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Who Would You Be Without Your Story?: Dialogues with Byron Katie [Paperback]

Byron Katie
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Book Description

October 15, 2008

      This book is a collection of 15 dialogues that occurred throughout the United States and Europe with Byron Katie. Some of the people who worked with Katie have painful illnesses, others are lovelorn or in messy divorces. Some are simply irritated with a co-worker or worried about money. What they all have in common is a willingness to question, with Katie’s help, the painful thoughts that are the true cause of their suffering. In every case we see how Katie’s acute mind and fierce kindness helps each person dismantle for themselves what is felt to be unshakable reality.

Although these dialogues make fascinating reading—some are both hilarious and deeply moving at once—they are intended primarily as teaching tools. Each took place in front of an audience, and Katie never lost connection with that audience, repeatedly reminding each person in the room to follow the dialogues inwardly, asking themselves the questions the participant must ask. The dialogue between Katie and these volunteers is an external enactment of precisely the kind of dialogue each person can have with their own thoughts. The results, even in the seemingly most dire situation, can be unimagined freedom and joy.


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Katie's laser-like tough love burns away all illusions. The Times Byron Katie's work is a great blessing for our planet. -- Eckhart Tolle A spiritual innovator for the new millennium. TIME

About the Author

Since 1986, Byron Katie has introduced The Work directly to millions of people throughout the world at free public events; in prisons, hospitals, churches, corporations, universities, and schools; at weekend intensives; and at her nine-day School for The Work. She is the author of the best-selling books Question Your Thinking, Change the World; Loving What Is; I Need Your Love—Is That True?; and A Thousand Names for Joy.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 336 pages
  • Publisher: Hay House (October 15, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1401921795
  • ISBN-13: 978-1401921798
  • Product Dimensions: 5.9 x 0.8 x 9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (27 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #34,180 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Customer Reviews

We need more Katie! Upapalmtree  |  7 reviewers made a similar statement
This book has dialogues that really cover a lot. amom  |  3 reviewers made a similar statement
If you've never heard of Byron Katie I highly recommend reading her books. J. Davis  |  1 reviewer made a similar statement
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73 of 78 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Going deeper.... October 25, 2008
Format:Paperback
This book is a series of dialogues taken from workshops and seminars, so you get a good flavor of what it would be like to attend one. The dialogues, like The Work, aren't spectator sports. Reading her technique without trying it gets zero results, and reading these dialogues without 'playing along' may also yield very little results. However, if you dive in as an active audience member, these dialogues take you deeper than you may have gone doing The Work on your own.

I first discovered _Loving What Is_ a few years ago when I was going through a tough time, and couldn't get my brain out of the hamsterwheel of 'why did this happen?' 'what did I do wrong?' and most of all 'why can't I get over this?'. In less than an hour of doing The Work, my entire perspective changed. It was almost miraculous. Needless to say, I've been a believer ever since.

This isn't to say I agree with everything Katie says. And I do find her calling everyone 'sweetheart' a bit wearing. She says in one book (and again in this) something to the effect that if her kids ever tell her they won't miss her when she dies she'll celebrate because they'll be 'free.' That's a little harsh, to me. I don't aim to go that far! But that doesn't mean that I can't go a long way on the journey with good results.

The Work isn't easy, and it takes a certain amount of patience and mental flexibility to do it right. In a sense it's a relief to read these dialogues because you realize you're not the only one who reaches these walls in your thinking; and you get to see how Katie helps them break through, which you can then apply yourself.

If you're new to Byron Katie's works, there is a tiny appendix and the Judge Your Neighbor form in the book, but I don't think that's quite enough--doing the 'turn it around' statements is tricky for beginners and the appendix doesn't focus on those. You can learn by careful study of the dialogues, but you may find her website or her earlier books to be more helpful. If you've got her other books, don't pass this one over as quickly as you might. It served as a needed reinforcement for me, and in her parts of the conversations there are plenty of wonderful insights--mine is already heavily underlined.
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12 of 15 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Byron Katie is amazing! November 22, 2008
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Greetings,

I found this book very useful as a supplement to her online blog. I think I would have been confused by the book had I not already been familiar with her work. There is no substitute for watching her in action. Her kind, empathic approach does not come across in the written script of her work. What is useful about the book is it gives me a way to deeply reflect on some of the ways she handles struggles and resistance from her clients. I'm a business coach, so I find this book a useful way to dissect her work, her theory, and the way she works with clients. I think her four questions are brilliant and I use them with my clients.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Who would you be without your story July 26, 2010
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This book was the beginning of a fresh new path for me. I've never been a devotee or follower of one particular phiosophy or guru and Byron Katie doesn't ask for that. She simply points to the path of inquiry into our thoughts. Her no-nonsense kindhearted loving approach, is clear and puts all responsibility right where it belongs, with each and everyone of us. The formula is simple, 4 questions and a turn around, but these small steps can lead to a complete transformitive perspective. Her questions are called "The Work". This Work can be a huge step on the path of ending suffering and bringing peace. She has several other books. Most people suggest the first might be "Loving What is" Either one might just be a life changer for you If you'd like to notice how you opperate with your friends and loved ones. She gives us so much in this book and does it with love and a beautiful sense of humor.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Katie is incredible
I love this book. I love this book. I so love this book. So practical. A life saver. Enjoy her!
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Byron Katie is so great. She writes in such an easy to read and grasp format. What she is saying is not complex but it is profound. Love this book.
Published 3 months ago by hjmags
5.0 out of 5 stars so wonderful
I want to read it over and over. 'Hearing' the conversations makes the process of The Work so clear, so invigorating!
Published 4 months ago by ruth adams
4.0 out of 5 stars This Book Makes You Think
Warning: this is not your average "beach read" book. It takes some thought. Written in prose that reads more like streams of consciousness, sometimes you want to argue... Read more
Published 5 months ago by not inspired
2.0 out of 5 stars Very Disturbing
There are things here - such as the central idea that any one of us can (and should) investigate and challenge the thoughts, beliefs and stories that cause us trouble in our lives;... Read more
Published 5 months ago by Lindy
2.0 out of 5 stars Not my style
I like Byron Katie's work but this book's structure doesn't work well for me. When I was reading through the conversations she had with others, I found myself humming the Neil... Read more
Published 11 months ago by V. Biscay
5.0 out of 5 stars Invaluable for those studying The Work
As a life coach in training, I've been studying how to do The Work with clients. While Katie's four questions and turnarounds seem simple in theory, in practice it can be daunting... Read more
Published 19 months ago by T. Sullivan
4.0 out of 5 stars Great book
Outstanding work, worth reading for many of us. Book arrived in otherwise new condition, but appeared to have been dropped and stepped on in a warehouse environment. Read more
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