term "Russian mother" & to talk about her saying good-bye. (We just say her first name instead.) I bought the book anyway, deciding to come up with my own words for that page. The following page then says:

"You will always be Russia's child.
But now, you are also mine."

I am choosing to change this wording for our use too. I would rather that it said, "a child of Russia"... so that it sounds less posessive of him -- instead emphasizing that he does belong to us. This is all personal preference, of course. :)
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20 of 20 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Like "Crazy Cakes" for Russian kids, September 28, 2005
This review is from: When I Met You: A Story of Russian Adoption (Hardcover)
Before this book came out the book that best captured the emotions of adopting our daughter was "I Love You Like Crazy Cakes". It's a beautiful book, but it's about adopting a child from China - not from Russia. Finally, we have our own book about Russian adoption that sums up the love I feel for my daughter in language simple enough for her to understand.

The thing I like best about this book is it serves as a jumping-off point for discussions about my daughter's past as well as for Russian culture. Since my daughter is only two, we don't have to get too complicated when we talk about her start in the orphanage, but I anticipate when she gets older we can use the book to get as in-depth as she needs us to be.

This is a must-buy for every adoptive parent of a Russian child.
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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Beautiful, August 11, 2005
This review is from: When I Met You: A Story of Russian Adoption (Hardcover)
My children love the beautiful illustrations and the touching story. The story is a wonderful tool for talking about the topic of adoption on a level that is appropriate for young children. I would recommend this book for any family that has adopted or for families who have friends who have adopted.
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