When Something Feels Wrong: A Survival Guide About Abuse for Young People (Paperback)

by Deanna S. Pledge (Author) "Jimmy woke up late Saturday morning..." (more)
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Editorial Reviews

From School Library Journal
Grade 9 Up-This book will be a godsend for those struggling with any type of abuse. The author's experience as a licensed psychologist and counselor is evident as she takes readers through the different types of abuse, an extensive series of "What If" questions, a section on how to tell others, and one on healing. Each chapter ends with "Let It Out" for those journaling. The tone is light and encouraging, yet straightforward. The advice is seasoned and workable, taking into consideration that everyone's healing process moves at a different speed. The "Remind Yourself" bubbles are attention-getting and concise, for those not interested in reading every word. While this volume may not have wide circulation, it will provide valuable information for those who need it.
Lynn Evarts, Sauk Prairie High School, Prairie du Sac, WI
Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Description
Teens who have been abused need information and support to begin the healing process. They may not be willing or able to approach family members; they may not know how to start coping with the effects of these traumatizing events. Written by a psychologist who has worked with abused kids and teens for more than a decade, WHEN SOMETHING FEELS WRONG is for adolescents searching for positive ways to deal with their history of abuse. The approach is informative, realistic, and encouraging. The emphasis throughout is on the need to talk about the abuse, get help, and know that abuse is never the victim’s fault. Includes checklists, examples, journaling ideas, and resources. Written to and for teens, this book belongs in all school and public libraries, counselors’ offices, doctors’v offices, and social-service agencies.

Product Details

• Reading level: Young Adult
  
• Paperback: 200 pages
• Publisher: Free Spirit Publishing (November 2002)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1575421151
• ISBN-13: 978-1575421155
• Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.1 x 0.6 inches
• Shipping Weight: 13.1 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars See all reviews (1 customer review)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #211,968 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent resource, January 22, 2004

By	Elizabeth S. Gallaway "Information Goddess" (New England) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

Five million teens were reported abused in the year 2000; an estimated 1,200 died from some form of abuse or neglect. These horrifically high numbers indicate this is a self-help book for all teens to use as a guide to get safe, or how to help someone they know get out of an abusive situation, be it sexual, physical, emotional, or plain neglect.
Psychologist and counselor Deanna Pledge clearly defines each type of abuse, including abuse by peers, and follows up with a question and answer section. The next third of the book is about taking action, how and when to tell, who to turn to, and what to expect, while the final chapters focus on healing.
Sensitive topics are handled with delicacy. The language is carefully technical, to be as non-threatening as possible. Statistics combine with personal remarks from teens who have been there to show readers that they are not alone. Writing exercises at the end of each chapter offer outlets for emotion, while affirmations promote well-being.
Above all, Pledge stresses that abuse can happen to anyone, no one deserves to have it happen to him or her, and if it does happen you are not at fault. It is a hopeful book too, in spite of its intense subject matter. Many teens got out of abusive situation, and so can other readers. This book is an excellent start to the healing process and is a valuable resource that should be made available in all secondary school and public libraries.