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Why Are We Still Fighting?: How to End Your Schema Wars and Start Connecting with the People You Love [Paperback]

Maureen Kirby Lassen (Author)


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January 2000
With half of all marriages in the United States still ending in divorce, it's clear that an enormous number of couples need help with conflict skills. The theory of schemas is a fresh new approach to interpersonal relationships with a powerful potential for producing lasting change. Why are satisfying relationships so elusive? And why do so many couples fall into patterns of repetitive conflict? In this book, psychologist Maureen Kirby Lassen explains how our mental models about the world can short-circuit our relationships. The schemas she describes function like personal theories of reality that influence the ways we interact with others and respond in different situations. Use this book to learn how to become your own relationship expert.

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Maureen Kirby Lassen, Ph.D., is on the graduate faculty of clinical psychology at the Fielding Institute and has had a private clinical and consulting practice in the Phoenix metropolitan area since 1978. She has been a memeber of the Arizona State Board of Psychologist Examiners since 1994. For over twenty years, Dr. Lassen has been training clinical psychology doctoral students in the theory and application of cognitive behavioral principles. Co-author of Why Can't I Get What I Want? (Davies-Black, 1998; a Behavioral Science Book Selection), Dr. Lassen has conducted workshops for professionals and lay readers on understanding the role of schemas in personal and interpersonal problems, how to deal with difficult people at home and in the workplace, assertiveness training, and relationship enhancement skills.

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  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: New Harbinger Publications (January 2000)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1572241861
  • ISBN-13: 978-1572241862
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,810,899 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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First Sentence:
Therapists hear statements like these every day. Read the first page
Key Phrases - Statistically Improbable Phrases (SIPs): (learn more)
bonding schemas, bonding style, balanced schemas, different role schemas, marriage schemas, confirmatory bias process, intimacy driven, person schema, family schema, self schema, negative schemas, schema effects, schema expectations, percent pick, comfortable asking for help, stubbornly independent, schemas influence, schema changes, understanding schemas, more closeness, dynamic social system, feeling strong emotions, new schemas, schema views, having close relationships
Key Phrases - Capitalized Phrases (CAPs): (learn more)
Anxious Bonding Style, Intimacy Avoidant, Negative Pole Hyperpositive Pole, Intimacy Comfortable, Relationship Chart, United States, Both Name Relationship Continuum My Style, Doug's Distant, Likely Causes
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