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Who's That Sitting at My Desk? [Hardcover]

Jan Yager (Author)
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May 5, 2004
Building on two decades of original research into workplace issues and friendship patterns, sociologist and consultant Dr. Jan Yager offers insights into how to succeed by mastering workplace relationships. Based on an international survey of 400 men and women and over 100 interviews, Yager discovered a relationship unique to the workplace and business. She calls it a workship--more connected than an acquaintance but not as intimate as a friend. Workships, especially positive ones, help work to be more productive and more fun. Yager is also the author of Business Protocol, When Friendship Hurts, and Friendshifts, translated into 10 languages, among other titles. Best-selling author Don Gabor, praising Yager's book, writes: "Who's That Sitting at My Desk? is the best researched and most useful book on getting along with friends and foes at work that I've ever read. Don't go to work without it!" Bibliography, resources, and index.

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Yager, an academic, sociologist, and workplace consultant, aims to dispel the myth that friendship at work is counterproductive, using results from 100 interviews both within and outside the U.S and 400 responses to her Internet survey. She coins the word workship, which she defines as the choices you make in the platonic relationships you form at work that can make or break your career or personal life. We learn about four important positive workships, which are mentor (teacher), advocate (cheerleader), trailblazer (peer who sets an example), and researcher (one who keeps you in the knowledge loop). Other important topics that the author addresses are opposite-sex considerations, dealing with conflicts, and 14 types of foes anyone could encounter, including information pirates, who take your ideas; begrudgers, whose behavior is malicious; and saboteurs, who provide misinformation, perhaps unknowingly. Although this book is clearly an infomercial for her consulting efforts, her insight into advancement and survival in the workplace is valuable for those engaged in our competitive business environment. Mary Whaley
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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 260 pages
  • Publisher: Hannacroix Creek Books (May 5, 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1889262943
  • ISBN-13: 978-1889262949
  • Product Dimensions: 9.3 x 6.3 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.3 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,340,046 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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I wrote a novel when I was ten and a full-length play when I was thirteen. In junior high school and high school, first a reporter and then a reporter as well as feature editor of the school newspapers. I began researching my first nonfiction book while still a junior in college. In a public speaking class, I decided to research the history of vegetarianism for my topic. The research was totally engrossing and it led my around the world -- to India, Germany, England, and other countries in Europe -- and it took me eight years till that first book was published by Scribner's when I was twenty-six years old. I love to read as well as write; I love to go to the theatre (as well as write plays), go to the movies (as well as write screenplays), and travel. I love people so it's hard for me to put the hours in that writing and rewriting requires but I do it because I have a need to share with others through my writings -- books, articles, and poems. My plays and screenplays are yet to be produced but I know someday it will happen.

I'm often asked what is my favorite book that I've written? That's a tough question to answer because each book represents a very special and powerful experience for me, from my five year study of crime victims, which led to VICTIMS (published by Scribner's) to my trilogy of friendship books: FRIENDSHIFTS: THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP AND HOW IT SHAPES OUR LIVES (published by Hannacroix Creek Books, Inc.) which led to interviews on OPRAH, THE VIEW, TODAY SHOW, EARLY SHOW, SUNDAY MORNING, GOOD MORNING AMERICA, and other programs; WHEN FRIENDSHIP HURTS (Simon & Schuster, Inc., Fireside), which led to major TV interviews AND author tours in the U.S. PLUS Australia and New Zealand for the Finch Publishing edition (Australian) of the book; and WHO'S THAT SITTING AT MY DESK? WORKSHIP, FRIENDSHIP, OR FOE? (published by Hannacroix Creek Books), on work and friendship.

I enjoy hearing from readers even though a personal reply can't be guaranteed.

My academic credentials include a Ph.D. in sociology from The City University of New York, an M.A. in criminal justice from Goddard College, and a year of graduate work in art therapy at Hahnemann Medical College. In addition to writing, I am a professional speaker as well as a coach. I have been speaking, or conducting workshops, since my mid-twenties before a variety of corporate, association, and government agencies, companies, or meetings. My topics include time management -- I'm author of three books on time management including WORK LESS, DO MORE (Sterling, 2008), CREATIVE TIME MANAGEMENT FOR THE NEW MILLENNIUM (Hannacroix Creek Books, 1999), and CREATIVE TIME MANAGEMENT (Prentice-Hall, 1984)-- business protocol (BUSINESS PROTOCOL, Wiley, 1991; 2nd edition, Hannacroix Creek Books, 2001); friendship (books noted above); and work relationships.

Although the majority of my books are nonfiction, I've also had my fiction published including two suspense novels co-authored with Fred Yager: UNTIMELY DEATH and JUST YOUR EVERYDAY PEOPLE. I look forward to the publication of my first solo novel at some point.

I have had one or multiple nonfiction and fiction books translated into more than twenty languages; it's wonderful and rewarding to know that readers around the world are discovering my books.

Writing a book is hard work but it is very rewarding and I feel privileged and honored to be a book author. Each new book publication is exhilarating and exciting.

I'm also working fulltime as Director of Publicity and Subsidiary & Foreign Rights for a dynamic new publishing company. It's very rewarding to use what I've learned through my various jobs in publishing over the years -- first at Macmillan, followed by Grove, and then running my own small press as well as being a published author with several excellent houses -- to help a new company and its authors and books to obtain broadcast or print publicity as well as subsidiary or international publishing opportunities.

Although authors are, of course, crucial, readers are key as well. Whether you read a book by borrowing it from the library, excerpts or the whole book for free on the Internet or your mobile phone, or you buy it to read and add to your personal or professional library, or to give it as a gift, I thank you for your interest in reading and books, my own, of course, included!



 

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5.0 out of 5 stars An Insightful New Book on Our Relationships at Work, August 19, 2004
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NiceGuy1 (Onalaska, Wisconsin USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Who's That Sitting at My Desk? (Hardcover)
Jan Yager's "Who's That Sitting at my Desk?" is one of the best books about people and work that I've read in a long time. After reading it, I shelved the book right next to my copy of Daniel Goleman's "Working with Emotional Intelligence" for easy reference. I read quite a bit and sense quality writing when I see it. Dr. Yager's newest book is beautifully written and her ideas have been thought out thoroughly. This book was not something hurriedly put together but rather reflects her longtime interest in both the business world and the topic of friendship.

Once I began reading "Who's That Sitting at My Desk?" I could barely put the book down. Jan Yager is an experienced researcher but also a beautiful and thought provoking writer. Her writing is made even more interesting by quotations from the many people she interviewed in the course of her research. Dr. Yager's powerful storytelling technique is another element that makes this newest work so believable to her readers.

One of the most important things I learned from reading this book was the difference between a "workship" and a workplace friendship. Two of my favorite chapters were "14 Types of Foes You Might Encounter" and "Personality Traits You May Find at Work."

I strongly recommend this book to both managers and workers found in any type of workplace. It should also be required reading for courses taught in schools of business.
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5.0 out of 5 stars From Grins to Grimaces, this book cuts the confusion, July 21, 2005
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Jeff Davidson (Chapel Hill, NC USA) - See all my reviews
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In her book, Who's That Sitting at my Desk, author Jan Yager gives the reader 222 pages of solid information on how to determine at work, who your friends are, who your enemies may be, and how you can tell the difference. Yager offers sparkling anecdotes, pithy quotes, and real-world solutions to navigating and circumnavigating the office jungle. If you've ever had any trouble reading the signals at work from those around you, this is the book for you!
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