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Winner of the 2014 ASA 'Sociology of Emotions Recent Contribution Award
"A bold, thought-provoking book."
Times Higher Education
"An important book … full of arresting ideas about love in our time"
Los Angeles Review of Books
"A significant achievement, a major analysis of love and an important contribution to sociology. It deserves to have a wide readership wherever love is."
"A valuable and much needed contribution to the Western discussion of how emotions and capitalism influence each other."
"An insightful attempt at tackling the timely and difficult question of the relationship between romantic suffering and (post)modernity."
"Illouz interrogates the travails of modern love and charts a course through the emotional geography of contemporary feeling … [This book] will surely prove to make a valuable contribution as an addition to student reading lists, both for the ideas that it puts forward and for the lively debate and heart-felt discussion that it will generate among both women and men."
LSE Review of Books
"Like any sociologist worth her salt, Illouz pushes readers to consider how our experience of love might largely be created by the kind of society we live in. Tracing a sort of history of emotions through archives and literature since the Regency era, she argues that in earlier times people’s feelings about love and sentiment were quite different from those we take as self-evident ... It is not our own fault love hurts, Illouz tells us; it is inherent to our modern condition."
"Why Love Hurts is a tour de force, a thrilling read. Unseating the primacy of individual psychology as the reigning explanation for the travails of modern love, and demonstrating the profoundly social nature of our most intimate feelings, Eva Illouz etches a whole new emotional atlas."
Laura Kipnis, Northwestern University, and author of Against Love: A Polemic
"Eva Illouz's Why Love Hurts is brilliant - the indispensable book on the social power and meaning of sex and love. And with a bonus: it cuts to the core of the modern emotional condition, all told."
Todd Gitlin, Columbia University
"Eva Illouz's enormous talent to interpret vast empirical material from interviews, statistics, magazines, and novels with sociological imagination and philosophical understanding leads to striking and well-grounded results, such as the increasingly important role of sexiness and physical attraction in choosing mates. A milestone in the investigation of changing patterns of love and marriage."
Axel Honneth, University of Frankfurt and Columbia University
"In this bold and ground-breaking book Eva Illouz argues that there is something qualitatively new in the modern experience of romantic suffering. Readers may not agree with all of Illouz's hypotheses, but none will fail to be provoked by them - and in so doing be forced to challenge their own assumptions about love and modern life itself."
Susan Neiman, Director of the Einstein Forum and author of Moral Clarity: A Guide for Grownup Idealists
"Recently named one of the most important thinkers of the future by German newspaper Die Zeit, Illouz could very well be the twenty-first century's next great public intellectual."
Guernica: A Magazine of Art & Politics
"No one will be able to discuss love without referring to this book."
Kinda all over the place. Just have to stay focused and sober. Other than that very good interesting read!Published 6 months ago by Lauramoreno
Brilliant book, valuable for all intelligent readers. It's especially useful for her historical comparisons, and discussion of the complex reasons why love has changed over the... Read morePublished 11 months ago by AGN
Why Love Hurts is an excellent, erudite book written by a professional who can explain universal phenomena to lay persons.Published 23 months ago by Merle Hirsch
This book makes you reexamine every assumption you once had about something very basic - romantic love -- one of the most important building blocks of our experience, one that lays... Read morePublished on July 5, 2013 by Naomi Kehati-bronner
If you've ever been dumped, even by someone who seems like an ideal match (and who hasn't?) you will agonize over WHY. I found many of the reasons in this book! Read morePublished on June 25, 2013 by Susan Schenck
When I was a kid, I read The Hobbit, then I read the Lord of the Rings trilogy, which was a bit tougher of a read, and then I read The Silmarillion, which was an even tougher read... Read morePublished on June 19, 2013 by j-j-j-jinx
very interesting view of how ending relationships affect people. This book goes into depth regarding how people react to loss and ending of relationships and the effect it has on... Read morePublished on May 16, 2013 by Amazon Customer
This was a slow read for me. It is technical and not very attention-grabbing. I didn't have a problem putting this down when reading it. Read morePublished on May 15, 2013 by T. Casto
This is for serious readers, not for the typical new age self-help book reader. If you have the patience for a college level examination of modern dating and romance, this is the... Read morePublished on May 13, 2013 by Neal Reynolds