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Why Marriage Matters: America, Equality, and Gay People's Right to Marry [Paperback]

Evan Wolfson
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May 24, 2005
"At its core, the freedom-to-marry movement is about the same thing every civil rights struggle has been about: taking seriously our country's promise to be a nation its citizens can make better, its promise to be a place where people don't have to give up their differences or hide them in order to be treated equally."

Why Marriage Matters offers a compelling, intelligently reasoned discussion of a question at the forefront of our national consciousness. It is the work of one of the most influential attorneys in America, who has dedicated his life to the protection of individuals' rights and our Constitution's commitment to equal justice under the law. Above all, it is a clear, straightforward book that brings into sharp focus the very human significance of the right to marry in America -- not just for some couples, but for all.

Why is the word marriage so important? Will marriage for same-sex couples hurt the "sanctity" of the institution? How can people of different faiths reconcile their beliefs with the idea of marriage for same-sex couples? How will allowing gay couples to marry affect children?

In this quietly powerful volume, the most authoritative and fairly articulated book on the subject, Wolfson demonstrates why the right to marry is important -- indeed necessary -- for all couples and for America's promise of equality.


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From Publishers Weekly

A nationally renowned attorney and director of Freedom to Marry, Wolfson hails the movement for marriage equality as "one of the first important civil rights campaigns of the 21st century" and grounds support for it within the logic of the long-established protest traditions in U.S. history: abolition, the women's suffrage movement and the racial equality movements of the 1950s and '60s. Unlike those who support gay marriage as a way to regulate what they see as the self-destructive sexual practices of homosexuals (David Brooks, Jonathan Rauch, Andrew Sullivan), Wolfson sidelines the issue of morality and discusses the right to marry as part of each citizen's inalienable claim to what the Declaration of Independence calls the "pursuit of happiness." Framing his argument strictly in terms of civil rights and grounding it in conventional definitions of the public significance of marriage, Wolfson is refreshing, smart, thorough and easy to follow. Most provocatively, Wolfson excises "gay marriage" from the debate entirely, writing that the term "impl[ies] that same-sex couples are asking for rights and privileges that married couples do not have, or for rights that are something lesser or different from what non-gay couples have. In fact, we don't want 'gay marriage,' we want marriage." For now, it is available in Boston.
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Newsday a concise, logical primer...well worth reading...a book that supporters of gay marriage could give to friends and relatives who are undecided on the issue (or only mildly opposed)

Out Magazine Each chapter is an excellent and sensible essay responding to common questions same-sex couples get asked. Order a pile...and start handing them out to family, colleagues, and friends.

Gay City News Anybody interested in engaging in the current policy debates can find the information and arguments they will need in this compact, well-organized book that is both easy and pleasant to read.

Portland (OR) Mercury August 5, 2004 ...concise and efficient arguments...Thanks to this book, I now feel capable of having productive discussions about equal marriage.

The Oregonian August 1, 2004 ...this is one useful book. Armed with Wolfson's arguments, you could sell anyone with an IQ over room temperature on the wisdom and humanity of marriage equality.

Library Journal To his credit, the author addresses head-on religious objections to gay marriage....Well written and evenhanded....Recommended.

Publishers Weekly ...refreshing, smart, thorough, and easy to follow.

Kirkus Reviews ...thoughtful, reasonable, and eminently worthy.

"Seasoned Authors, Reasoned Arguments" - marriage books by Andrew Sullivan and Evan Wolfson, Bay Window ...accessible to the layperson on both technical and emotional levels.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Simon & Schuster (May 24, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0743264592
  • ISBN-13: 978-0743264594
  • Product Dimensions: 0.8 x 5.4 x 8.4 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (19 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #743,077 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars The Definitive Argument for Equal Marriage Rights September 21, 2004
Format:Hardcover
This book achieves the rare feat of making a non-fiction book into a page- turner. The arguments of course are compelling, reflecting the most persuasive points in a pithy fashion. It is the examples of how marriage impacts individual lives that keeps you reading it. Quite simply, the combination of effective argument and people's lives will convince the most skeptical. Even those who disagree with equal marriage rights should read this to see what arguments they need to defeat. A great book for anyone - you won't put it down.
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23 of 25 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars If you care about Marriage, read this book! August 7, 2004
Format:Hardcover
After reading WHY MARRIAGE MATTERS, AMERICA, EQUALITY AND GAY PEOPLE'S RIGHT TO MARRY, by Evan Wolfson, I felt proud to be an American again! I have struggled with the direction that this country has been going in and wanted to believe that we're truly are a country of the people, by the people and for the people. The underlying patriotism and sense of hope that is the basis of this book struck a chord in my heart.

America is struggling with the issue of marriage and who should be allowed to marry. WHY MARRIAGE MATTERS addresses the concerns of the everyday American with respect and accuracy. Wolfson touches on issues from the religious response to the historical argument, from racial equality to what the opponents of marriage equality DON'T want you to know. He does this with and consistent reverence to the founding principles of our great country and reminds the reader of those principles with inspiring quotes from American leaders through the ages. It is the duty of every American to read this book so that they will be able to discuss the issue of marriage with their friends and families.

The final message of this book is one of unity and hope. We all need this. I strongly recommend that every person who cares about marriage buy 2 copies of this book, one to read and one to share with those they love. There is nothing greater about this country than the importance we all place on communication and communion of truth. If everyone approached the issue of marriage from Wolfson's point of view, there would be far less misunderstanding surrounding this very important American institution. Please do yourself, and your family, a favor and read WHY MARRIAGE MATTERS.
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17 of 18 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars If you read one book on this topic, this is it August 3, 2004
Format:Hardcover
Having known Evan Wolfson and his work for years, I expected the book to be brilliant. What astounded me was that Wolfson has found a way both to cover all the issues and to provide a great read. After I began the book, I couldn't put it down. Integrating personal stories and analysis,the book is compelling from cover to cover. He is truly the Martin Luther King, Jr. of this movement.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Loved it
Now remember, this is a very biased book. This is Wolfson's oppion, lifestyle, and he's a lawyer, so he knows how to get his point across. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Gretchen Mowery
5.0 out of 5 stars Interested in marriage equality? Read this book.
This book is excellent. My only problem was my own problem! Ha! I got irritated because everything made sense to me. I questioned why many times while reading this book. Read more
Published 22 months ago by Leah
5.0 out of 5 stars Arrived Promptly
This book was a last-minute reference for a term paper so I was under time constraints. It arrived promptly and in excellent condition.
Published on December 30, 2009 by Lynette E. Mcevoy
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent
Wolfson does an excellent job of explaining how gay marriage is a civil rights issue. He details the flaws in the anti argument.
Published on June 10, 2009 by Hedgetiggy
5.0 out of 5 stars This book gives a realistic, positive perspective to gays gaining the...
This is a book EVERY American should read. Because whether you are gay or love someone who is, Evan puts the issue of 'marriage equality' into a hopeful, just perspective that... Read more
Published on February 27, 2008 by Barbara Elgin
3.0 out of 5 stars expected more
I just finished Evan Wolfson's Why Marriage Matters, and although I am salivating at the thought of spending the rest of my night immersed in a tirade that focuses on what this... Read more
Published on April 21, 2006 by B. L. Williams
4.0 out of 5 stars Good primer on the next major civil rights issue
Do gays have the right to marry? This is emerging as the next civil rights issue to cross the American political scene. Read more
Published on February 6, 2006 by Newton Ooi
5.0 out of 5 stars The best book there is on why marriage is for ALL Americans
Evan Wolfson's book turned me into a believer. Even after seven years of sharing my life with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, I still didn't think it mattered... Read more
Published on August 9, 2005 by M. Kessler
5.0 out of 5 stars Equal Rights, Right On!
Jonathan Rauch and Andrew Sullivan have written pro-gay marriage books, but unlike Wolfson's book, they approach the issue from ancillary perspectives (for example, how it will... Read more
Published on August 1, 2005 by D. S. Heersink
1.0 out of 5 stars This guy is an attorney?
While a previous reviewer calls this work "irrefutable", those with logical minds know better. Obviously, this book is based upon the false premise that homosexuals are denied the... Read more
Published on March 7, 2005 by LogicalConservative
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