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Dee Marrella (Author)
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February 27, 2002
Here is a guidebook...a journal...a diary...that could save your life and provide vital life-enhancing information about you for your future caregivers. Here is your means to influence what your future caregivers will know about you and how they can interact with you.

One day most of us will find ourselves in need of some form of caregiving. Here is a unique book that provides you (the reader) with an opportunity to lay out all of the critical information you feel a future caregiver might find useful in providing for your care. From your favorite brand of toothpaste to your feelings on use of life support, this "journal" can be your way of enabling future caregivers to know you in ways they never could.

We may remain in our own homes or find ourselves in a nursing home, an assisted living center, a retirement community, a hospice, a hospital, one of our children's homes, or some other living arrangement. Whether your future caregivers are adult children, siblings, close relatives or friends, or complete strangers, there is a tremendous amount of information about you that most people don't know. Within the pages of this book are hundreds upon hundreds of topics that you can write responses to and increase the potential for better care from those that will serve you and your needs. What ever the situation, the time will most likely come when we will be looked after -- cared for -- by others.

In one compact guidebook you can share your thoughts on:

* favorite foods

* music you enjoy (and don't)

* medications that need to be taken daily

* medical conditions that could prove life-threatening

* your educational background

* your family tree

* clothes that you like to wear -- and when

* your feelings about death and your funeral

* and hundreds of other important things that could make your life more enjoyable -- and that could even save your life!

Give your future caregivers the gift of "knowledge" -- knowledge about you! This is perfect for everyone who can appreciate the importance of "information" and how critical information can be in providing the best form of caregiving in your own future.


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"...wonderful book...an opportunity to interact with those who will one day be your caregivers. An important gift for yourself." -- Mark Victor Hansen , Co-creator, #1 New York Times best selling series Chicken Soup for the Soul

"We certainly recommend this book for friends, caregiver classes, professional contacts, family and clients cognitively aware enough to complete it." -- Carolyn Whitman, MS, RN, GCM Journal (National Association of Professional Geriatric Care Managers)

"Well thought-out...deeper insights into who [one] is and [their] wants...giving caregivers a greater sense of [their] wishes." -- Wendy H. Sheinberg, Esq., NAELA News (National Association of Elder Law Attorneys) --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

About the Author

Dee Marrella has experienced life as a military wife and a corporate wife. She has been able to see much of the world and has experienced many varied cultures. Born in Paterson, New Jersey, Dee spent twenty plus years in the field of education in both Europe and the United States. Experiencing these different cultures afforded her the opportunity to observe vast differences in the ways caregivers interact with older individuals within societies.

In 1994 it was medically necessary for Dee's mother to enter a nursing hoe. Dee's constant presence at the home, watching so many caregivers deal with pain, love and guilt gave her the inspiration to create "Who Cares."

Dee resides in Wyomissing, Pennsylvania with her husband Len. They are proud parents of three grown daughters who have given them seven grandchildren.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 246 pages
  • Publisher: Dc Pr (February 27, 2002)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0970844484
  • ISBN-13: 978-0970844484
  • Product Dimensions: 7.2 x 5 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #4,647,233 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars WHO CARES BY DEE MARRELLA, April 2, 2002
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doris a richards (fort pierce, fl United States) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Who Cares: A Loving Guide for Caregivers (Paperback)
THIS BOOK HAS BEEN WRITTEN FROM THE HEART, A TRUE TO LIFE EXPERIENCE INVOLVING A LOVING WOMEN WITH HER AGING MOTHER..
THIS BOOK IS A MUST FOR WOMEN AND ALSO MEN OVER THE AGE OF 40....
IT WILL RELEIVE YOUR MIND AND LIGHTEN YOUR HEART..AS A WOMEN OVER 65 YEARS, I WISH THIS BOOK WAS WRITTEN WHEN MY PARENTS WERE ALIVE...THANK YOU DEE, YOU HAVE WRITTEN A DIARY TO HELP ALL OF THE CHILDREN AND CAREGIVERS OF THE WORLD A BETTER WAY TO HANDLE A UNPLEASANT SITUATION WE ALL HAVE TO EXPERIENCE...
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5.0 out of 5 stars Thinking of Others, September 28, 2007
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As my parents aged and needed more assistance to help them cope with life's daily issues, all of us who loved them wanted to help them to be comforatable and happy. We cared. Often, however, we did not know how to be helpful. Sometimes our well-intended words or deeds were not helpful. This wonderful book, helps us to think about those who will care for us. Now is the time for us to let them know, while we are well-enough and clear enough to put our future needs and wants into words. If we care about those who will care for us, we will help them today so that they can be helpful tomorrow.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Will help you plan the care that you want, August 23, 2007
Please read WHO CARES by Dee Marrella as soon as you can, particularly if you are now
happy and healthy . . . it is a step-by-step handbook, in which
you get to provide your future caregivers with information about
your needs and wishes.

Whether you like it or not, most of us will need assistance
some time in our life . . . this book gives you the opportunity
to decide what you want, as opposed to having somebody
else make these decisions for you.

It should be completed by those living alone in cities away
from family, adults with children, older adults before serious
illness, and anyone in the early stages of Alzheimer's
or other serious and other potentially fatal diseases.

WHO CARES will show you how to actually write a letter
to your future caregivers and what to include in it . . . I liked
the many suggestions it gave, including the one to give
providers information on what you both like (including ice
cream!) and dislike . . . instructions are even given on how
to share what you have learned in life.

There were many useful tidbits of information I gained from
reading this book; among them:

* When you come to visit, please don't tell me you can't stay
very long. That tells me that you are there because of obligation.
Truthfully, in that case, I would rather you stay away and get
whatever is rushing you out of the way. Just come and see me when
you can spend quality time holding my hand, talking to me seeing
that I am okay. I say all of the above with love and understanding--not
with anger.

* In large decisions in life, decide what is in your heart. Do not just
think with your head.

* Do not do anything you would not be proud to have your children
do in the future. They are watching

* Never measure what you do for each other. Give with your whole
heart when a family member is in need.

Lastly, there's this idea that I wished I had thought of when my
mother-in-law was alive:

* Leave a few dollars to that a pizza can be ordered or some
other special treat. (Some patients met as a group and did this
weekly in the nursing home.)
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