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Why Can't We Be Good? [Hardcover]

Jacob Needleman (Author)
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February 1, 2007
The widely respected social philosopher embarks on his most gripping and broadly appealing work, asking the ultimate question of human nature: Why do we repeatedly violate our most deeply held values and beliefs?

For all our therapies, resolutions, self-help programs, and the vast religious and ethical literature available to men and women today, we return again and again to the same limiting and predictable behaviors, vowing to do better "next time."

And far beyond the travails of our everyday existence-although sometimes intruding upon it with a ghastly shock-we witness a world twisted in conflict and warfare in which religious systems are continually used to justify slaughter. For sensitive people everywhere, the question resounds: Why can't we be good?

After nearly forty years of weighing humanity's deepest dilemmas-working in settings ranging from university and high school classrooms to corporate offices and hospitals-bestselling author, philosopher, and religious scholar Jacob Needleman presents the most urgent, deeply felt, and widely accessible work of his career. In Why Can't We Be Good? Needleman identifies the core problem that therapists and social philosophers fail to see. He depicts the individual human as a being who knows what is good, yet who remains mysteriously helpless to innerly adopt the ethical, moral, and religious ideas that are bequeathed to him.

In his jarring depiction of this most misunderstood of dilemmas, Needleman takes the reader through various settings and case studies: a college classroom, where students of all ages and backgrounds agonize to define goodness in an era marked by relativism and fundamentalism; a chilling psychological experiment from a generation earlier that reveals the capacity for brutality that lurks within us all-and our inability to see it; ancient stories from Rabbinic Judaism and mystical Christianity where, possibly, esoteric schools have left fragments of their own deep inner understanding of humanity's predicament and how to begin addressing it; and the words of Socrates, which lay bare the problems of the human psyche while hinting at a missing element that would serve to instruct us not merely on that which is good, but on how to commence our own efforts toward becoming the kind of men and women we are capable of being.

Steely-eyed, yet hopeful, Needleman provides ideas, and even exercises, that can start to show us the largeness of this problem-the problem of our inability to be good-and the precious early steps toward struggling with it. Here is one of the great philosophical considerations of our era, crafted in a manner that speaks to the needs of every sensitive person.


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Most people have a intrinsic desire to do good rather than evil, yet all humans fail in perplexing ways to do good. Needleman's titular question has haunted philosophers and religious thinkers since Socrates. Needleman, professor of philosophy at San Francisco State and popular author of Lost Christianity, offers his eloquent and entertaining thoughts about why humans are such flops at goodness. He draws on a wide range of philosophers, religious thinkers and psychologists—from Socrates to Buddha to Rabbi Hillel—and discovers that our inability to be good is simple: humans are creatures of choice, and our freedom allows us to make bad choices as well as good ones. This freedom, however, is also "the freedom to love and act justly toward man." Using exercises from his own classes, Needleman suggests that the practice of attending to the other—listening carefully, repeating what the other person has said to ensure an accurate hearing—moves us a long way toward achieving the good. Though Needleman's answer to this age-old question about goodness is no more satisfying or original than any other, his lively prose, storytelling skills and lucid insights draw us into an animated conversation with a brilliant teacher. (Feb.)
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"As usual Jacob Needleman gets to the heart of the matter with eloquence and efficiency. Perhaps it would be better to say the dark heart of the matter, for we find ourselves beset with trials and tribulations of our own shameful making. How to get out? Here is the road map-with a beautiful speck of light at the end of a very difficult path. This is Needleman''s best work." -Ken Burns "An immensely learned man who is unembarrassed by the big questions that many of his fellow philosophers prefer to dodge." -Chicago Tribune "This book doesn''t offer quick fixes or shortcuts, but it does present a way for readers attempting to follow an ethical, spiritual path to recognize, understand, and assimilate their human limitations." -New Age Retailer

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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 304 pages
  • Publisher: Tarcher; 1ST edition (February 1, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1585425419
  • ISBN-13: 978-1585425419
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.2 x 1.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (9 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #634,979 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Jacob Needleman, the acclaimed author of The American Soul and Money and the Meaning of Life, is a professor of philosophy at San Francisco State University, and a former director of the Center for the Study of New Religions at the Graduate Theological Union in Berkeley.

 

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32 of 35 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars One of the Most Important Books of Our Times, February 15, 2007
This review is from: Why Can't We Be Good? (Hardcover)
So many of us today proclaim both to ourselves and to others the ideal of real love. If we look honestly at our thoughts, emotions, and actions as we interact with others, however, we often see a huge contradiction between the ideal of loving our neighbors as ourselves and how we actually live and behave. We see how little we "listen" either to those around us or to our own inmost Self. We see that distracted and entranced by our own ideas, concepts, beliefs, assumptions, fears, conditioning, and so on, we seldom have either the wish or the ability to truly listen. At such moments we are faced with the fundamental fact of our lack of "moral power" and of our low level of being. We see that the so-called outer world of confusion, misunderstandings, conflict, and violence in which we live is a direct manifestation of this fact. We see that we are not fulfilling the great promise of what it means to be fully conscious human beings, and that the end result is conflict and even disaster for both ourselves and the world.

As a long-time professor of philosophy at San Francisco State University and the well-known author of many highly respected books including "The American Soul," "The Wisdom of Love," "Lost Christianity," and "Money and the Meaning of Life," Jacob Needleman has long been working with students of all kinds and speaking and writing about some of the greatest dilemmas of modern life, including what it means to live as a conscious, moral human being.

His new book, "Why Can't We Be Good?", is perhaps his greatest work to date and one of the most important books of our times. It is a "must read" for anyone interested in the truth about what is necessary to fulfill our promise as conscious human beings capable of acting justly and lovingly toward ourselves and our neighbors.

"Why Can't We Be Good?" is filled with transformative ideas and insights, practical exercises, and powerful "listening" exchanges between Needleman and his students. This book will not only help you think, feel, and sense in new, insightful ways about what it means to be truly human, but it will also give you a direct and transformative glimpse into the real meaning of conscience and its relationship to listening and love. Needleman makes clear that, for most of us at least, it is only through "conscious suffering" that we can ultimately learn "to serve what is good."

Needleman warns us, however, that "Conscious suffering must not be confused with what we ordinarily speak of as 'guilt.' What we are speaking about here is a full experience of seeing, a full confrontation with our being; a vibrant acceptance of our incapacity to do what is good without masking the truth with self-pity or futile vows--an acceptance of the fact that our actions and all our manifestations are a result of our level of being. This act of seeing is the movement that brings the two worlds toward each other--the inner world and the outer world, the world of inner aspiration toward love and justice, and the world of outer action and behavior."

"Why Can't We Be Good?" is a book to be savored and treasured. But beware! It you truly listen to what it reveals about you and how you live as you think together with Professor Needleman and listen to the great and expansive ideas, insights, and powerful exchanges and try the exercises that are given, you will probably not be able to continue living in the same old way. Indeed, this is a book that may well change your life.
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15 of 17 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars The Metaphysics of Ethics as a Modern Philosophic Inquiry, March 4, 2007
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This wonderful book is a western philosophical inquiry into ethics. Needleman examines Greek (Plato, Socrates), Roman (Marcus Aurelius) and Hebrew Judaic (Hillel, Torah) sources and then steps outside tradition to explain what is most important in examining ethics for man and woman today. Needleman pours out his soul presenting the deepest questions of man. His excitement and desire for us to understand is present throughout the book.

Not just simple ethics is discussed but the metaphysics of ethics and examples of moral mysticism, moral suffering and the ethics of thinking together. Needleman explains how thinking is an ethical act and the book includes classroom discussions and exercises, the ethical significance of thinking together and the ethics of attention. The quest for ethics involves intention, preparation, ideas, listening, struggling, silence and especially attention.

Needleman uses the Greek example of working together at thinking and focuses on helping us understand the ethical Talmudic wisdom of Hillel who said "what is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor." He explains that the essential work of man is to remember the Self and as we love ourselves, love God, love our neighbor - then we are capable and able to be good.

The book is not religious but rather a philosophical inquiry and for the most part steps out of tradition to discuss man's striving for morality and the ability to be good. There are some examples within the Judao-Christian tradition but only scant mention of the teachings of the East (especially Hinduism is missing).

Throughout the book Needleman enriches, embellishes, enhances, amplifies and articulates in beautiful philosophic prose. He adds exquisite dimensions to increase our contemplation and he simply reveals many secrets of the ages.

I was one of Jacob Needleman's many philosophy students at San Francisco State University (1968-71) and now almost 40 years later I still learn from this important American philosopher. I thank him for sharing again with us and for dedicating the book to his "students."
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11 of 13 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Marvelous Insights, But A Puzzling Pluralism, September 20, 2007
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Needleman does a tremendous job of exposing the stark reality of what is inside all of us - a knowledge of what is good, but a lack of power to do what we know is good. This is one of the most important ideas elicited by Needleman and one that we all must come to grips with. The moral problem of man is not so much a lack of moral knowledge as it is a strange lack of moral energy, moral power. And so the goal of ethics becomes not simply to do what is good whenever we can - because we will fail all too often - but to become people who have the power to do what is good. As Needleman writes: "The root of all moral obligation is the obligation to become capable of morality" (p. 202).

So how do we become people with moral power? Needleman argues that it begins with objective introspection - seeing our inner life for what it truly is. Once we come to grips with the fact that we cannot be good on our own, we must seek to receive help "from above." But here is where Needleman is dangerously vague. Is this Being "from above" God? Or is it the Buddhist Void? Or the Hindu Atman? Needleman is comfortable saying "all of the above," embracing a pluralist vision of Ultimate Reality: "I am obliged to care for the life that has been given me from within and above by God or the universal world of nature, or who or whatever is the father and mother of reality" (p. 197).

However, Needleman does affirm that this Ultimate Being is a "force of downward-descending love" (p. 226). The concept of love is essential, according to Needleman, agreeing that love is the ultimate goal of ethics. But do all of the differing accounts of God/Ultimate Reality see Him/Her/It as "downward-descending love"? Do all of these differing worldviews even see love as the central goal of ethics? I believe the answer to both questions is clearly no. For example, I cannot conceive of how an impersonal Ultimate Reality can even be capable of love, or even why love would be that important within that worldview. Additionally, within monotheism there are a countless number of portraits of God, each having a distinct view of the degree of love found within God. In other words, there are countless views on just how loving God is, and one's view of God's love is crucial for one's moral development, as Needleman I think would agree.

So this pluralism is puzzling to me. But I found Needleman's insights extremely helpful within my Christian worldview. This book encouraged me to pursue as a top priority introspective time with Christ, seeking personal growth and power as I dialogue openly with Him about what really lies in my heart, so that I can become more and more a person capable of goodness in everyday life. If you are interested in this subject, I also recommend any book written by Dallas Willard.
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