White Knuckles and Wishful Thinking : Learning from the Moment of Relapse in Alcoholism and Other Addictions [Hardcover]

George Manter Du Wors (Author), Sylvane Despretz (Illustrator)

Book Description

ISBN-10: 0889370923 | ISBN-13: 978-0889370920 | Publication Date: January 1992

This book aims to explain the moment of relapse, and to provide practical help for counsellors and clients struggling to avoid relapse. The ideas and techniques are compatible with the Alcoholics Anonymous and other 12-Step programmes. DuWors explores the one relentless empirical fact about addictive relapse: at the moment of picking up the first drink/drug we all say one of two things - either "One won't hurt" (or a handful of "wishful" variations) or "Who cares?" (or a smaller, less frequent list of "white knuckle" variations). What does this mean? Why is it that so many different people - different addictions, different stages of the illness, different educational and cultural backgrounds - all say the same thing at this critical moment? After all, this is the very moment that treatment and recovery strive to prevent. And if we could understand it, might we not help more people not have to repeat it? This book comes to the conclusion we have to try and enter the psychic world of the person living it, as well as the perspective of the would-be helper. Like the author, we must sift through psychological and biological theory. But the theories mean nothing if they do not connect with human experience. The book is written for three main groups: (1) professionals and others fighting on the chemical dependency front; (2) trainees seeking to join the fray and their teachers; and (3) clients whose counsellors recommend it. Two specific relapse experiences are the main focus of this approach: (1) exactly how to deal with the actual moment and process of relapse itself; and (2) how the addict looks at himself before and after drinking, and how this "split" plays a key role in perpetuating relapse and blocking recovery. There is one "nuclear" chapter for understanding the "wishful" relapse and another for the "white knuckle" relapse. You will find three chapters on denial, how it functions up to the moment of relapse. You will find three chapters on acceptance - what it is, how it happens, how it prevents relapse. All of the chapters specify tools for talking to self or others about the experience of relapse and how to prevent it from happening again. The relationship between recovery and spirituality is clearly spelled out in terms of the actual relapse experience. The 2nd edition introduces the SPARROW model for coping, for taking the "serenity prayer" down off the wall and putting it to work. Each chapter features study guides for students of chemical dependency and treatment exercises for those struggling with their own relapse.

--This text refers to the Paperback edition.

Product Details

• Hardcover: 300 pages
• Publisher: Hogrefe & Huber Pub (January 1992)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0889370923
• ISBN-13: 978-0889370920
• Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 5.9 x 1.1 inches
• Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds
• Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (1 customer review)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,020,927 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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This review is from: White Knuckles & Wishful Thinking: Learning From the Moment of Relapse in Alcoholism and Other Addictions (Paperback)

One of the FINEST books on the process of relapse. Mr. Du Wors presents a finely crafted work; clear and concise, offering the reader a NEW look at an old problem. Written for the practicing therapist, student, and most important of all, the recovering individual. SUPERB text for use in the classroom with begining students in the field of chemical dependency counseling. Mr. Du Wors brings deeper meaning and understanding to the idea that many recovering people experience, "One won't hurt." A fine blend of 12 step philosophy, and a practical, workable guide that will CHANGE the way you look at relapse - one drink, one cigarette, or one line of cocaine does not have to lead to another and another. A MAJOR WORK in the field of addictions that has been needed in a critical and long misunderstood area of human behavior. The chain of relapse has finally been broken. Read this book today it will CHANGE the way you view the relapse process!